Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts

Jul 28, 2011

Instead Of Getting Angry At A Woman, You Should...

Here's a really simple "girlfriend management" tip.

       Next time a woman does something that really upsets
you, instead of getting angry at her, try acting disappointed
instead.

       Why? Because in many cases, if you get angry at a
woman, it will just show you're letting her "get to you".
For example, let's say you're going out with a woman and
she's flirting with another man in front of you to make
you jealous. (Either consciously or subconsciously...)
If you get mad at her and act upset, you'll just be giving
her the "emotional payoff" that she has been seeking all
along.

May 27, 2011

Kiss A Girl Within 40 Seconds Or Less? You Must Be Kidding!

Disclaimer: Though I am a big proponent of what you call the essential 'Don Juan' theory. I love to love women, cherish them and celebrate their womanhood, not just for a day or a month, but for a whole lifetime! It's about love, NOT 'bout sex. Yet as Simon Heong suggests here, some quick love-making sessions don't hurt either ;-)

If you've ever seen a guy in a bar walk up to a girl he didn't
know and make out with her almost immediately, it can be a
completely mind-blowing experience just to watch in the first
place.

May 13, 2011

What Attracts a Woman To a Man?

Tell you something…even at the end of his life, a man still tries to figure out the answer to this question. And the answer is not so easy…phew!

I can’t say that I have figured out the answer to the question, but after these couple of years, I do have a vague idea of what I THINK is the answer.

Apr 30, 2011

Be That Story For Her

Did you ever wonder what it takes to really intrigue a woman when you approach her?

I mean, what is it that women REALLY want a guy to do when he walks up and talk to her? 

Ever wonder what makes women respond positively to one guy who approaches them ... and respond, uh - not so positively to another?

Well wonder no more! 

Apr 29, 2011

Four Rules To Ramp Up Your Dating Life

Meeting women, getting phone numbers,
getting first dates and having LOTS of
sex is really more similar to building a
house than it is to any "artistic" activity.

You see, just like a house, you have to
add a few elements, one after another,
until you get what you want.

And, just like a house, you have to
start with a good foundation.

Apr 27, 2011

Playin' It Direct!

One thing I understood over time, NEVER CHASE. Even when you are into direct game, don’t chase a woman. Rather, flirt and see if she responds. Some people will rename it as ‘throw the bait’. But, in the direct form of game, you DON’T throw the bait. You let her know that you are interested in her and you want her. Now, it’s her turn to reciprocate. Just make sure that you don’t bore her. Just make it a bit interesting!

Apr 17, 2011

Six Date Movies You Haven't Probably Thought Of Yet

It's been a couple of years since I suggested some great movies to
watch with a woman, so I figured an update was long overdue.

Let's face it.  While "dinner and a movie" is a flat-out terrible
idea for a first date, that doesn't mean that either having dinner
OR watching movies is something that should NEVER happen when with
a woman.

Apr 10, 2011

Ten Fashion Commandment of the Cool Dude

1.  Thou shalt not be ungroomed. Hair, sideburns, beard,
goatee, stache, whatever. Got hair on your body, keep it
under control. Don't get lazy and let the fur grow
caveman-style. Cavemen don't get hotties.

Apr 3, 2011

Is She Shy Or Is She Just Not Interested?

Here is what I always ask these guys:

       "Is she really shy, or is she just not interested?"

       In my experience, as long as a woman likes you,
she WILL respond with positive signals when you make advances -
EVEN if she's shy.

It's All About What You Want From The Girl

So, you have read my blog and my articles, and you probably know what women want, right? If you don’t know, here’s a recap of the truth.

Women want TWO things from you.

Mar 18, 2011

Difference Between Being Weak and Being Sensitive

 Today we're going to talk about the fine line between
being sensitive and being weak.

       In my course, I tell my students to be sensitive and
attentive when they are around women. But at the same time,
I tell them to not act weak, needy, or emotional. So where do
draw the line between being sensitive and being weak or
emotional?

Mar 12, 2011

When You Give An Implied Compliment To A Woman...

Using something known as an “implied compliment” is a fabulous way to capture a woman’s attention and make her receptive to your approach. For many reasons, in fact, it’s better than paying her any sort of direct compliment.

Mar 4, 2011

Is She Too HOT for YOU?

My assistant Meby passed along an email that was sent to the office
yesterday. Her comment in her forwarded email was, "This is
ridiculous! You've got to read this". And so I did.

It was a longwinded email sent in from a reader who feels that he's
met a woman who might be "too hot" and he feels that she could be
demonstrating signs of either being a slut or "out to get a man"
(Ummm... well, most single women are).

Many Leads To ONE

I hear it all the time from men:  "I just want to meet that one
special woman."  Usually when I hear this, I know they're headed
for trouble because they think if they meet "the one" their life is
going to somehow be complete.

What usually happens is, after a few months, she turns out to not
be all that special, and things get bad, really fast.

Feb 26, 2011

What Do I Do?


*** QUESTION ***
 
Jeffy:
 
I often get tix to professional highend shows in Los Angeles and 
WOMEN ( I have to been led to believe) are impressed/interested/
intrigued by guys and the uncommon events (Professional theater, 
Opera, Orchestra's, Dance )

Will I Hurt Them?


*** QUESTION ***
 
Hi Jeffy,
 
I hope I win some sort of prize if I'm the first person to email 
you with a question.  Maybe I should get a prize anyway for 
asking a question that you probably don't get very often.

Is Kindness Toward Women A Form Of Weakness?

There’s a big argument/debate on whether you can ever be “kind” to women.
Could she view this as a sign of strength (you are confident enough that you present yourself from a place of kindness and warmth) or weakness (that it makes you a pushover, an AFC, or worse)?