Sudden Epiphany to Approaching Women on the Street

It was weird and it was sudden. Street approaching women,though I have been doing it for quite some time now, was still some of elusive goal for me. Trust me when I say it needs lot of motivation to keep on doing something when you fail again and again. But I always knew this is a PRACTICE and one day I will win, I will reach my goal and I DID!

Now, I can consistently approach and open women on thestreet without any approach anxiety whatsoever. This will give goose bumps to any man even at the thought of approaching a woman on the street. But is it that hard as it sounds? Tell you honestly, it is NOT. 

Here’s a kicker. Women want to be approached.

Yes, women that you see on the streets want to be approached. They want to be approached by a MAN. They want to meet a man who isnot afraid to show himself, not scared to carry himself without any apology through the world and who has the courage to go for what he wants. This is sheer masculinity and any woman craves this showmanship of masculinity.

Britain’s Loose Lips League Table - Catherine Blyth

We prefer to do it in queues rather than lifts, hairdressers do it best and nearly half of us are it more than twice a week – it seems Brits can’t get enough of small talk.

Research by Chit Chat Bingo paints a vivid picture of Britain’s conversational habits with Belfast topping the loose lips league (see league table below) – and more than 15 per cent of us finding romance from conversations with strangers.

• Nearly two-fifths of us chat to a stranger about once a week
• More than half say small talk brightens their day
• The weather and sport are the top conversation topics
• ‘Do you come here often’ is regarded as the worst small talk opener
• Simon Cowell and The Queen are most popular ‘dream conversations’
• People chat more openly online than in person
• Friendships, romance and marriage have been started from small talk

FORGET SPEED-DATING, STREET-DATING IS THE THING!

Brits find romance, friends and even business partners in queues  

People say we’re cold and reserved, but in fact most Brits are happy to make small talk with strangers, with around half of us indulging our chat-habit twice a week at least (49%) according to national research by ChitChat Bingo. 

So friendly are we that 16 per cent of Brits have even found romance through small talk, with a third making new friends and 3 per cent even identified a business partner.