We have done this a couple of times and we are doing it again. What creates sexual attraction? That’s a long discussed mystery. You don’t know what creates sexual attraction in women. Unfortunately, women also don’t know what creates sexual attraction in men. Yes, trust me there. Some women will say that showing their beautiful hourglass frame will be enough. But no, it is NOT. They cannot be farther from the truth.
This goes to ALL WOMEN who think attracting men can be easy. No, it is NOT easy and in fact, quality men want more than just your looks.
Now, getting back to the topic of what creates sexual attraction in women, I will not say how to create sexual attraction. But I will list what NOT to do to create sexual attraction.
Remember this: Unless you make a move, you are not a MAN. If you move too much too soon, you are still not a MAN. Let me explain.
If you are attracted to her, you cannot hide your interest. It shows through your eyes, your facial expression and your body language. This happens all the time with the ultimate hotties. Now, the best thing you can do here is actually making a CONFIDENT move. You can walk up to her and say Hi. You can give her generous sincere compliment. You are adding value to her life.
Yes, you have shown interest in her. Now, remove all attachment to outcome from that interest. Don’t overdo your interest. It comes off as a try-hard. You cannot be NEEDY. That’s the main thing. You cannot seek validation from her. You cannot supplicate. You cannot give up your power to her. It is not confidence. It is not self-esteem. It is that SECURITY that women want in their man.
Now, how to do exactly this, that is, show desire and be secure at the same time? You do it by flirting. Yes, what creates sexual attraction in women is…Flirting. When you flirt with her, you are creating that sexual vibe when she knows that you are sexually available and up for a dance. It’s very, very subtle. But when you are flirting, you are also indicating another important thing. You are NOT needy and you are completely secure with yourself. You are not being pushy. Flirting is never direct confrontation. It is casual sexual encounter that is not forceful but enjoyable. You are just leading her into something sexual and highly charged up. But to outsiders, you are talking about mundane topics. You are asking about her school, you are talking about your friends, etc.
But, you are showing your interest, yet being a challenge to her. That’s what creates sexual attraction in women.
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