Jul 28, 2011

Instead Of Getting Angry At A Woman, You Should...

Here's a really simple "girlfriend management" tip.

       Next time a woman does something that really upsets
you, instead of getting angry at her, try acting disappointed
instead.

       Why? Because in many cases, if you get angry at a
woman, it will just show you're letting her "get to you".
For example, let's say you're going out with a woman and
she's flirting with another man in front of you to make
you jealous. (Either consciously or subconsciously...)
If you get mad at her and act upset, you'll just be giving
her the "emotional payoff" that she has been seeking all
along.

       And guess what'll happen? She'll want to do it
again. She won't see that the problem is on her end.
After all, you're the one who's acting a bit sensitive and
losing control of your emotions.


       On the other hand, if you act DISAPPOINTED in her
instead of getting angry, all of a sudden, she'll know that
the problem is on HER end. She's losing YOUR respect, and
you can bet she's going to feel lousy about it.


       You see, as humans, we tend to seek approval from
other people - especially the people we really care about
or respect. So in her eyes, lowering your respect for her
is one of the worst "punishments" she could get from you.

       There's also a side benefit. You'll avoid getting
into a heavy argument or fight that may lower her attraction
for you.

       Think about it. If you get all tense and start
yelling at your girlfriend for whatever reason, she's
probably going to get all defensive and yell back.

       BUT...if you just show your disappointment
instead of raising your voice, she's probably going to
FREAK OUT...and try REALLY hard to seek your approval
next time!
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