Night Club Game - Any Method You Have?

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Hi, you guys are amazing.  I've been reading your newsletters 

for a long time now, and it's obvious that you have a METHOD.  

I like this.   

 

I've been working on my game for a long time, and found that I 

have my inner game intact.  I can really attract a girl, once

I know her.  But I rarely go to clubs or bars, so I don't really 

meet that many new women.

 

The thing is, I don't really have a SYSTEM or method like you 

guys do.  I'm seriously considering attending one of your 

workshops.  Do you teach your METHOD during these workshops, 

i.e. openers, running game, physically advancing, and all the STEPS?

 

I'm really interested in finding out as much as I can. I'm 

determined to get this part of my life HANDLED, and one day I'll 

be at least as good as YOU GUYS are!!!

 

BTW, I know you guys usually go out in the field in groups, but 

I'm wondering if you could offer some tips on how to have fun 

and stay loose, when going out ALL BY MYSELF.  I find that it's 

harder to go out alone, because I don't have "my friends to get 

back to," or at least a social safety net for my 

spontaneous/funny behaviour. 

 

Any ideas? 

 

-A, California

 

 

>>>>>> MY REPLY:

 

Do we have a method? You bet your ass we do. In fact, we've 

spent the past several years honing and refining that method, 

NON-STOP. And it's constantly evolving. 

 

Many people are content to sit back and just do whatever comes

to mind when it comes to interacting with beautiful women. And

this is fine in many cases, especially if your inner game is 

up to par, because in that case you'll be giving off all of the 

right subcommunications.

 

But add a comprehensive METHOD to the mix, and your success can

skyrocket beyond your wildest dreams. 

 

Let me put it this way: Social interactions are dynamic, living

things that change and evolve constantly. Within any given social

interaction, there are an infinite number of things that can 

happen. 

 

But within that infinite number of possibilities, there are a 

few things that USUALLY happen, over and over again. When you 

take those probabilities into consideration and begin to 

structure your game around them, that's when the true value of 

a method becomes apparent. 

 

That's when your success or failure at the game ceases being a 

matter of statistical roulette, and becomes determined by your

skill and dedication. 

 

So yeah, we have a method. And it's a damn good one too, if I 

must say so myself. 

 

The RSD method covers all bases, from soup to nuts. From inner 

game, to understanding the social matrix, to openers, to phone

game and end game, it's all there. 

 

And it's not just for bars and clubs. The principles taught 

enable you to approach any woman, anywhere, and get consistent, 

predictable results EVERY TIME. So whether you prefer to hit up 

the nightlife or the coffee shops and bookstores, you'll be 

able to attract the woman of YOUR CHOICE.

 

So you wanna get this part of your life handled? That's awesome.

 

You wanna get as good as we are? Fat chance, sucker.

 

Nyuk nyuk yuk, just kidding! The best thing about this game is

that ANYONE has the ability to learn this, provided they're 

willing to dedicate themselves to it. 

 

I mean, just look at my story. Not long ago, I was a total chode

when it came to meeting women. In fact, I was terrified of even 

keeping eye contact with a woman for more than a couple of 

seconds. 

 

I knew I was a cool guy, but I just didn't know how to convey it

in a short period of time. 

 

Then I hooked up with the Real Social Dynamics crew, and I 

learned how to turn my life around.

 

And I'm still learning. All of us here at RSD are committed to 

always keeping the student frame, never being so arrogant as to 

believe that we can't learn something new. That's what makes

our system so powerful; it's the best out there, and it is 

constantly evolving to reflect new discoveries. 

 

So let's get to the meat of your question. You're concerned about

going out alone, because you lack a "social safety net."

 

Look... I PREFER to go out alone a lot of the time. It has some

tangible benefits to your game.

 

First of all, it FORCES you to approach. 

 

Sometimes, when you go out with your friends, even friends who

are skilled at game, there's a tendency to just shoot the 

breeze with your boys, and you end up standing there the whole

night with your d!ck in your hand. 

 

Figuratively, of course. Unless you're me, but that's another 

story.

 

Out by yourself, on the other hand, you HAVE to approach, 

otherwise you're gonna end up standing around by yourself on 

"Death Row" with all the other LOSERS. 

 

Working without a net is great, because it forces you to pay 

attention and be at the top of your game. Re-frame things like

that.

 

When I go out by myself, I get a feeling of FREEDOM, like, I'm 

totally unencumbered. If I want to leave at the drop of a hat 

for another venue, I can go. I don't need to gather my buddies

and make some big production out of it. I can do whatever I 

want. 

 

See how re-framing these things works?

 

Besides, this skill set is all about making new friends, right?

Use the skills to create what I like to call "insta-wings" right

then and there, on the spot. Don't have a safety net? Weave one

for yourself!

 

That's another huge benefit of knowing the game. Before I got 

into this stuff, if you dropped me into a room of 100 strangers, 

I would probably have just sat there along the wall with a drink

in my hand and not spoken to a single soul.

 

Now, you can put me in a strange city with nothing but the 

clothes on my back, and within an hour I'll have some new friends

showing me around and getting me all set up. It's an incredibly

empowering feeling. 

 

Anyway, keep going out, and keep challenging yourself, and 

you'll get this stuff in no time. 

 

Thanks for writing in.
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