It's All About What You Want From The Girl

So, you have read my blog and my articles, and you probably know what women want, right? If you don’t know, here’s a recap of the truth.

Women want TWO things from you.

When You Give An Implied Compliment To A Woman...

Using something known as an “implied compliment” is a fabulous way to capture a woman’s attention and make her receptive to your approach. For many reasons, in fact, it’s better than paying her any sort of direct compliment.

Why Some Men Have Trouble Being A Challenge

Here's something I've noticed about these guys:

       They don't understand the concept of "supply and
demand" at all!

       As a Natural, one of the most important things
to you should be attracting a continuous stream of friends
and women that you can hang out with - even if you're never
going to date them. 

Flirting Examples For Picking Up Girls

How To Series – Find a Girl of Your Dreams

I have planned to create a series on dating and pickup. In this article, I am going to tell you in a few minutes how to find the girl of your dreams.

Top Dating and Pickup Gurus (As Voted In 2010)

1. Jon Sinn

For a second year in a row Jon Sinn has been named Pickup Artist of the year.  It is hard to argue against the decision as very few men live, breath, and practice pickup like Jon.

While many coaches and pickup artists are happy to collect a paycheck teaching the same thing year after year, Jon strives to continually innovate and refine his art.

Jon has been described as a machine in the field, able to counter any objection a woman has, and continue plowing along until finally scoring her.  As a teacher, the self proclaimed King of Content, as put out countless free videos, audio, and blog posts that have helped and inspired millions of men around the world.

This year Jon has released the hugely popular Seduction Roadmap where he taught thousands of men how to take a conversation from flirtation to seduction.

2. Rob Judge

Rob Judge, new on the scene in 2009, cracked the t0p 10 last year.  Over the past year Rob has morphed into one of the most prolific pickup artists and dating coaches in the community.

He has quickly amassed a huge following of loyal followers, and his ebook Date Hotter Girls was one of the highest rated books of the year.

Out of all the guys in the TOP 10 I’ve had the most opportunity to see Rob in action.  The guy is the real deal.  Although his game is not flashy, he gets the job done TIME AFTER TIME.  It is a rare night that Rob leaves a bar in NY without a woman by his side.

Not only is he amazing infield, but Rob has a great ability to teach his game.  Over the past year Rob has contributed articles all over the internet, and my interviews with him are usually some of the most popular I’ve done.

Importance of Opening During Pickup Women

I want to look at the actual importance of an opening; the
question being: is it the most important part of pick up or maybe
the least?

I usually go with the latter statement but I also accept that in
some situations the "opener" can be more of a major factor than
in other circumstances.

However, I stick by my opinion that it is never beneficial when
one is putting too much energy and emphasis into a fixed a
routine, or getting hung up too much on that killer opener.

One Awesome Video on Truth of Pickup

Free your Fear and Approach that Woman

Tired of shaking in your boots for hours on end? Tired of coming home, alone, wishing you had said something to that gorgeous girl in the whatever-color dress? I am with you. 

 

Believe me, any professional PUA that makes his living teaching men the art of Pickup has been there (and if they haven't; RUN! It's a scam!), but what makes us who we are today is the ability to get PAST that!

 

Right now you're saying, "Ron aka Nice Guy, what is going to motivate me to approach that girl when I could just as easily NOT approach her, and avoid the possibility of rejection or embarrassment?" 

 

Again, I understand that thought process as well and I'm going to give you the answer because I very sincerely believe that all men, of all ages, should share a particular freedom that our social history has bred out of us: 

 

The Freedom From Fear

Friday (HAPPY HOUR) Night Was Never For Me!

It's Friday and you have finished a long week. You want to get out, relax, socialize with your friends and you'd like to meet a woman. 

So where do you go to meet women on a Friday night? - the Friday night HAPPY HOUR?

Well, if you're like a lot men, you may choose to frequent a Friday "Happy Hour" to do this. 

I mean it is what EVERYBODY does on a Friday after work, right? 

So it MUST be the best type of place to go on a Friday "happy hour" night to meet women then, right?! 

Well, let's talk about that... 

Sudden Epiphany to Approaching Women on the Street

It was weird and it was sudden. Street approaching women,though I have been doing it for quite some time now, was still some of elusive goal for me. Trust me when I say it needs lot of motivation to keep on doing something when you fail again and again. But I always knew this is a PRACTICE and one day I will win, I will reach my goal and I DID!

Now, I can consistently approach and open women on thestreet without any approach anxiety whatsoever. This will give goose bumps to any man even at the thought of approaching a woman on the street. But is it that hard as it sounds? Tell you honestly, it is NOT. 

Here’s a kicker. Women want to be approached.

Yes, women that you see on the streets want to be approached. They want to be approached by a MAN. They want to meet a man who isnot afraid to show himself, not scared to carry himself without any apology through the world and who has the courage to go for what he wants. This is sheer masculinity and any woman craves this showmanship of masculinity.

Beyond Words - Subtext 101 by Cajun

Alright gather around everyone, its time for acting 101: Subtext!

What is subtext? For acting, subtext is the underlying meaning behind spoken words as interpreted by an actor. What does that mean? Basically you're adding additional meaning to your spoken words by the way you say them. I'll give you an example:

Lets say I have the following (cheesy) script for a scene I'm about to act in:

JOHN and MARY are alone in the bedroom. Mary is upset and John is comforting her.

"John: Mary, everything is going to be ok, I just want you to know that I love you."

Now if I'm going to play JOHN in this scene there is a lot of information I'm going to need in order to apply the proper subtext to my dialogue. Things like:

What is the relationship between John and Mary?
If they are siblings then the line would be spoken much differently than if they were lovers.

What happened just before?
What if this scene took place right after they had sex?
How would you reflect that in the above line of dialogue?

This is all information that can be implied with the proper subtext.

So.what does this have to do with game? EVERYTHING!!!

Western Guys Love Asian Women - Simon Heong

So why is that so many guys LOVE Asian women?

It seems like every year, more Western guys are dating and
marrying women from countries like China, Japan and the
Philippines. (And I can't blame them...personally, I think Asian
girls are the sexiest women in the world!)

It's not only their exotic looks we are drawn to.

There are a number of important reasons why men find Asian women
so appealing. Some of these reasons, we're not even aware of
on a conscious level!

Here are some of the big ones:

#1 They have strong sexual appeal.

The silky hair; flawless skin; petite, hard bodies; and exotic
Oriental features add up to combination that a lot of men find
irresistible.

Anatomically, the Asian face (particularly the women with
more "Oriental" features) is constructed so that it seems to
convey less expression and emotion than the faces of Caucasian
people.

The construct of their faces makes Asian women more "difficult
to read" than Caucasian women, who tend to express and share
their feelings constantly (whether we're in the mood to know
about their feelings, or not!).

A little explanation of the Coquette Game

The very first thing that you have to understand about the coquette game is that the very essence of the game is about validating the seduced. In this type of seduction, you are not really using any quality of yours to seduce the other person. Rather, you are sexually validating the other person. Well, it might not be sexual validation only. The coquette game is based on the concept of validation and approval.

Now, making someone qualify to yourself can be done in two ways: first, you have too high perceived-value and she feels the need to qualify herself to you. Second, you disapprove her, push her hard to get her to stand up and prove herself.

The first one, you don’t have to really do anything. All you have to do just sit and watch, keeping a poker face where she at times feels that she has gained your approval whereas at other times, she feels a doubt. In the latter case, you have to really stand up first of all and then challenge her. You have to disapprove her in a way, where she “feels the NEED” to qualify herself. If you are emotionally push her away too much or too far, you will literally snap the string and she feels insulted, de-validated and rejected. That’s not what your intention should be. You should be using a straight face, disinterested body language, controlled challenging…with a base of comfort and pleasure…so that she stands up to your challenge. She should feel that you are qualifying her and not rejecting her. At this time, you are being basically dominant over her reality, and throw in some strong displays of sexual interest to turn her on even more and hint at the pleasure and hope of getting back your validation.

Stages of Seduction

First Stage (essence – playful challenging flirtation, breeding challenge, attraction and likeability)

·         Playful

·         Challenge

·         Fun

·         Flirtatious

Transition to…Second Stage (essence - serious sharing, breeding trust and comfort)

·         Comfortable

·         Connect

·         Rapport

·         Sharing

Transition to…Third Stage (essence – serious sexuality, breeding sexual tension and craving)

·         Sexual State

·         Seductive Words

·         Direct Sexual Remarks

·         Romantic Compliments

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How Women Think - This is a Post of Disappointment and Opportunity

I’m not the kind of an expressive person and I don’t really like anyone to get deep into my emotions. I am that kind of a man who lives inside a shell and gives an appearance that he is open. Anyway, that’s not the point. The point is you will normally find that I respect women. In fact, I respect myself and I respect others as well. To speak true, I am a very helpful and good person. That’s what I like to believe.

I hope you now understand I’m not some jerk who’s writing up something, but I am levelheaded, steady individual who believes in living his life. That’s it.

And now, I have come to believe that NO girls are healthy! No, I’m not talking about their physical health but I’m talking about their mental health.

Another QUEER Funny Pickup Women Video

Pickup women is MAGIC! You think so. Well, you are somewhat correct in that. It may not be the way it is proposed to be. But it sure seems like magic when it falls the right hands. Anyway, you probably know Mystery of Mystery Method, right? Tell you what, to me he seems the Father of Pickup Women. Below is a caricature of Mystery Method and Mystery. Pickup women is THAT easy?! Go check the video below:

Hope you liked it. I just found it while surfing. Comment on it if you want.
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Pickup Women or Fall in Love with a Woman

The other day I was thinking about something. Well, my friends say that I think a lot. And recently I got a very strange and likeable compliment from one of my friends, that is, I THINK like a WOMAN! She said that I could delve into a woman’s mind and speak for her. I take that as a compliment.

So, I was thinking…and I was thinking about how some people helplessly fall in love with a woman, and some just pickup women for quick lays. You cannot blame anyone of them because if you look at it, both of them are very honest at their approach.

As Mystery of Mystery Method says, just treat it as a game. In any game, you need to learn the skill. So, focus on learning the skill and you will become a master soon. That’s what most pickup artists ultimately believe in. They perceive women as objects, subjects of prey. The more they prey on, the greater a player they are.

But tell this to the people who have suffered a breakup recently. They have a very different viewpoint, and tell you what, I completely relate with them. I have been in love myself. I just love that feeling, so novel and refreshing. I love the pain, the anticipation in love. I love to fall in love with a woman. I never condoned being a player. Maybe I mingle with a lot of girls, but I strongly believe that I am not a player.