What TURNS ON a woman’s Interest?

Many a times, we have tried to figure out what actually hooks a woman to you. How can you get a woman’s interest? I have and I know you do too.

Some pick up artists would advise you not to pay attention to them. Some will suggest you to be genuinely curious and show interest. Some will push for expressing your sexuality. Are they wrong? No they aren’t but yeah, partly they are. They know what might work but perhaps they don’t know why that works. Of course, some of them are really good at what they do and one thing needs to be reiterated that you can never totally understand anyone. But anyone who’s worth trying to understand is what we are looking for.

Back to the question, what turns on a woman’s interest? Is it your looks? Is it your money? Is it not paying attention to her? Is it you talking aloud? Is it being Alpha among other men? None of them is the actual reason.

Before that, let us find out what does a woman wants from a man. She wants her man to be a MAN. She wants to surrender herself to her man and she wants her man to accept her completely and LOVE her. She wants to be appreciated, she wants to be loved and she wants to be cherished. I cannot underpin this one more. Anyway, can you see a basic thing here? We are talking about what she wants.

Yes, that’s the secret. You need to give her what she wants, sometimes deep inside even without her knowledge. You need to know her frustration, you need to know her problems, you need to construe her deepest desires and you have to cater to that. Some has a strong personality themselves and wants someone very dominant. Some are soft and they are looking for sweet romance. Some just want to have fun and they are looking for fun. She can know you from the get-go. The moment she looks at you, she knows if you are the one, or at least, she decides whether you are worth the chance. This is called VALUE in PUA terminology.

The secret to turning a woman’s interest is to show promise that you can ADD VALUE into her life. And you do that with your personality...Then you have her attention.

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