How does Love happen?!

I was ruminating on this aspect of life: LOVE. What is love? Many a big philosophers have defined it or at least, tried to, but were they successful? No, they weren’t, because love is a mysteriously wonderful emotion that needs some time to even UNDERSTAND for a start.

So back to the question, what is love? See, before I go on to expound on the word ‘love’, I want to asseverate something very clearly. I love women and I LOVE WOMEN! I believe that women are one of the most beautiful creations of God. When God saw how smelly and hairy, how grotesque and logical he has made a man to be, he went on to create a much better variation. And surmise what, he came up with WOMEN. Women are fraught with emotions, they look at lives in a more profound way than men do and they keep the sense of sociality intact. Well, I can go on and on with this. I hope you can feel the passion at least, ha ha.

Anyway, what the heck is love? Love, yeah, love is a sweet surreally wondrous feeling of intimacy, understanding, support, trust, openness, vulnerability and dependence you get in the presence of a certain person. You know that you can have complete faith in the person. You can be totally comfortable when you are with him. You feel that you are there for each other forever. You just feel like you can totally SHARE yourself with him. And this feeling is called love.

But how does love happen? The most important question that a man asks himself, and perhaps others, is if he can create love or not. If yes, how can it be done? Well, I’m going to break the secret here. You can NEVER create love, not at least, by running some spectacular tactics on the woman. She can be interested in you, but she will never FALL IN LOVE with you. Remember, love is an emotion and an emotion is particularly created on its own, in a very indirect way. To be more direct, if you think your spitting out a pickup line will create love, you’re lost. But at times, you not even opening the woman can create love, by the way.

You would probably be sniffling at the moment, that I still haven’t made it clear to you what causes love to happen? Okay, we are looking at a special form of chemistry here, sexual chemistry that is. So, let’s describe it in the words of chemistry then. When two elements come in contact of each other, either they react or they don’t. You can have a catalyst or an inhibitor in the process, of course but does that change how they react to each other. They just help in facilitating the reaction, whether positive or negative. In a way, the reaction depends on the quality and type of the element then.

In real world, similar is the case. When she comes in contact with you, she just knows whether you are the one for her or not. Remember, she is choosing you on the basis of how you are as a person, not because of any specific antics that you commit in front of her to impress her, save when your antics reveal glimpses of your personality in a positive way.

To cut it short, you cannot create love, but you can try to be someone who people are INCLINED TO LOVE. And then, it takes its own course when you approach that woman.

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