You may wish to have AWESOME success with women, but it won't be a
reality if you're not willing to invest your time to learn new
skills.
It's like hoping to win the New York City Marathon without going
through the proper training. As much as you'd like to make
headlines, you'll never pull it off if you lack PREPARATION.
Fortunately, we have all the tools you need to become an effective
seducer.
Get the best information from the insiders that know their
business. From the first conversation to first kiss (and beyond!),
we've got the resources to arm you for the world of dating.
For today though, let's go through a couple of the most empowering
attitudes and beliefs that skilled seducers have in the back of
their minds. You see, the expression, "It's all about attitude" is
really MORE than just a cliché.
How you perceive yourself will be how OTHERS see you as well. The
attitude you project into the world defines the reality you live in.
When it comes to meeting women, it's your perception that affects
the way you think and act. Ultimately, your belief system is what
determines the quality of success you'll have.
(or WON'T - it's all up to you.)
Anyway, let's get it on with it:
1. "My life works for me, not the other way around."
Whenever a smart guy gets into a tricky situation, his mind is
already on auto-pilot to size things up. To make his life function
in a way that suits HIM, he goes through a mental checklist:
- Have I done what I can to make this scenario work for me?
- Are my priorities after the long-term or short-term benefits of
this situation?
- What should I do to achieve my objectives?
Be THAT guy by keeping those guidelines in mind when you go out
there and flirt with the women you'll run into.
Let's say that you're at a club and catch a cute brunette stealing
glances at you. Feeling confident, you walk past her and suddenly
do a double-take.
Seeming like a sudden, spur-of-the-moment thing, you turn your head
to her and start a stacked routine you studied in advance.
Soon enough, you're drinking and dancing the night away. The thing
is, you overlooked the fact that you have a sales pitch to make to
your boss early tomorrow.
Nevertheless, you get caught up in her company, talking and
laughing all the way. A few hours later, you're about to keel over
from all alcohol you've had, but she gently coos for you to take
her to another bar.
Finally, you make it back to your place just before the crack of
dawn. The next day, you shuffle your way into work, still hung
over from the night before. Needless to say, your boss and clients
are less than thrilled with your presentation.
Now then, what's the lesson to be learned here?
Seasoned veterans in the pickup scene know a common truth: success
with women means NOT being a victim of the events in your life.
It's a matter of setting your priorities. Having a healthy dating
life actually requires you NOT to throw your other affairs out the
window.
In the example we talked about, the better way to handle the
situation is by setting limits to how long you'll be at the club
(since you have work the next day).
If you happen to hit it off with someone, tell her you have to
leave by a certain time.
Get her number so you can meet at a different time and place.
Refreshed the next day, you bowl the folks over at work. Later
that night, you go ahead and have that date with her.
Still feeling that rush from your recent success at work, you're
feeling confident with her now. By the end of the night, you seal
the deal with the seduction and score your first kiss with her.
Going home, you feel like a million dollars because you know that
you were able to handle things as they came. Mastery of seduction
starts with mastery of your life.
It also starts with the Mastery Course:
http://www.000relationships.
Comparing the two examples, you'll see that following the second
one demonstrates the ability to prioritize the long-term goal (a
life that works for you) OVER the short-term one (the possibility
of a one-night stand).
Going after the immediate gratification will only make you
surrender control over your life.
Look, a lot of guys have been fired at work or worse by merely
satisfying the immediate need to have sex right away...
...even if it means throwing away the other parts of their lives...
...or worse, compromising their INTEGRITY.
Don't be a hostage to her whims or your desires. You know you're
stronger than that. This is the perfect chance to TAKE CONTROL of
your life and make it work for YOU.
2. "I don't broadcast too much interest (not at the start at
least)."
Seduction starts with attraction, and attraction starts with
flirting. When it comes to flirting, the trick is to catch her
attention and not appear too much like a suitor right away.
Remember, the effective seducer is not hung up on the outcome of
his attempts. When you're interacting with women, the best way to
make a progression is to learn from your mistakes.
Of course, you won't get anywhere if you're TOO AFRAID to make
them. Expect to run into a few speed bumps, potholes and other
obstacles before you find your rhythm and start being comfortable
with the attraction techniques you're learning about.
This is why being in an "all-or-nothing" state of mind will only
make you tense up BIG TIME. If you're all wound up, that's when
women will smell your game plan a mile away.
On the other hand, being RELAXED and tuned in to HER (rather than
to all those nagging fears) will greatly help you disable your
"suitor" mode. Instead, you'll be acting as someone who's just
there to chat and have a good time.
From our side of things, we have to go through the process of
learning and studying the art of seduction. As men, it's up to us
to learn about and initiate the several dozen interactions required
to flip her attraction switches.
But keep in mind that she doesn't have to see what happening behind
the scenes. Make the experience of meeting, attracting and
seducing her a SEAMLESS experience.
Never underestimate the power of SPONTANEITY. In a woman's mind,
romance is something she NEVER plans for.
Dating (and the fireworks in between) is an experience charged by
emotions (as opposed to the logical, well-thought process men need
to master).
It should JUST HAPPEN. Who are you to deny her what fate has in
store for her?
Without empathy, you will never see things from her perspective,
let alone attract her. Never, ever let her in on the inner
workings of your elaborate plan to make her see what a great guy
you are.
It's not about DECEPTION, believe me. You're not trying to play
mind games here.
Yet, moving in too quick and too soon will scare her away. Every
guy should know that appearing too emotionally vulnerable lessens a
woman's respect for him. She needs to see you as an equal, not a
groveling wimp.
All I'm advising you to do is to understand how certain actions
need to be TIMED within the framework of the courtship process.
You're not masking your romantic agenda- just revealing it one step
at a time.
Well, that does it for now but we'll be talking again real soon.
_______________________________________________________
reality if you're not willing to invest your time to learn new
skills.
It's like hoping to win the New York City Marathon without going
through the proper training. As much as you'd like to make
headlines, you'll never pull it off if you lack PREPARATION.
Fortunately, we have all the tools you need to become an effective
seducer.
Get the best information from the insiders that know their
business. From the first conversation to first kiss (and beyond!),
we've got the resources to arm you for the world of dating.
For today though, let's go through a couple of the most empowering
attitudes and beliefs that skilled seducers have in the back of
their minds. You see, the expression, "It's all about attitude" is
really MORE than just a cliché.
How you perceive yourself will be how OTHERS see you as well. The
attitude you project into the world defines the reality you live in.
When it comes to meeting women, it's your perception that affects
the way you think and act. Ultimately, your belief system is what
determines the quality of success you'll have.
(or WON'T - it's all up to you.)
Anyway, let's get it on with it:
1. "My life works for me, not the other way around."
Whenever a smart guy gets into a tricky situation, his mind is
already on auto-pilot to size things up. To make his life function
in a way that suits HIM, he goes through a mental checklist:
- Have I done what I can to make this scenario work for me?
- Are my priorities after the long-term or short-term benefits of
this situation?
- What should I do to achieve my objectives?
Be THAT guy by keeping those guidelines in mind when you go out
there and flirt with the women you'll run into.
Let's say that you're at a club and catch a cute brunette stealing
glances at you. Feeling confident, you walk past her and suddenly
do a double-take.
Seeming like a sudden, spur-of-the-moment thing, you turn your head
to her and start a stacked routine you studied in advance.
Soon enough, you're drinking and dancing the night away. The thing
is, you overlooked the fact that you have a sales pitch to make to
your boss early tomorrow.
Nevertheless, you get caught up in her company, talking and
laughing all the way. A few hours later, you're about to keel over
from all alcohol you've had, but she gently coos for you to take
her to another bar.
Finally, you make it back to your place just before the crack of
dawn. The next day, you shuffle your way into work, still hung
over from the night before. Needless to say, your boss and clients
are less than thrilled with your presentation.
Now then, what's the lesson to be learned here?
Seasoned veterans in the pickup scene know a common truth: success
with women means NOT being a victim of the events in your life.
It's a matter of setting your priorities. Having a healthy dating
life actually requires you NOT to throw your other affairs out the
window.
In the example we talked about, the better way to handle the
situation is by setting limits to how long you'll be at the club
(since you have work the next day).
If you happen to hit it off with someone, tell her you have to
leave by a certain time.
Get her number so you can meet at a different time and place.
Refreshed the next day, you bowl the folks over at work. Later
that night, you go ahead and have that date with her.
Still feeling that rush from your recent success at work, you're
feeling confident with her now. By the end of the night, you seal
the deal with the seduction and score your first kiss with her.
Going home, you feel like a million dollars because you know that
you were able to handle things as they came. Mastery of seduction
starts with mastery of your life.
It also starts with the Mastery Course:
http://www.000relationships.
Comparing the two examples, you'll see that following the second
one demonstrates the ability to prioritize the long-term goal (a
life that works for you) OVER the short-term one (the possibility
of a one-night stand).
Going after the immediate gratification will only make you
surrender control over your life.
Look, a lot of guys have been fired at work or worse by merely
satisfying the immediate need to have sex right away...
...even if it means throwing away the other parts of their lives...
...or worse, compromising their INTEGRITY.
Don't be a hostage to her whims or your desires. You know you're
stronger than that. This is the perfect chance to TAKE CONTROL of
your life and make it work for YOU.
2. "I don't broadcast too much interest (not at the start at
least)."
Seduction starts with attraction, and attraction starts with
flirting. When it comes to flirting, the trick is to catch her
attention and not appear too much like a suitor right away.
Remember, the effective seducer is not hung up on the outcome of
his attempts. When you're interacting with women, the best way to
make a progression is to learn from your mistakes.
Of course, you won't get anywhere if you're TOO AFRAID to make
them. Expect to run into a few speed bumps, potholes and other
obstacles before you find your rhythm and start being comfortable
with the attraction techniques you're learning about.
This is why being in an "all-or-nothing" state of mind will only
make you tense up BIG TIME. If you're all wound up, that's when
women will smell your game plan a mile away.
On the other hand, being RELAXED and tuned in to HER (rather than
to all those nagging fears) will greatly help you disable your
"suitor" mode. Instead, you'll be acting as someone who's just
there to chat and have a good time.
From our side of things, we have to go through the process of
learning and studying the art of seduction. As men, it's up to us
to learn about and initiate the several dozen interactions required
to flip her attraction switches.
But keep in mind that she doesn't have to see what happening behind
the scenes. Make the experience of meeting, attracting and
seducing her a SEAMLESS experience.
Never underestimate the power of SPONTANEITY. In a woman's mind,
romance is something she NEVER plans for.
Dating (and the fireworks in between) is an experience charged by
emotions (as opposed to the logical, well-thought process men need
to master).
It should JUST HAPPEN. Who are you to deny her what fate has in
store for her?
Without empathy, you will never see things from her perspective,
let alone attract her. Never, ever let her in on the inner
workings of your elaborate plan to make her see what a great guy
you are.
It's not about DECEPTION, believe me. You're not trying to play
mind games here.
Yet, moving in too quick and too soon will scare her away. Every
guy should know that appearing too emotionally vulnerable lessens a
woman's respect for him. She needs to see you as an equal, not a
groveling wimp.
All I'm advising you to do is to understand how certain actions
need to be TIMED within the framework of the courtship process.
You're not masking your romantic agenda- just revealing it one step
at a time.
Well, that does it for now but we'll be talking again real soon.
_______________________________________________________
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