Music To Turn Her On

So let me set the scene for you ... 

You have met a woman you are unbelievably attracted to, and now you have her in your bedroom.

(This story is starting out VERY well so far!) 

It's All About What You Want From The Girl

So, you have read my blog and my articles, and you probably know what women want, right? If you don’t know, here’s a recap of the truth.

Women want TWO things from you.

What Do I Do?

*** QUESTION ***

 

Jeffy:

 

I often get tix to professional highend shows in Los Angeles and 

WOMEN ( I have to been led to believe) are impressed/interested/

intrigued by guys and the uncommon events (Professional theater, 

Opera, Orchestra's, Dance )

How To Have Sex On The First Date

Having gone out with with literally thousands of women and gone
to bed with hundreds over the past two and a half decades, I've
learned that there's nothing you can do to GUARANTEE having sex
with any particular woman. 

5 Ways to Sexually "Turn Off" Women

I looked at her like she was crazy.

About a month ago, I was engaged in a deep conversation with a
female "friend" of mine. The topic was what "turns on" women. 

Are Women Offended by Your Sexual Presence?

 Is your sexuality inherently threatening to a

woman?

Instinctively, we know it can't be--at least at its essence--or there
wouldn't be six billion of us here on Earth.

So why is it that we're so afraid of offending women with our
masculinity?  Could it be we simply are confusing "sex" with"sexuality"?   

It All Starts In The Mind - Know Her Erogenous Zones

This may come as a shock to you but sex is really pretty boring IF you end up following a routine. So how do you avoid this? Don’t be afraid to use your imagination! That is why most people say that the brain – not the genitals – is the most important sex organ.

And when you use your imagination, it’s equally important to apply your ‘naughty thoughts’ on your woman’s erogenous zones. Erogenous zones are those unique places in her body that generate sexual arousal when stimulated. And so if you know her erotic zones and apply your lustful imagination on them, you can make having sex with her a whole-body experience instead of just engaging in sex that’s limited to her genitals.

Erogenous zones are also important to know when you are giving her a sexual massage!

Know Her ‘Hot Buttons’

Chocolate as a Sex Tool

Now if feeding your woman chocolates does not give you a hard-on or if she just ends up eating the whole box without even giving you a second glance, then there’s something wrong with your delivery.

That’s right. Chocolates are so common now that they don’t really conjure up images of sex right away so don’t just buy the average chocolate bonbon. Why not try Kama Sutra chocolates! That’s right; there are chocolate bars being sold online now that are shaped specifically to match Kama Sutra sex positions!

Do you think you're good in bed?

Do you think you're good in bed? Everybody says they are good in bed. I've never met anyone who has said to me, “You know David, I am REALLY bad in bed!” Everybody thinks they are a fantastic lover.

Let's talk about this (because you KNOW I have an opinion!) I've been with some really terrible lovers. I've been with some women who were so bad in bed, that I wouldn't even recommend them to a virgin client of mine. The truth is, though, that what makes someone bad or good in bed is VERY subjective. For instance, one woman I slept with a long time ago I thought was extremely boring in bed. My friend didn't think so. He, in fact, ended up marrying her. We all have different desires and different ways we like to have sex. I've been with some women with whom I just don't feel like I'm the best I can be. (Don't worry, you don't have to endure me breaking out into song singing the Army song “Be All That You Can Be”)

The Truth of Love and Relationships

Disclaimer – I have been in love thrice now and my experiences were not that good. But that does not make me biased against it. I believe that love is the sweetest thing that can happen to anyone. Only thing is that love is really RARE ;-)

No, I am not going to bore you with all the biological changes and reactions regarding the onset of love and offset of love.

But since this is a practical dating and pickup blog, I am going to split the whole complicated game into as simple a concept as I can, especially for the men who love reading my blog.

The Female Orgasm is Revealed, Wanna Be the Sex God

You see I have been in the seduction community for quite some time and I have been actively working on my game since the beginning of 2006-2007. What the dating coaches don’t tell you is that you have to PERSIST in the field to reach that ultimate paradigm of success. Yes, and I am very proud of myself for being able to conquer most of my sticking points, and push forward (one still remains…I will talk about in a separate post).

Anyway, here is an honest confession from my side. Over the time, many men from the seduction community will realize one thing like me. Look, we used to be nice people, oriented according to the social matrix and then suddenly we are directed how to act like assholes, and funny enough, follow some procedure to get a girl (courtesy Mystery Method). I am not decrying the use of Mystery Method, no I am not. But I am just trying to voice for the thousand men who get overwhelmed with all the knowledge about women, psychology and dating.

But it does a severe damage to your mindset. It gets you in a very analytical mode. Most of the men who are all about methods are just so critical and analytical, just about everything, even when the woman behind the cash counter smiles graciously at them, they think she is trying to throw approach invitations. Well, that can be true to some extent, but we do not tend to see what havoc this thinking process actually does to us. It diminishes our power of perception, and gets us to think! Too much thinking is bad for health, more specifically when you are having sex. I have suffered that myself. It just sucks!