What Women Want From The Men?!

This question has baffled you for a long time and you are left scratching your head, asking yourself, “What do women want from men?” That’s a question you start asking yourself when you enter your teenage and you keep asking yourself when you depart from this world. She thinks something else, she says something else and she does something else. Oh Gosh! They are so perplexing! Remember, men are from Mars and women are from Venus. So, how can you know what the women want from us men?

And this can be a big deterrent in your path to happiness in your dating life. You timidly approached the woman in the bar and everything was going so great, but suddenly she said she has to go find her friends and she never comes back. You bought the cologne your best male friend, a womanizer, wears. You dress like him, hoping that you will get success like him. You even ask him how he opens women for advice. But then also, you still crash and burn. You took the help of a local dating coach who PROMISES that he can get you hotties after a seven-day crash course. After the program, you feel like you are the superman. You are flirting with the girl and she’s eating from your palm (well, at least it seems to). Then, she says how funny you are and later on that night, you find out that she’s making out with some other guy. You were sure women liked sense of humor and you also tried to build some comfort, to avoid ‘fool’s mate’.

But what’s this? Why is this happening? This is BECAUSE YOU DON’T UNDERSTAND WOMEN. You don’t know what they want from you.

And that’s why you want to read this article, NOT ONCE BUT SEVERAL TIMES, until it imbues into your very soul.

Women want three things from men as follows:

• ·         Security – Women don’t want a man who will suck value and status from her. They don’t want a man who will depend on her. They don’t want a man who doesn’t have power. This is what women mean when they say that they want a strong man. They just want a man who has his feet well secured in this world and can provide the much needed stability and inner strength to the woman. It’s not because women are weak but because women want to feel weak to their man. This is why women want guys who are bigger than them. It is that same thing they relate to as power. Security is just isn’t money or fame. Security is the protective feeling that you provide to her when she’s with you.

• ·         Sexual Tension – One of my female buddies once expounded this to me that they want a man who can make them feel certain kind of current, electricity running through their body. It doesn’t mean that person has to be a superstar or a rich daddy’s son…But he should be able to generate that much needed tingling sensation inside. And that comes through how you interact with the women. It’s not when you open your mouth. It starts when she throws a glance at you. From that very moment, you need to work on the right strings to create that much-needed music. One thing to note here, the sensation can never stop. It must GO ON forever.

• ·         Social Gracefulness – Last but not the least, the first impression counts and that impression should make her feel like ‘this guys cool.’ She should not feel like you are some weird pickup artist out on a preying spree. You are that damn confident cool guy that just approached her and made her day. And this is important because she will actually try to figure out whether speaking to you is going to mar her social status or not. If it is yes, then you are instantly done and over with, baby! Make her perceive you as someone with social value equal to or more than hers. Then she will be curious to know more about you.

Those are the THREE most important things when it comes to picking up women.

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