act like a challenge:
By not making dating or a woman central part of your
life.
In my experience, most men are WAY too obsessed with
their love lives every time they meet a new woman. They want
to spend time with their girlfriends 24/7. They daydream
while they are at work. They stop hanging out with their
buddies. They even turn their schedules around to accomodate
the new relationship.
If you're a long-term reader of my newsletter, then
you should know that hanging out with a woman 24/7 will show
a woman that you're a wuss.
But it doesn't stop there.
Spending too much time alone with a woman will actually
affect the rest of your life NEGATIVELY and leave you a less
attractive person than you were before.
You see, a new relationship usually takes you AWAY from
your life and social circle. It happens at the beginning of every
relationship. You start to see your girlfriend more and your
drinking buddies less. You stop working or studying overtime in
order to accomodate time for your girlfriend....
And when you break up with your girlfriend 2 years later,
you may suddenly find yourself without any friends.
Or even worse...you may find yourself "without a life".
Here's the lesson of the day: Don't shut out the rest
of your life just because there's a woman in it. Learn to balance
all aspects of your life. Don't focus all your energy onto
a woman. Have self-discipline. (Remember my last email on self-
discipline?)
By following this simple rule, you will automatically
be a challenge because you'll have less time to spend with her.
You'll also know in your mind that as crazy as you are about
your new girlfriend, she's no the whole world and you can still
have a happy life without her.
Recognizing this fact can bring you tremedous power
to your relationship.
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