Showing posts with label newbie. Show all posts
Showing posts with label newbie. Show all posts

Jul 25, 2012

Do Looks Matter To Women?

Amazing story to share with you guys about the question “do looks matter to women?”  Honestly, I think my biggest “eye-roller” comment that I make is when I tell men that looks do not matter to women. But it’s true.

I’ve said it a million times that yes looks DO matter, but only in the first 5 seconds of interaction, because for the first 5 seconds we have nothing else to base our perception of you on.  But something interesting happens after the first 5 seconds.  A man’s face starts to morph, as we start to see his character.  Good character gets more attractive. Bad character gets down right ugly.

Sep 2, 2011

5 First Date Mistakes that will Lower Your Value and Kill Your Attraction Game

Within the first 10 minutes of meeting a woman, you can be
your own worst enemy. Say the wrong thing and you'll KILL her
attraction for you. Pick Up Artists call these mistakes
demonstrating lower value (abbreviated DLV).

The key is to be interesting and show value to attract women.
Today you'll see how to eliminate low value verbal mistakes from
your game to prevent you from torpedoing your own seduction
success.

Aug 25, 2011

STRING HER ALONG...BUT NOT IN THE WAY YOU THINK

Today we're going to talk about everyone's favorite subject:
Meeting women.

It never fails to amaze me.  Just when you think every possible
idea on this topic has been thought of and written about, something
new just appears out of the blue.

The latest instance is no exception.

Recently a guy flew in to see me.  Since he hit town about noon,
our first stop was to one of my favorite lunchtime haunts.

Aug 22, 2011

5 WAYS TO BECOME "P-WHIPPED" BY WOMEN, WITHOUT EVEN KNOWING WHAT HIT YOU

There's always a lot of emphasis placed on not giving one's power
away when relating to women.  Yet, the exact meaning of this
concept continually eludes a lot of guys out there.

It's easy to see why this would be the case. 

On one hand, the vast majority of us don't want to be controlling
I/Js ("Idiot/Jerks").  

Jul 31, 2011

Common Dating Senses For Men

 As I've mentioned in the past, your success in dating
is dictated by your actions, which in turn are dictated by your
attitude.

       So how do you get into the "right attitude" on a date?
The answer is by using your "common dating senses".

       Here are 6 basic common dating senses that you should
have on a date:

Jul 28, 2011

Why Women Walk All Over Some Men

Every once in awhile, a reader will email me and ask,
"Marius, why do women always walk all over me?"

       Here is what I always tell them:

       It's because you let them.

       After all, you can *only* be walked all over if you
*allow* other people to walk all over you.

Jul 16, 2011

Two Reasons Why An Average Guy Does Not Get The Girl

Average Guy vs. Pick Up Artist, is this month's topic. If you're an
Average Guy (or don't know if you are) listen up because...

...here's TWO REASONS the AVERAGE GUY never gets the girl:

1. THE AVERAGE GUY IS BORING

When the Average guy approaches a woman he says:

"Hey how are you?" and "Where are you from?"

Jul 11, 2011

She's Not My Type - Read What Shelley Says

On to Shelley - 

"Late yesterday evening I received a somewhat funny phone call from

one of my good female friends. Here's the situation she described...

For the past few Friday's her and the man she's dated for the past
6 years, have been trying to escape from their work/ businesses
early and enjoy a late lunch together, followed by some shopping
for the house, going to an art gallery, or doing something
together.

Jul 5, 2011

Slow Dating Game - You Will Die!

Dating Question:

I approached a girl and we hit it off really well.  Got her 
number, got to go out a couple of times with her, and she was 
really flirty (touched my chest and put her head on my shoulder 
a lot).  I thought it was all good.  
 
However, being an "unnatural," after about a month, I told her 
how I felt and asked her for a kiss.  Yes, you read that right, 
I ASKED.  

3 Things You Must Know How To Meet Women

Here are 3 things that you must know about meeting women...

1. You must learn to act with complete and total confidence... Even
if you aren't naturally confident around women, it CAN be learned,
and a lot faster than you might think.

2. You must understand how women REALLY think, and what it takes to
build REAL attraction...

May 25, 2011

Being Shy SUCKS Big Time!

Being shy is like the anti-thesis to
being good with women.

In case you're not familiar with the
term anti-thesis, let me put it like this:

If being good with women was
sweet as pumpkin pie, or fresh
as apples from a New England farm...

May 13, 2011

What Attracts a Woman To a Man?

Tell you something…even at the end of his life, a man still tries to figure out the answer to this question. And the answer is not so easy…phew!

I can’t say that I have figured out the answer to the question, but after these couple of years, I do have a vague idea of what I THINK is the answer.

Apr 20, 2011

Why Women Cheat In Relationships? – A Tip from ‘An Affair to Remember’ Movie

Why would Ms. McKay get so hooked to Niccolo, even she knew she was engaged? Of course, Cary Grant, who played the role of Niccolo, is no doubt irresistible. Even her fiancé asked this question – “Did you find him irresistible?” And she couldn’t answer, and said, “Sorry”.

Apr 17, 2011

Six Date Movies You Haven't Probably Thought Of Yet

It's been a couple of years since I suggested some great movies to
watch with a woman, so I figured an update was long overdue.

Let's face it.  While "dinner and a movie" is a flat-out terrible
idea for a first date, that doesn't mean that either having dinner
OR watching movies is something that should NEVER happen when with
a woman.

Mar 27, 2011

6 Steps for Eliminating the "Boyfriend Obstacle"

So... you meet a great woman but find out that she has a
boyfriend. It happens to the best of us.

The question is what do when you encounter the "boyfriend
obstacle?"

Do you give up OR try to still make her
yours?

Mar 18, 2011

How To Make Her Interested In Me?

Question:

I've met a woman I'm interested in at a class I am taking (let's
call her "The Blonde").  I could use some advice on how to play
this.

We met after class one night, about 3 classes ago.  I find her to
be extraordinarily pretty--great body and with excellent style--so I
imagine she gets a lot of attention from guys.

Mar 12, 2011

Never Apologize, Never Explain!

"Never apologize, never explain."

That's a quote from one of the most successful and influential
prime ministers in British history, Benjamin Disraeli.

Mar 11, 2011

Indecision Can Ruin You: What is She to You?

There's a point I feel I haven't clarified enough in the past and want to clarify today.  Because we've talked a lot about how important it is to have women in your life who are just friends and how they can help you to build a social circle and attract other women, and we've also talked about how oftentimes it's better not to hit on the beautiful women you meet because they probably have even better looking friends that you might like more.