No, I’m not going to delineate out any quick fix PUA technique here. But rather I would rant on why the attraction tactics work on women? In short, I would be talking about the ATTRACTIVE MAN that women crave for.
What do women want from men? What do you think they want from you?
Many men think that if you worship them or put them up on a pedestal, they will start to like you. Now is this true? NEVER further from it! Women are flattered when you praise them and you celebrate them, but they don’t feel that elusive feeling, they so want to feel from a man. It’s more commonly called the sexual chemistry.
What creates that sexual chemistry? Remember that this sexual chemistry is what makes the bond, the relationship between you and the woman an everlasting one.
And how is that sexual chemistry created between the two individuals?
First of all, one thing needs to be reinforced and that is, you MUST show interest in the woman. Why? If she’s a hot woman, she will have guys approaching her and hitting on her every now and then. Now, just imagine the situation. If you were an average looking guy, not that rich or whatever, would she ever feel the pulse to come approach you. Never! She might give you a look BUT she will forget you nonetheless in a moment. You might say that you can approach her indirect. But is that really possible every time? No, it’s not. It’s because unless the two of you are likely to place yourself near each other by chance, you cannot run an indirect game. And placing yourself near her might not be that easy every time.
A little miss on your part and she’ll know what you want from her. That instantly signals that you don’t have confidence and aggressiveness inside you to match her level.
And here comes the biggie. Unless you throw in some sexuality into the conversation, she won’t feel that tension inside her. The vibe isn’t going to pop up just like that. She will not do anything. You got to make the move. You have to show her that you are confident enough to lead her. You got to take pains to create it on your own. Your showing of sexual interest in her just brings that much-needed sexual feel into the interaction.
But just expressing your romantic desire for her is enough? No. She has got thousands of guys showing romantic interest to her every day. She wants her man to be sexual of course, but she wants a MAN before that. And by man, I mean the attractive man women dream about. We are talking about the Don Juan, the famous lover.
A woman wants her man to dominate her, lead her and protect her. And for this reason, women want their man to be physically bigger than they are. They want their man to be overpowering, leading and powerful. Her man cannot be scared by her. Her man should enter her reality and overwhelm it. She wants to be guided by his reality. She wants to be a part of HIS REALITY. He should suck her into his reality. It’s about the confidence, or like they say, cockiness that matters.
You are SO secure of yourself that you make her feel secure in turn. She wants SECURITY from her man. She wants to let her hair down and depend on her man.
How can you show that level of confidence and security to her? Enter her reality and overmaster it! It’s that simple. But would she be accepting? You have to make it acceptable. You have to make it SOCIALLY GRACEFUL and ACCEPTABLE, yet send her the information that you are the MAN. You dominate over her and that you want her to be your woman and enter your reality.
Be Strong! And I’m not talking about physical strength, but INNER STRENGTH. Tease her, bust on her and just playfully dominate over her reality. Show her that you can lead and protect her. You are confident enough to be there for her in times of need. It’s just displaying your male sexuality. It’s called Flirting.
What does flirting mean? It involves showing your sexual worthiness and signaling your sexual interest towards the member of the opposite sex. Flirting is the most powerful way of creating that sexual chemistry with your woman.
So, to sum it up, how do you create sexual chemistry? Show sexual interest in a sexually attractive way!
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