Common Dating Senses For Men

 As I've mentioned in the past, your success in dating
is dictated by your actions, which in turn are dictated by your
attitude.

       So how do you get into the "right attitude" on a date?
The answer is by using your "common dating senses".

       Here are 6 basic common dating senses that you should
have on a date:

1) Sense of Playfulness

       The first "sense" you need for a great date is a sense
of playfulness. I can't emphasize this enough. You wouldn't
believe how many guys take a date WAY too seriously. And to
make things worse, they THINK they are "supposed" to show how
serious they are about a woman...as if being serious has
ANYTHING to do with how much a woman will be attracted to you.

       Think about it. Would you rather hang out with a gal
who acts REALLY tense and serious on a first date, or would you
rather hang out with a gal who is REALLY fun to hang around
with?


2) Sense of Tension

       The second "sense" you need on a date is a sense of
sexual tension. Remember my fishing line metaphor. You want
the sexual tension to be like a fishing line: not too tight
and not too lose.

       If you sense you have advanced too much too quickly,
pull back and give it some slack.

       But if the tension seems too lose, then you want
to step up and "reel her in" to raise the sexual tension.

       You want the sexual tension to feel "just right"!


3) Sense of Comfort

       The third "sense" you need is a sense of comfort.
You wouldn't believe how many guys just CREEP WOMEN OUT
on a first date because they are so feeling so uncomfortable
and nervous about themselves.

       Here's the secret about making women feel
comfortable around you:

       If you act comfortable yourself, then women are
going to feel more comfortable around you.

       But if you act nervous and tense, then women are
going to feel there's "something wrong" and act nervous and
tense as well!

       The guys who are the most attractive to women are
usually the ones that are the most COMFORTABLE with
themselves!


4) Sense of Challenge

       The fourth "sense" you need is a sense of challenge.
You want to be a challenge and you want to REMAIN a challenge
throughout the evening. Let the woman chase after you a bit.

       Continue to keep raising the stakes higher and higher
to encourage her to keep going after you. And remember the
reward her good behavior once in awhile!


5) Sense of Flexibility

       The fifth "sense" you need is a sense of FLEXIBILITY.
Some many guys get "stuck" with a certain "perfect scenario" in
their mind...and if the date doesn't go the way they planed it
out to be, they lose control.

       This is why you should focus on your ATTITUDE instead
of on individual techniques or lines. If a certain line or
technique isn't working, don't try to push on with it. TRY
SOMETHING ELSE.

       Remain flexible, and you will never run out of things
to do or say!


6) Sense of Competence

       The last "sense" you need is a sense of competence.

       Notice how your "sense of confidence" is not included
in these six dating senses. Do you know why?

       It's because confidence comes from KNOWING you have
the skill to do something, and that comes from your sense
of competence.

       If you don't know how to flirt with a woman, how
to raise the attraction, or how to "get physical" with
her, OBVIOUSLY you're going to not feel very confident when
you go out with a girl you REALLY like...

       After all, you're traveling in unknown territory,and you do not know what you should be doing!
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