Well, if you don’t know already, picking up women is vastly different from making a woman fall in love with you.
In the dating community, you will find a huge hype about this whole term ‘pickup women’.
How do I pickup women in bars?
How do I pickup women on the streets?
How do I pickup women in college?
How do I pickup women in the café?
Phew!
But we do not really care about how to make her fall in love with us. Why? It is because you just don’t understand their purpose in your life. You just don’t know what you want and how to get it.
Let me explain this to you.
Picking up women is just attracting women. Period!
Making women fall in love with you is getting them ready to enter into a relationship with you.
Now for a guy, who wants to get laid quickly, he will always want to pick up women. Once you attract a woman, you can easily close her to have sex with you, if the logistics allow you to.
But, for someone, who wants to get a girlfriend, picking up women is the NOT the way to go. Why?
Picking up can ask you to be a bit of a jerk. Pickup women will make you be appealing, whether in a good way or a bad way. Picking up women will want you to do a bit of a peacocking. Pickup women will make you be a bit more than you are already. That’s okay. You can really put up some for a night, right?
But, what if you are looking for every coming night from now on? She will want to have a different chemistry with you right on. She will want to see the REAL YOU. She will want to see you in a daily surrounding, you carrying on in your daily lifestyle. She will want to know who you are, deep inside. That’s when she falls in love with you.
Here’s where making someone fall in love is different from picking her up.
Pickup a woman = sexuality
Making her fall in love = personality + sexuality
And that’s why making someone fall in love with you is more difficult to do.
One more thing you should note (MUST), unless you want to fall into the most obvious PUA trap ever – Frustration.
Do NOT aim to pick her up. Aim to make her fall in love with you.
Once in love, she will bring in a whole lot more intimacy into play, which will provide you with ultimate emotional satisfaction and fulfillment. Bro, we all need love and romance in our lives. We all crave appreciation.
If you try to be a PUA, you will have good game over the years, which will help you fuck a couple of girls in a row. But where’s the emotional contentment? Where’s the attachment? You will miss that. And then, you will not even want to fuck women!
That’s sad. Stay away from it!
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