You see I have been in the seduction community for quite some time and I have been actively working on my game since the beginning of 2006-2007. What the dating coaches don’t tell you is that you have to PERSIST in the field to reach that ultimate paradigm of success. Yes, and I am very proud of myself for being able to conquer most of my sticking points, and push forward (one still remains…I will talk about in a separate post).
Anyway, here is an honest confession from my side. Over the time, many men from the seduction community will realize one thing like me. Look, we used to be nice people, oriented according to the social matrix and then suddenly we are directed how to act like assholes, and funny enough, follow some procedure to get a girl (courtesy Mystery Method). I am not decrying the use of Mystery Method, no I am not. But I am just trying to voice for the thousand men who get overwhelmed with all the knowledge about women, psychology and dating.
But it does a severe damage to your mindset. It gets you in a very analytical mode. Most of the men who are all about methods are just so critical and analytical, just about everything, even when the woman behind the cash counter smiles graciously at them, they think she is trying to throw approach invitations. Well, that can be true to some extent, but we do not tend to see what havoc this thinking process actually does to us. It diminishes our power of perception, and gets us to think! Too much thinking is bad for health, more specifically when you are having sex. I have suffered that myself. It just sucks!
