A little explanation of the Coquette Game

The very first thing that you have to understand about the coquette game is that the very essence of the game is about validating the seduced. In this type of seduction, you are not really using any quality of yours to seduce the other person. Rather, you are sexually validating the other person. Well, it might not be sexual validation only. The coquette game is based on the concept of validation and approval.

Now, making someone qualify to yourself can be done in two ways: first, you have too high perceived-value and she feels the need to qualify herself to you. Second, you disapprove her, push her hard to get her to stand up and prove herself.

The first one, you don’t have to really do anything. All you have to do just sit and watch, keeping a poker face where she at times feels that she has gained your approval whereas at other times, she feels a doubt. In the latter case, you have to really stand up first of all and then challenge her. You have to disapprove her in a way, where she “feels the NEED” to qualify herself. If you are emotionally push her away too much or too far, you will literally snap the string and she feels insulted, de-validated and rejected. That’s not what your intention should be. You should be using a straight face, disinterested body language, controlled challenging…with a base of comfort and pleasure…so that she stands up to your challenge. She should feel that you are qualifying her and not rejecting her. At this time, you are being basically dominant over her reality, and throw in some strong displays of sexual interest to turn her on even more and hint at the pleasure and hope of getting back your validation.

Stages of Seduction

First Stage (essence – playful challenging flirtation, breeding challenge, attraction and likeability)

·         Playful

·         Challenge

·         Fun

·         Flirtatious

Transition to…Second Stage (essence - serious sharing, breeding trust and comfort)

·         Comfortable

·         Connect

·         Rapport

·         Sharing

Transition to…Third Stage (essence – serious sexuality, breeding sexual tension and craving)

·         Sexual State

·         Seductive Words

·         Direct Sexual Remarks

·         Romantic Compliments

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Is IT a GAME to ME?!

Just now, I have been talking with a girl, my friend, and she kind of led me to a big epiphany. Okay, here I am going to ask you a question. Why do you follow my blog? Why do you have to learn all these rules, techniques and wise words…? What is your motive behind it all? She told me that I make those “unsuspecting” girls fall in love with me. That they are some kind of challenge to me and if I conquer them (that sounds very cheesy to me though!), then it ONLY acts as an ego boost to me.

In this short article I aim to answer her question and it will act as a eye-opener for everyone who are coming to learn this interesting, intriguing sphere of human psychology.

Her main question, objection or complaint was “Is it a GAME TO ME?”

Okay, let’s dissect it into two parts: 

1. Is IT a Game?
2. Is it a Game to Me?
   

Have You Ever Really Loved A Woman?! - My Favorite Song by Bryan Adams

To really love a woman
To understand her - you gotta know it deep inside
Hear every thought - see every dream
N' give her wings - when she wants to fly
Then when you find yourself lyin' helpless in her arms
You know you really love a woman

When you love a woman you tell her
that she's really wanted
When you love a woman you tell her that she's the one
she needs somebody to tell her
that it's gonna last forever
So tell me have you ever really 
- really really ever loved a woman?

To really love a woman
Let her hold you - 
til ya know how she needs to be touched
You've gotta breathe her - really taste her
Til you can feel her in your blood
N' when you can see your unborn children in her eyes
You know you really love a woman

When you love a woman 
you tell her that she's really wanted
When you love a woman you tell her that she's the one
she needs somebody to tell her
that you'll always be together
So tell me have you ever really - 
really really ever loved a woman?

You got to give her some faith - hold her tight
A little tenderness - gotta treat her right
She will be there for you, takin' good care of you
Ya really gotta love your woman...

Then when you find yourself lyin' helpless in her arms
You know you really love a woman
When you love a woman you tell her
that she's really wanted
When you love a woman you tell her that she's the one
she needs somebody to tell her
that it's gonna last forever
So tell me have you ever really 
- really really ever loved a woman?

Just tell me have you ever really, 
really, really, ever loved a woman? You got to tell me
Just tell me have you ever really,
really, really, ever loved a woman?

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How to Flirt With Quality Hotties (HB 9 or 10)

Not to boast, I have reached a certain standard where I don’t need to think about getting the HB 6, 7 or 8’s. I am totally confident, that if I get the chance of talking with her, she will fall in love with me. That calls for guts I suppose! I only care about the true hotties nowadays. They are the ones who know that they are in high demand and they only love to socialize with likeminded or like-valued people. To be honest, they are very judgmental about the men she would talk to even.

How to flirt with these amazing hot women

Flirting is just instilling the fact into her mind that you are thinking about sex with her, about your romance together. She knows you are thinking about it and she indirectly is forced to imagine that. Flirting is just being sexually suggestive. You make it enjoyable for her. That’s the secret.

There are in fact three things that need to be watched while flirting with a hottie, viz. non-pressurizing, fun and seductive.