Art of Picking up Women discovered…

I was thinking of my interactions with girls, and realized something. This is I, ‘Nice Guy’ Ron, in my small dirty untidy apartment, tapping on my computer’s keyboard. Sometimes, I feel like I really work as a computer hacker does in his small little room, trying to break the intricate codes and feel so happy on each of his success.

Anyway, back to art of picking up women, have you considered what a woman wants from a man? I mean, she can be a topnotch lawyer or she can be the host at the local bar next-door. In either of the case, what does she want from her man? You might be thinking, the lawyer would definitely want someone highly educated, intelligent or such while the bar chick will like a cowboy kind.

Well, first of all, one of the basic facts of picking up women is to know that every woman is used to a specific lifestyle, a standard of life. And if you create that lifestyle for her, you pick her up. It’s that simple. That’s why it is SO important to first work on you and be the person she might want to spend her time with.

But here’s an important thing to learn when it comes to the art of picking up women. Do you think if you recreate your lifestyle, as she wants, she will be attracted to you? The truth is NO, SHE WON’T. Look when you are of her standard, she feels a rapport with you. That establishes the comfort, understanding and trust between you two. That’s called “FRIENDSHIP”, nothing to that intense sexual attraction she has for you.

So, what is that a woman wants from a man? She wants her man to be a MAN. 

The regular average ‘new-age’ boys are actually boys. They cling to her, agree to whatever she says or do, and basically acts like a puppy. He will buy her drinks, be available whenever she calls him, lends his shoulder to cry on, relies on her to make decisions and NEVER ‘crosses the safe line’. Now that is a BIG turnoff to the women.

• Women want a man – who is a source of power and support to the women.
• A man who knows what he is, what he wants and where he is going
• A man who can guide her and stand for her in times of need
• A man who can let her be a woman, without being a luggage to her

A woman wants to feel sexual, but she wants a MAN to be seduced. Who is a MAN? A MAN validates her and doesn’t look for validation from her. A man renders value and strength to her, and doesn’t look to suck value from her. A MAN is the source of confidence and security she wants in her life.

Yes, that sounds good. But I know most people, out to understand the art of picking up women, actually want some clear-cut tactics that work in real life and not just sound good on paper. Right…you got it.

 What do you do to make her want you, to make her fall in love with you? Here’s what a woman actually wants from a man.

Strong Display of Interest – Unless you show interest, there won’t be any sexual vibe and in turn, chemistry between you two. But you got to stand up and show a confident display of interest, that is, you cannot beg from her. You ASK what you want from her. You know that you will get it and you are just making your move. A confident person knows he deserve the other person. So, they don’t supplicate or give away their power to get something that they want. They know they SHOULD get it. When you go for her, go STRONG yet cool. You want her yet you are not that starved in life. You have a lot going on in your life. Do not give up your power when you go for a woman. That’s the trick to wow women.

Lack of Desperateness – Remember you can never push a girl to fall into love with you. She will or she won’t…simple as that. You got to make her want to fall in love with you. That entails dissolving all the resistances that she might have towards falling in love with you. Am I being vague? Okay, you should NEVER push her. Just lead her. Just guide her into FEELING for you. The thing is you should NOT TRY. You must CHALLENGE HER.

That’s why you should know how to flirt with a woman. Flirting is all about showing strong, confident intent for her, and at the same time, creating a sense of tension in the air. When you don’t push her or act needy yet persist on showing that strong intent for her, she starts to feel the sexual vibe in the air. At this point, she can either back down or get up for the game. She can even take some time to think about it. You just keep on working the sexual tension in the atmosphere. Remember, NO NEEDINESS! Force meets with resistance. Don’t ever force her. Just lead her. Moreover, a high-value person, when he wants something and knows that he can get it, doesn’t act needy or scramble to have it. He takes his time and enjoys the interaction.

That’s the subtle art of picking up women. You see unless you learn to walk the rope, you can never become a player you want to be.

Gosh! It again turned out to be SO long a post. I don’t know what jumps on me when I start to write about women and dating. See ya, next time!

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