Do You Know The Idea of Masculinity? Women Know It!

If you ask any woman about what kind of men they want, they would reply right away that women want MASCULINE men, men who are ‘manly’. They drool over manly men and if you think they want looks, money or fame, no, you are wrong. Women want that x-man factor in you, if you know what I mean. This was quite a mystery to me for a long time, and I’m sure it is to most other men as well. What’s this thingy called manliness? Tell me something, can you be sure about what actually manliness means. I’m sure I’ll get very scattered and dissimilar (even contradictory) answers from you all.

But here’s the funny part, all of you will still have a similar feeling when someone MANLY comes in front of you (yes, even if you are A GUY yourself) but you just can’t describe it. Yes, I know I’m right and I studied on this for a long time. Here’s what I found.

Well, the very first picture, when we consider a masculine or macho man, that strikes us, is a huge bulked up person strutting down the street with a tough expression on his face! Wow, so manly, isn’t it? No, I don’t think so and I bet, almost all women would agree with me. He looks FAKE but not manly. But this is the normal notion that we hold of a manly man. He should not talk much, he should have zero facial expression, he should have big muscles and he should rather be unsocial with others. That doesn’t sound macho to me, but it definitely sounds nauseating, that’s for sure.

And fortunately, women have a very different idea of manliness. Before you go on to learn about what manliness is, let’s discuss about something more or less related to it. We are talking about Alphaness. What the heck is Alphaness? Who’s an Alpha? An Alpha is the dominant member of any social group. It can be easily understood that an alpha is basically a social, resourceful and dominant leader. Yes, women love leaders. Women love men who can take decisions, who can take a lead and go get what he wants. It’s expected of men to direct women and that’s so manly…

Let’s take it further. We are coming on to the main idea of masculinity now. What is A MAN? A man is the dominant, aggressive and leading force of life that provides the woman a sense of direction and power to survive in this world. A woman is the soft and graceful force of life that nurtures the man and provides him with a shelter. He moves in a direction and she stays and keeps him grounded. He is soaring while she pushes him up. He is the leader while she’s the follower. He’s dominant and aggressive, and she’s recessive and receptive. A woman looks for REAL CONFIDENCE and SENSE OF SECURITY in a man.

Masculinity and femininity are two extreme ends of a pole. The more one is distant from the other, the more the two are attracted to one another. This is just the law of attraction.

Anyway, to summarize this whole masculinity thing, masculinity is inner power, the inner strength and that turns on a woman big time. Remember, a woman’s darkest fantasy is to submit her to the right man, who has the power over her, women want MEN!

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