Why Flirting You Should be ALWAYS

First of all, you should understand what flirting means. Many men just don’t seem to understand what flirting stands for in the first place. Guys, it is NOT spitting out a clever line to a woman or buying her flowers to show your affection to her.

Flirting is a SUBTLE way of conveying that you are interested in her. Keep notice, I used ‘convey’ here instead of ‘state’ or ‘show’. Why? It’s because you can never show or state to a woman that you like her. Now, you would be thinking to yourself. ‘Man, I was just being natural and DIRECT, and I was doing my thing. I was displaying my interest to her outright’.

Well, let me tell you something. That’s NOT direct game. I don’t care what game style you prefer. The only thing that makes a pickup successful and gives that ROMANCE to the girl she so wants is through constant sexual tension. That’s what flirting is all about. Flirting generates sexual tension.

What is sexual tension? It’s that electrical charge between a man and a woman, when they come in contact with each other. As I always say, if a man and a woman are chemical elements, the vulnerability of entering into a chemical reaction is called sexual tension. Just imagine you meet a girl and there’s something that draws you to that girl. You don’t know where you stand with her; at least you cannot be FULLY CERTAIN about it. She may tell you that she likes you, but you are not sure about that. You think about day in and day out, and it changes into LUST slowly. You become crazy about her. What is that thing that makes you crazy about the girl? Was she too beautiful? No. It was how she made you feel, that sexual tension, sexual chemistry.

When you look at her intently without saying anything to her, speak on neutral topics and suddenly tell her how pretty she looked in the red dress, or you come close (to her face) and suddenly pull back showing that you were just to pick up that thing and nothing else, you are flirting and you are creating that much needed sexual tension. She feels the bombasting sexual chemistry between you. You make her start to think about you.

You are flirting and she gets the hint that you are interested in her. That’s starts the fire. You are not making it obvious to her, not letting her be sure what you think, and she burns aglow in that fire. That pulls her towards you. She gets attracted to you.

Rules of Sexual Chemistry:

• It must be soft and comfortable for her. It must not make her feel like a slut. It must be the romance she craves for - the Don Juan experience!
• You must make her receptive to your advances. When you feel like she's comfortable and enjoying being with you, you should bring that sex-factor into the interaction and see how she responds to it.
• You must make her feel that you are honest and genuine about her, and focus on her completely.
• Sometimes, she might want you to create a comfortable environment before challenging her. Sometimes, she wants you to turn it on as soon as you enter the conversation.
• She must be attracted to you as a person. She must feel like, 'this guy is cool and interesting'. Women love high status males (men that have some worth).
• TEASE the hell out of her. With 'what do you do', 'where are you from', etc types of questions, you get to know each other but do you excite her. Let's even say that you two find a commonality, is that going to excite her up? Nopes! When she returns back home, she'll think that you are a nice man. But you MUST challenge her. That creates the burning sexual chemistry between you two. Teasing her (a non-attachment attitude) coupled with a highly sexual, flirtatious vibe is what will turn her on.

But the only problem to this whole flirting thing is that if she’s a just a normal girl, she will react to it. But if she’s a player, she will know how to turn the table around, and we all love a player, don’t we? So, learn to PLAY THE PLAYER, bros!

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