Being A Man - Phew!

Well, I came home yesterday afternoon, it was a beautiful day
outside, so I decided to take a walk around the equestrian center
and visit a few of the horses. While walking, I came across one of
the women who boards her horse at the equestrian center. She was
checking on her horse, and the man that she recently started to
date was with her.

Who Is More Manly?

I managed to have a relaxing yet productive day yesterday, and
towards the end of the day I decided to run a couple of errands
before the stores closed. I also wanted to pick up a few groceries,
so I stopped by SunFlower Farmer's Market on the way home.

While there, I had the great surprise of running into a male friend
of mine. We ended up visiting for about twenty minutes. Now... I
don't agree with everything this man believes in... and his views,
on many subjects, are certainly not my views... but I always love my
conversations with him because he's positive, interesting,
knowledgeable and comical.

What Women Want Is Passion

I once had a woman tell me, "I'd rather sit down with a man who can
talk to me for five minutes about something he's truly passionate
about and I know nothing of, then to spend even a second with a
hot, rich, dull guy with no imagination."

Bingo.  Every guy should read and re-read that.  It's what I've
been saying for a long time:  if you want to attract a woman,  youfirst have to stimulate her mind.  Then her body follows.

Picking UP Women vs. Making Women FALL in Love

Well, if you don’t know already, picking up women is vastly different from making a woman fall in love with you.

In the dating community, you will find a huge hype about this whole term ‘pickup women’.

How do I pickup women in bars?

How do I pickup women on the streets?

5 Dangerous Myths Guys Believe About Women

It's funny how many guys love to believe certain myths that
have been spoon-feed to them by the media.

The truth is there are a large number of misconceptions men have 
about what women find attractive and how they view dating. What's 
bad about these myths is they limit the success of men. If you 
believe in them, then you're NOT going to date the kind of 
women you deserve.

How To Make A Woman Respect You, The Second You Open Your Mouth

If you've been reading these emails for
any amount of time, you know most of
your success or failure with women
starts IN YOUR MIND!

(And if you haven't, don't worry. I'll
beat this point into your brain ;-)

And making a woman respect you
is no different.

It all comes down to what RESPECT
means. You know what it feels like,
don't you?

It's that feeling you get when someone
cares about your opinions... your life...
your well-being...

... But it's more than that.

It's also when the person you're
talking to has FAITH THAT YOU CAN
ACHIEVE A GOAL.

Women Want Alpha Male - Act Like a Leader, Not a Follower

Today I want to talk about a character trait that's been attracting desirable women for THOUSANDS of years. This is
another quality that'll make you more NATURALLY attractive to women. 

So let's talk about this trait AND why it's important for getting  the kind of women YOu want:

Act Like a Leader, Not a Follower - Be the Alpha Male

Women want men to act like men, and part of displaying your alpha masculinity is to display courage and confidence. With that said, YOU have to be the one to take things to the next level. 

Women Want Alpha Male - Act Like a Leader, Not a Follower

Today I want to talk about a character trait that's been attracting desirable women for THOUSANDS of years. This is
another quality that'll make you more NATURALLY attractive to women. 


So let's talk about this trait AND why it's important for getting  the kind of women YOu want:
Act Like a Leader, Not a Follower - Be the Alpha Male

Women want men to act like men, and part of displaying your alpha masculinity is to display courage and confidence. With that said, YOU have to be the one to take things to the next level. 

What Creates Sexual Attraction in Women – Am I Sure? Well, you BET I Am

We have done this a couple of times and we are doing it again. What creates sexual attraction? That’s a long discussed mystery. You don’t know what creates sexual attraction in women. Unfortunately, women also don’t know what creates sexual attraction in men. Yes, trust me there. Some women will say that showing their beautiful hourglass frame will be enough. But no, it is NOT. They cannot be farther from the truth.

This goes to ALL WOMEN who think attracting men can be easy. No, it is NOT easy and in fact, quality men want more than just your looks.

Now, getting back to the topic of what creates sexual attraction in women, I will not say how to create sexual attraction. But I will list what NOT to do to create sexual attraction.

Remember this: Unless you make a move, you are not a MAN. If you move too much too soon, you are still not a MAN. Let me explain.

Art of Picking up Women discovered…

I was thinking of my interactions with girls, and realized something. This is I, ‘Nice Guy’ Ron, in my small dirty untidy apartment, tapping on my computer’s keyboard. Sometimes, I feel like I really work as a computer hacker does in his small little room, trying to break the intricate codes and feel so happy on each of his success.

Anyway, back to art of picking up women, have you considered what a woman wants from a man? I mean, she can be a topnotch lawyer or she can be the host at the local bar next-door. In either of the case, what does she want from her man? You might be thinking, the lawyer would definitely want someone highly educated, intelligent or such while the bar chick will like a cowboy kind.

Well, first of all, one of the basic facts of picking up women is to know that every woman is used to a specific lifestyle, a standard of life. And if you create that lifestyle for her, you pick her up. It’s that simple. That’s why it is SO important to first work on you and be the person she might want to spend her time with.

But here’s an important thing to learn when it comes to the art of picking up women. Do you think if you recreate your lifestyle, as she wants, she will be attracted to you? The truth is NO, SHE WON’T. Look when you are of her standard, she feels a rapport with you. That establishes the comfort, understanding and trust between you two. That’s called “FRIENDSHIP”, nothing to that intense sexual attraction she has for you.

So, what is that a woman wants from a man? She wants her man to be a MAN. 

Become Sexual Attractive - Tips for a Nice Cute Guy

Check my photo…!

I don’t know if I’m cute or not (though I have been complimented by many girls before) but one thing, I AM NICE. I just can’t be a jerk. That’s my problem.

And I know many guys out there have the same problem. They can NEVER be the ARROGANT JERK that women most likely crave after. But you want to become sexual attractive as those bad boys. That’s completely understandable. Remember I was already there.

So, here’s the deal. In this post, I will reveal how to become sexual attractive and it's dominantly for those nice cute guys.

Now, what does this Bad Boys do that women go crazy over them? Let’s see:

Make Her Fall in Love with You in ‘3’ Steps

Friends, how are you all doing? I hope you are rocking your dating and social life, and not getting enough time to read my posts even. Well, still you should regularly visit my site. Why? It’s because you are likely to find some GREAT DATING PHILOSOPHY over here. See, I always refer to as ‘dating philosophy’ because I believe it is no less than a science, it is a complete study of basic human needs and ever-continuing anthropological creed.

Anyway back to the topic, I was thinking about what actually makes someone fall in love with you. Not to speak that ALL of us want to sleep to and wake to these very words – ‘I love you’, aren’t we? But still, what makes a girl fall in love with you? When you bring her sweet smelling flowers, toothsome chocolate candies or treat her with utmost respect and love, do you make her fall in love with you? In MOST cases, you don’t. She is flattered and reciprocates you with kindness, if she has some manners. But most of the time, she is just not bothered to fall in love with you, to think of you in a romantic light.

So, how do you make her fall in love with you?

Renaissance Man - What Women Really Want From Man

Do you know what attracts a woman, what women really want from men? It's a Renaissance Man. It's not my coinage, it's actually taken from a blog post of Brad of Pumaskills.com. One of the nice posts I've found over the internet on dating, pickup and relationships. Go check it in the link below:

Steps to Become A Renaissance Man - Women Can't Resist

The basic motto of the blog post is, Women want Men who have an Interesting and Attractive Lifestyle. 

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TWO Factors that creates ATTRACTION!

I’m a highly analytical person and I think that some people will call me a geek as well. Well, yeah I AM. I’m always looking to theorize every single aspect of dating women – mainly, how to pick women up and how to keep relationships with women. Yes, that’s my hobby, that’s my passion and that’s my obsession.

I will make it short in this one. The TWO most important factors that creates ATTRACTION are:

Real Confidence – What do you mean by real confidence? Well, when you are comfortable in your skin and you are not afraid to express your real side, and move through the world in an unapologetic, dominating way, that’s when you have Real Confidence. And Real Confidence creates Attraction. Women don’t want you to be always dressed in the best clothes and goggles. Women don’t want you to TRY to be smart before them. They don’t like wannabes. Women WANT you to be that MAN who is secure inside and can provide them with a stable reality. That’s what women want.

Now, your question will be how can you be confident among beautiful women? Of course, you are not accustomed to being around beautiful women that much. Right you are! So, the next step will be to interact with as many females as you can. And in EACH of the interactions, you have got to STAY NORMAL. You cannot TRY, you cannot TRY to seek rapport or you cannot even TRY to break rapport, that’s a sign of seeking rapport, by the way.  You just stay natural as you normally are in your daily life. Treat her as everyone else.

Be BAD, Be NICE

Now, I have been in the field for quite some time and I’ve been forced to see the various probabilities of the social dynamics. I am a bit of a geek and I know my language does prove that. I write so complicated!

Anyway, just now I returned from a quick rendezvous and I discovered something. What really does suck a woman towards you? That’s your PERSONALITY. And how your personality should be? It should be both BAD and GOOD.

Let me expound that a bit.

When you first approach a woman or you’re to create the first impression, you MUST always be good, not nice though. Any girl, whether good or bad, will never even give a man with insolent idiotic attitude a second thought. So, that shouldn’t be your first impression. And there’s another plus point in that. Why? If you start with being nice, she is more likely to compel to respond positively. Now, you can unleash that bad boy weapon. She will find the new side to your character interesting. And in the later stages during the deep connection, when you turn a bit soft and nice with her, that’s just natural to her and she likes it. So, she finds that ATTRACTIVE balance in you.

If you can start with flirting as well as make her feel safe and comfortable, then you are awesome. But if you don’t know how to flirt when you approach her, just go in to meet her and be her friend. And when she is comfortable, you should start being flirtatious and BAD.

Note: If you are flirtatious and act NICE, she will be flattered but not feel that tweak of tension inside her. It’s when she can’t control you and you are really HARD TO GET that she starts succumbing to your sexuality.

Do FLIRT but also play HARD TO GET, with Intrigue and Innuendos!

Then, eventually you will be shifting to the normal ‘rapport’ or connection building stage. Now, this stage is actually initiated by the girl who complies with your qualifications, shows interest and tries to come close to you. At this stage, turn into a NICE GUY without giving up that ‘hard to get’ part completely. Qualify her, care about her, express yourself, have fun and whenever she does comply to you or comes up with some tests, disqualify her and bring back the BAD BOY. Only this time, you shouldn’t flirt. Let her work for you.

At this deep rapport stage, she should do whatever you want her to and you reward her by taking care of her.

You should appreciate her and reward her with LOVE.

In short, start with the BAD BOY and end into a GOOD BOY.

And what's the definition of good boy and bad boy?

Good Boy - Dependable, Grounded
Bad Boy - Unpredictable, Adventurous

But before you actually rush out to run the game on the first girl you find in the street nearby, you got to listen to the MOST IMPORTANT DATING ADVICE here.

You have got to SHOW YOUR INTEREST in the girl. It’s not like ‘so you are hot. I don’t care about you’ or ‘oh my god, you are so hot and I don’t think I deserve you’ but more in the lines of ‘You are hot, I Like it and I deserve you’. That’s the essence of Direct Game

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Sexual Chemistry - A Movie Review

I’m not into writing casual posts. I normally write informative and succinct dating pieces, but in this one, I’m going to stray from my regular style and just talk about a movie I have seen recently.

Yes, today itself I saw a movie, a romantic comedy you can say. The story goes like this. The boy meets the girl. The boy falls helplessly in love with the girl, but cannot express his feelings to her. Now, she finds some other man and was about to marry him. Yet the boy remains silent because he feels that the girl is out of his league and that the other man is better suited for her.

But he stays by her, in times of good and bad, and as he repeats in the movie, ‘no demands, no complaints’. So, at the last, when the time of marriage comes, the girl realizes that the boy has always been by her side and rejects the man and goes for him. Happy ending!

Now, when I was watching the movie, some questions popped into my genius mind.

Can it happen for real?

And if it so, what clicked with girl in the end?

First of all, it must be kept in mind that the boy’s attitude was friendly and NICE. He looked very eager and agreeable to everything she said and did. He was funny and always up to some kind of foolish yet exciting activities. He was, all in all, a sweetheart. At least, that’s what I and the girl in the movie felt. He worshipped the girl and was the best friend to the girl. But he loved the girl very much in his heart.

Well, in the movie, it was shown that the girl remembered how he had always been by her and cared about her. She started crying (can’t say if it was sympathy) and started loving him.

The time of dissection now…

We have to think like a woman here, what she wants and what she gets ultimately. And she doesn’t really get what she wants here in this movie.

A woman always wants her man to be:

Confident and Dominant

And since she also wants sexual satisfaction, she wants someone who is a hardcore romancer, a lover she wants.

So, when you state your sexual intentions to her in a sensuous way, she finds it romantic and it creates the right chemistry between you two. She knows that she can be the woman for you know how to be a man. You are the man who knows how to love a woman. Moreover, you show her that you are quite direct and dominant, and have the ability to lead her. That means you have a strong reality as a MAN. And that’s what a woman wants from her man.

Now, let’s look at it from a different angle. A woman, especially a very beautiful woman, is normally surrounded by man, who is either a nerd or player. Carefully looked at, both of them don’t signify honesty. The former one just doesn’t have the courage to be honest and the latter one doesn’t care to be honest. And that’s another thing what women look for in a man.

A woman always wants her man to be:

Real and Honest

…unless she is up for a quickie herself!

By now, it must be clear to you then what a woman normally wants from a man.

But how come the girl in the movie fell for the boy in the end? Here’s the biggie!

If you let go of all inhibitions and convince someone that you can do anything to get them, that you LOVE them so much, they are bound to fall in love with you. Yes, that’s true. To be honest, I’ve done it myself.

When I was in high school, I fell in love with a girl and it was ‘at first sight’. And without any further thoughts, I approached her DIRECT. Not necessarily I said ‘I love you’ but yeah, I did make it obvious that I wanted her. It’s just not a ‘like-you’ kind of thing. Of course, she said she had a boyfriend. But still I DIDN’T give up and kept pursuing her. They might have said that I was being needy but I wanted what I wanted and I was direct about it. No qualms about expressing honestly about that!

After about a few months, she became my girlfriend! Now, how is that?

No gimmicks, no routines, nothing. Just plain being strong in my realityand stating my sexual desire for her clicked!

Yes, girls love to see the level of confidence in men. When nothing deters or shakes your reality, she succumbs to your reality. When you show sexual interest in the girl and show her that you have a strong reality that cannot be shaken, she feels a strong sexual attraction towards you. That’s called the sexual chemistry.

Just imagine the situation.

The boy approaches the girl. He speaks confidently but making the girl easy at first. Now, when he feels that she is getting on well with him, it’s the time to break the comfort a bit. You challenge her. You start teasing her and giving her a hard time. She suddenly feels a tension. At this moment, he starts flirting with her. He uses sexual innuendos and hints at sexual desire for her. It keeps the tension up and maintains the sexual chemistry there. He doesn’t give up challenging her though, but still adds the sexual element to the conversation. Later, he goes on to keep the girl on her toes. When he is flirting, the girl is not so sure about it. It’s because the tension is already built by the boy’s attitude and behavior towards the girl. He has built the sexual tension, busting on her and giving her a real hard time. She is laughing but she is also excited. Remember, she wants a man who is in control and sexual.

The boy keeps up the challenging frame, though forming a connection now and then, with shared passions and activities. But the girl doesn’t know what will come next. She thinks that something will happen and it is proven wrong each and every time. She is just on her toes, and that is called Rollercoaster Attraction.

So, according to me,

Dominant Challenge + Sexual Flirting + Real Connection = Sexual Attraction = Sexual Chemistry

I am a highly analytical guy and I just LOVE formulae…lol. Anyway, hope this article helps you a bit. Any questions you have, just call upon me.

How to Attract a Woman – Create that Sexual Chemistry

No, I’m not going to delineate out any quick fix PUA technique here. But rather I would rant on why the attraction tactics work on women? In short, I would be talking about the ATTRACTIVE MAN that women crave for.

What do women want from men? What do you think they want from you?

Many men think that if you worship them or put them up on a pedestal, they will start to like you. Now is this true? NEVER further from it! Women are flattered when you praise them and you celebrate them, but they don’t feel that elusive feeling, they so want to feel from a man. It’s more commonly called the sexual chemistry.

What creates that sexual chemistry? Remember that this sexual chemistry is what makes the bond, the relationship between you and the woman an everlasting one.

And how is that sexual chemistry created between the two individuals?

First of all, one thing needs to be reinforced and that is, you MUST show interest in the woman. Why? If she’s a hot woman, she will have guys approaching her and hitting on her every now and then. Now, just imagine the situation. If you were an average looking guy, not that rich or whatever, would she ever feel the pulse to come approach you. Never! She might give you a look BUT she will forget you nonetheless in a moment. You might say that you can approach her indirect. But is that really possible every time? No, it’s not. It’s because unless the two of you are likely to place yourself near each other by chance, you cannot run an indirect game. And placing yourself near her might not be that easy every time.

A little miss on your part and she’ll know what you want from her. That instantly signals that you don’t have confidence and aggressiveness inside you to match her level.

And here comes the biggie. Unless you throw in some sexuality into the conversation, she won’t feel that tension inside her. The vibe isn’t going to pop up just like that. She will not do anything. You got to make the move. You have to show her that you are confident enough to lead her. You got to take pains to create it on your own. Your showing of sexual interest in her just brings that much-needed sexual feel into the interaction.

But just expressing your romantic desire for her is enough? No. She has got thousands of guys showing romantic interest to her every day. She wants her man to be sexual of course, but she wants a MAN before that. And by man, I mean the attractive man women dream about. We are talking about the Don Juan, the famous lover.

A woman wants her man to dominate her, lead her and protect her. And for this reason, women want their man to be physically bigger than they are. They want their man to be overpowering, leading and powerful. Her man cannot be scared by her. Her man should enter her reality and overwhelm it. She wants to be guided by his reality. She wants to be a part of HIS REALITY. He should suck her into his reality. It’s about the confidence, or like they say, cockiness that matters.

You are SO secure of yourself that you make her feel secure in turn. She wants SECURITY from her man. She wants to let her hair down and depend on her man.

How can you show that level of confidence and security to her? Enter her reality and overmaster it! It’s that simple. But would she be accepting? You have to make it acceptable. You have to make it SOCIALLY GRACEFUL and ACCEPTABLE, yet send her the information that you are the MAN. You dominate over her and that you want her to be your woman and enter your reality.

Be Strong! And I’m not talking about physical strength, but INNER STRENGTH. Tease her, bust on her and just playfully dominate over her reality. Show her that you can lead and protect her. You are confident enough to be there for her in times of need. It’s just displaying your male sexuality. It’s called Flirting.

What does flirting mean? It involves showing your sexual worthiness and signaling your sexual interest towards the member of the opposite sex. Flirting is the most powerful way of creating that sexual chemistry with your woman.

So, to sum it up, how do you create sexual chemistry? Show sexual interest in a sexually attractive way!

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Keep the Fire of Burning Sexual Chemistry Alive in a Relationship

I've come to understand one important thing over these years of meeting, dating and attracting women. You can create attraction very easily but to KEEP it is very difficult. Almost all of the relationships dwindle down in their mid phase. Let me tell you one interesting fact, all of the well-known PUAs we have heard about and follow dedicatedly are uncommitted to any relationship, except the ones of Scot McKay and Stephen Nash.

So, what’s the case here? What are we missing? The thing is that we don’t give the woman what we promise. It’s that simple a concept. You have to ken one simple idea: when you give her what she wants, you are valuable to her or else, not. Now, when you dress like a movie star, you are valuable. When you approach her in a cool yet dominant manner, you are valuable. When you ask her qualifying questions and give her a hard time during the initial stages, you are valuable.

Here’s where the next phase comes. She wants to create that emotional connection with you. She wants to open up to you and wants you to get close to her. This is the stage when you are connecting with her and you are commencing the initiation of a possible relationship. Remember, it may not end up in a relationship but emotional connection marks the beginning of a chance relationship.

Okay, so what you do here will set the frame how you deal with her in a relationship and how you keep the attraction in your relationship.

First of all, you should not disclose everything about yourself but yeah, you should show more of your real personality to her. She opens up to you, ask her deep questions, get to know her better and let her keep the imagination about you alive in her mind. She is more interested in sharing herself with you, not in learning the details about you. The fun is in the mystery around you. Be a little vulnerable yet a bit more mysterious to her.

As in the start of the interaction, don’t be overt and never verbalize anything. You should let her make her decision and just make her decision. You want to make her think about you. You are a mystery to her. She is finding you out. She is playing the detective and that’s fun to her. It creates the necessary sexual tension. To keep this sexual tension, it’s always better to avoid being too overt or verbalize anything. She should be the one finding it out. She should be the one caring enough about you to be able to understand you. This keeps the sexual chemistry alive.

For this reason, get your own life. Cultivate your dreams and ambitions. In this way, you also stay a bit out of reach. She is not the centre of the world to you. You have a life. She is just a part of that. She’s not the goddess you worship but she is just another human being who you are coupled with for your life. Focus on yourself. Focus on your life. She is just a sweet companion to you. She is your spouse.

You must always have a strong reality. Your reality is what she lives in. Don’t strip her that strength. She trusts in you. She depends on you. She wants you to be there for her. So, she looks for strength in you. That’s all she wants in the man in relationship.

Women love when you play banter them, when you tease them and when you give her a hard time. She loves a man she cannot control. She loves a man who can challenge her and can have power over her. Be a bit of a devil at times. Be mischievous. Be hard to control. Challenge her. Let her play up to you or accept surrender. Let me tell you a woman’s darkest fantasy: That’s when her man is ‘authoritative and dominant’, when her man is ‘powerful and leading’. She feels weak and she feels attracted to her. All alpha males wield power over their women in relationship.

So, to cut it short, be strong and leading, challenge her at times yet be a mystery to her. That’s the recipe to keep the fire of sexual chemistry alive in a relationship.

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The Greatest Mistake in Seducing Women

I’d a girlfriend recently and she is my current girlfriend, one of my subjects of seduction. And she is like the rest of the girls I attract and get attracted to. She is very sexy (will post her photo some other day) and at the same time, she is a CHALLENGE…Period.

I don’t like girls who are easy, I like girls who can make me work a bit, but nonetheless, they should be comfortable with their sexuality and expressing it, in other words, they should be damn sexual. But when she makes me work, I couldn’t stand it. Eventually I convinced myself, she‘s not the one to be my girlfriend. She is made of the wrong material and if I go for her, I’m doomed in the future. I believed I was following my theory, ‘Always try to keep Positivity around you’.

Yes, today again, I was about to have a fight with myself over how hard she is and was about to break up with her, when I realized something BIG. I was actually making a mistake.

Note: It’s better to learn from other’s mistakes. Learn from the Guru by clicking HERE.

To start with, I was being totally insecure and INSECURITY KILLS ATTRACTION. You should know what you are, where you stand and that you stand there strong enough. You love yourself, others love you. You respect yourself, others respect you. You value yourself, others value you. Every man falls prey to insecurity at some point of their life and so was I.

And the next big mistake was I was trying to control her life, her lifestyle. I was trying to be a dictator. I didn’t accepted it myself but notwithstanding, always tried to behest her what to do and what not to do. I was being that JERK who doesn’t care about her but only wants what he wants and keeps pushing for it. This is a big turn-off to women.

Rule of the thumb: You have to understand a woman and accept her reality (when she opens herself up to you). You cannot try to change her reality the way you like. She may not be comfortable in the new one and thus, can lead to further problems. Don’t take shit but don’t shit with her as well. She’s a human and if she’s quality, she’s a life.

Now, the biggie…the Art of Seduction says that you don’t physically force her to come to you, but you mentally force her to capitulate to you. You cannot just say ‘do this’ or ‘do that’. But you have to work on her mind so that she herself does this or that. It’s like that great sales representative who makes his customer feel like he’s making the choice. You cannot ever make the choice for her but you can just lead her to the options available, the options you want her to choose from.

Rule of the thumb: Work on her mind. Let her ACT on her choice. You don't own her. Don’t make her act on your choice, that’s brutal and fatuous. You want to be the prince she chooses, not the villain who forcefully abducts her, binding her with ropes.

Well, on the mention of ropes, some girls do like them. Learn more about Sexual Satisfaction by clicking HERE.

I think that’s it for now. I’ll try to control my tiger instinct of dominating over others and unleash the Casanova within.

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Do You Know The Idea of Masculinity? Women Know It!

If you ask any woman about what kind of men they want, they would reply right away that women want MASCULINE men, men who are ‘manly’. They drool over manly men and if you think they want looks, money or fame, no, you are wrong. Women want that x-man factor in you, if you know what I mean. This was quite a mystery to me for a long time, and I’m sure it is to most other men as well. What’s this thingy called manliness? Tell me something, can you be sure about what actually manliness means. I’m sure I’ll get very scattered and dissimilar (even contradictory) answers from you all.

But here’s the funny part, all of you will still have a similar feeling when someone MANLY comes in front of you (yes, even if you are A GUY yourself) but you just can’t describe it. Yes, I know I’m right and I studied on this for a long time. Here’s what I found.

Well, the very first picture, when we consider a masculine or macho man, that strikes us, is a huge bulked up person strutting down the street with a tough expression on his face! Wow, so manly, isn’t it? No, I don’t think so and I bet, almost all women would agree with me. He looks FAKE but not manly. But this is the normal notion that we hold of a manly man. He should not talk much, he should have zero facial expression, he should have big muscles and he should rather be unsocial with others. That doesn’t sound macho to me, but it definitely sounds nauseating, that’s for sure.

And fortunately, women have a very different idea of manliness. Before you go on to learn about what manliness is, let’s discuss about something more or less related to it. We are talking about Alphaness. What the heck is Alphaness? Who’s an Alpha? An Alpha is the dominant member of any social group. It can be easily understood that an alpha is basically a social, resourceful and dominant leader. Yes, women love leaders. Women love men who can take decisions, who can take a lead and go get what he wants. It’s expected of men to direct women and that’s so manly…

Let’s take it further. We are coming on to the main idea of masculinity now. What is A MAN? A man is the dominant, aggressive and leading force of life that provides the woman a sense of direction and power to survive in this world. A woman is the soft and graceful force of life that nurtures the man and provides him with a shelter. He moves in a direction and she stays and keeps him grounded. He is soaring while she pushes him up. He is the leader while she’s the follower. He’s dominant and aggressive, and she’s recessive and receptive. A woman looks for REAL CONFIDENCE and SENSE OF SECURITY in a man.

Masculinity and femininity are two extreme ends of a pole. The more one is distant from the other, the more the two are attracted to one another. This is just the law of attraction.

Anyway, to summarize this whole masculinity thing, masculinity is inner power, the inner strength and that turns on a woman big time. Remember, a woman’s darkest fantasy is to submit her to the right man, who has the power over her, women want MEN!

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