Here is what I always ask these guys:
"Is she really shy, or is she just not interested?"
In my experience, as long as a woman likes you,
she WILL respond with positive signals when you make advances -
EVEN if she's shy.
She may not blatantly flirt with you in public or
take the initiative to ask YOU out because she's shy, but
she definitely WON'T ignore your calls or reject your advances.
So when a woman turns down a date because she is
"shy", it could really just be an excuse to get rid of
you.
Another common tactic that some women use is to
CLAIM they are "shy" in order to control the dynamics of a
relationship.
For example, she may TELL you she's too shy to kiss
on a first date...or that she's too shy to this or that.
(Hold hands, cuddle, hug, or whatever.)
99 percent of the time, she's just toying you or
playing mind games with you.
A woman who is truly shy is NOT going to "tell"
you she's shy. (It will show through her actions.) Nor
will she use shyness as an excuse to set up boundaries
or rules of what you "can" or "cannot" do.
Here's the bottom line...if your date is a
"rules girl" (meaning she's constantly setting up rules
and boundaries), it may mean one or more of the following
things...
1) She's just not so into you.
2) She's toying with you because she's bored.
When she finds a better catch she will leave you alone.
3) She's experienced enough in the dating game
to manipulate you by setting up "rules". (In
other words, she's really not the shy princess you THINK
she is. It's just an act she's putting on!)
So what do you do when a woman pretends to be
shy in order to get something from you?
My advice for you is to be direct and blunt with
these girls. A lot of times they will stop playing these
games once they know you can see through their bullsh**.
And if they get "offended", it's time to cut them off
from your life.
Never forget that a big part of the "Smart Dating
System" is the "character" of a woman. I don't care if
you're looking for a one-night stand or a long-term
relationship. The truth is...if a woman has bad character
you should stay away from her. Allowing a manipulative
woman into you live will only burn you in the long run.
(It took me years to finally realize this.)
There are lots of good-looking woman who ALSO have
good personalities. Look for those instead of going outwith a manipulative woman just because she's hot.
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"Is she really shy, or is she just not interested?"
In my experience, as long as a woman likes you,
she WILL respond with positive signals when you make advances -
EVEN if she's shy.
She may not blatantly flirt with you in public or
take the initiative to ask YOU out because she's shy, but
she definitely WON'T ignore your calls or reject your advances.
So when a woman turns down a date because she is
"shy", it could really just be an excuse to get rid of
you.
Another common tactic that some women use is to
CLAIM they are "shy" in order to control the dynamics of a
relationship.
For example, she may TELL you she's too shy to kiss
on a first date...or that she's too shy to this or that.
(Hold hands, cuddle, hug, or whatever.)
99 percent of the time, she's just toying you or
playing mind games with you.
A woman who is truly shy is NOT going to "tell"
you she's shy. (It will show through her actions.) Nor
will she use shyness as an excuse to set up boundaries
or rules of what you "can" or "cannot" do.
Here's the bottom line...if your date is a
"rules girl" (meaning she's constantly setting up rules
and boundaries), it may mean one or more of the following
things...
1) She's just not so into you.
2) She's toying with you because she's bored.
When she finds a better catch she will leave you alone.
3) She's experienced enough in the dating game
to manipulate you by setting up "rules". (In
other words, she's really not the shy princess you THINK
she is. It's just an act she's putting on!)
So what do you do when a woman pretends to be
shy in order to get something from you?
My advice for you is to be direct and blunt with
these girls. A lot of times they will stop playing these
games once they know you can see through their bullsh**.
And if they get "offended", it's time to cut them off
from your life.
Never forget that a big part of the "Smart Dating
System" is the "character" of a woman. I don't care if
you're looking for a one-night stand or a long-term
relationship. The truth is...if a woman has bad character
you should stay away from her. Allowing a manipulative
woman into you live will only burn you in the long run.
(It took me years to finally realize this.)
There are lots of good-looking woman who ALSO have
good personalities. Look for those instead of going outwith a manipulative woman just because she's hot.
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