How To PRE-frame Obstacles Into Challenges

Today I'll teach you how to PRE-FRAME obstacles
into challenges before they even become a problem.

       For example, lots of readers have told me how
women often do not like them because they are too short or
too .

       Well, guess what?

       To turn this "ex-force" into attraction, all you
have to do is "turn it around" and act like a challenge
BECAUSE of the reason!

       If you're short, tell a woman she's too tall
for you.

       If you are bald, joke about her having too much
hair. Heck, call her "Cousin It" (from Addam's Family)
and tell her that her hair is scary. Ask her when was the
time she washed her hair!

       If you're older, make it clear that you're only
into mature, responsible women who are NOT the average
stupid bombshell.

       If you're younger, let her know that you want
someone who's excited about life and is not afraid of
adventure.

How To Reframe Obstacles Into Challenges

Today I am going to teach you a very powerful
psychological tactic that could change your life.

       Next time you run into an obstacle that is posing
as a barrier between you and a woman, try to reframe it as
a common obstacle that you could overcome "together".

       For example, let's say you're at a public place
with a woman and things are just heating up, you could
look into her eyes and say, "Too bad we're in a public place,
or I would right now."

How To Use Reverse Psychology To Overcome Obstacles

Today I am going to teach you a third trick.
I am going to show you how to use reverse psychology to
overcome your physical shortcomings. Note that I personally
prefer the last two methods (reframing and pre-framing) over
this one.

       Let's say it is quite obvious that a woman is
hesitating to date you because of your height. After raising
the attraction a bit and creating a bond with a woman,
look at her in the eyes and say, "It's not easy to date
someone shorter than you, is it?"

Don't Be A Player; Be A Lover

This is more of a rant.

And this is something that I truly believe. Just how many of you believe that this is a game, just a game? Well, don't count me among you, my friends.

Because all these regular writings on paper is NOT to go and exploit someone. It is to live the sweet inexplicable feeling, to cherish the beautiful moments with that special person, creating the beginning of that journey of your life.

What happens after an One Night Stand

Before you even have an one night stand, know this...

If you're not giving women positive sexual experiences, then you stand

a higher chance of getting shit about it. There are ways to frame a

one night stand that make women happy and appreciative that it

happened. If you're doing this wrong, and hurting people's feelings in

the process, that's not good karma and you're going to run into

problems.

She's Not My Type - Read What Shelley Says

On to Shelley - 

"Late yesterday evening I received a somewhat funny phone call from
one of my good female friends. Here's the situation she described...

For the past few Friday's her and the man she's dated for the past
6 years, have been trying to escape from their work/ businesses
early and enjoy a late lunch together, followed by some shopping
for the house, going to an art gallery, or doing something
together.

A SIMPLE, PRACTICAL WAY TO MAKE HER FEEL COMFORTABLE WITH YOU

"It's like we've known each other for TEN YEARS, not TEN MINUTES."

Now if THOSE aren't the "magic words" that indicate a woman is
completely comfortable in your presence, I don't know what are.

As we've talked about before, a major linchpin of the "big four"
along with confidence, masculinity and character is the ability to
cause a woman to feel safe and comfortable in your presence...aka
"inspiring confidence".

Kiss A Girl Within 40 Seconds Or Less? You Must Be Kidding!

Disclaimer: Though I am a big proponent of what you call the essential 'Don Juan' theory. I love to love women, cherish them and celebrate their womanhood, not just for a day or a month, but for a whole lifetime! It's about love, NOT 'bout sex. Yet as Simon Heong suggests here, some quick love-making sessions don't hurt either ;-)

If you've ever seen a guy in a bar walk up to a girl he didn't
know and make out with her almost immediately, it can be a
completely mind-blowing experience just to watch in the first
place.

Direct Daygame Pickup Infield Footage

FIVE PHYSICAL SIGNS SHE LIKES YOU

As you know, we talk about some rather subjective, and at times
even philosophical ideas around here.

And just like I mentioned a few newsletters ago, it's all good.
Some of those "deep" ideas are what really give you an "unfair"
edge over other guys.

Being Physically Attractive: Looks Do Count

Before you start thinking women don't care about looks at all, think again.  There is a certain element of physical attractiveness when it comes to getting a woman's attention, but it takes different forms than it does for men.  You might see them swooning over ripped movie stars in magazines, but on a direct level their desires are a bit more simple.

For women, physical attractiveness is based on four things, and they are all things any man can change about himself--grooming, style, fitness, and body language.

Flirting Examples For Picking Up Girls

How To Series – Find a Girl of Your Dreams

I have planned to create a series on dating and pickup. In this article, I am going to tell you in a few minutes how to find the girl of your dreams.

"THE PRO"'s GUIDE TO: HOOKING UP ON V-DAY

STEP ONE: GO WHERE
THE SINGLE WOMEN ARE...
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(I'll be less cheesy with "The Pro"
stuff in the future... but c'mon...
you gotta give me one "gimme")

Step One: Go where the single
women are.

Want To Know How Love Science Works?

The science of love When do you know if you fancy someone? What does love do to your brain chemicals, and is falling in love just nature's way to keep our species alive? We call it love. It feels like love. But the most exhilarating of all human emotions is probably nature’s beautiful way of keeping the human species alive and reproducing. With an irresistible cocktail of chemicals, our brain entices us to fall in love. We believe we’re choosing a partner. But we may merely be the happy victims of nature’s lovely plan.

Horrible Advice On How To Pick Up Women

From Jeffy -

Jeffy here, back again to bring you some of the most valuable secrets of 

social interaction ever to grace an email. 

 

Just kidding. This issue, I'm gonna give you some of the WORST advice 

you've ever heard. Let's get right to it.

 

In my travels and my work with Real Social Dynamics, I meet a ton of 

students who are just starting out in the game, and there are certain 

things that they inevitably struggle with during this nascent period 

of player-dom. 

Must-Know Attributes for Would Be PUAs

You may wish to have AWESOME success with women, but it won't be a
reality if you're not willing to invest your time to learn new
skills.

It's like hoping to win the New York City Marathon without going
through the proper training.  As much as you'd like to make
headlines, you'll never pull it off if you lack PREPARATION.

Why Txt Msgs Sck Dck

(c) Ross Jeffries

Why in the world would any guy in his right mind want to take a stepbackward down the intimacy ladder with women?

Yet that is exactly what many men are doing by following stupid-ass advice from “PUA GURUS” to use text messaging with women they’ve just met.

Listen: using your voice is far more powerful, conveys far more emotional meaning, and enables you to evoke far more powerful states of emotion than even the most cleverly worded text.

The Greatest Seducers of All Time!

I'll bet if you asked ten guys who claimed to be in the attraction
business if they knew what the names Rudolph Valentino, Gabriele
d'Annunzio, and Duc de Richelieu had in common, you'd get a blank
look.

Oh sure, everyone knows the name Don Juan (a fictional character
based on a compilation of well known rakes of the era) and
Casanova, but how many people know the first three names?

How To Be A Challenge To A Woman - Women Want a Catch, Remember!

  Today I am going to show you a natural and easy way to
act like a challenge:

       By not making dating or a woman central part of your
life.

       In my experience, most men are WAY too obsessed with
their love lives every time they meet a new woman. They want
to spend time with their girlfriends 24/7. They daydream
while they are at work. They stop hanging out with their
buddies. They even turn their schedules around to accomodate
the new relationship.