4 Reasons Why You Should Learn Daytime Dating

Most guys think you can only meet women in bars and clubs. That can?t be further from the truth. Just think back how many gorgeous women you?ve seen shopping. The great thing is that meeting women in the daytime is a great alternative. Here are 4 reasons why you should start meeting women in coffee shops, malls, colleges, and shopping streets.

You don?t enjoy going to bars or clubs.

Top 3 Places to Meet Women in the Daytime

One of the great advantages of meeting women outside bars and clubs is the wide range of places you can meet women. At night you?re limited to bars, lounges, and clubs. In the daytime you can meet women anywhere like coffee shops, theme parks, grocery stores, and so on.

Top 5 Turn Offs for Women

Improving your dating life can be tough, especially when women reject you on the approach. It's part of the game. If you are getting striked out after the approach you might be doing something wrong that turns women off. It can be a lot of different things and you might be even unaware of the mistakes you are making. Here are 5 things to watch for that turn women off (and you want to avoid).

1. Pickup lines
Let's get one thing clear before you even approach: pickup lines do not work. Whenever you approach a woman with a (cheesy) pickup line, she will shoot you down. By using a pickup line, what you are actually saying to her is that you are someone who doesn't have any social intuition and you are someone who does not date women like her. Communicating those things automatically raises a red flag in her mind that you are not suitable for her to date you.

You Need Money or Good Looks To Get Beautiful Women

Most men believe all it takes is money or good looks to attract women. You see it all the times in Hollywood movies where the rich guy is walking into restaurants with a gorgeous woman besides him. Other times when you're walking down the street you see a male model walking with a stunner. All these images reinforce the belief that you need money or good looks to get women.

Daytime Dating: Never Sleep Alone eBook Review – by Jeremy Soul, the Day Game Expert of Lovesystems

Jeremy Soul’s Daytime Dating: Never Sleep Alone eBook continues on the legacy of dedication and honesty of the Love Systems, the premier dating and pickup company, run by Savoy. This came after a long time, and is compiled with wealth of information.

Daytime Dating Review

Strengths

• It consists of almost 164 pages…needless to say, HUGE for one eBook with LOADS of knowledge…
• It has no useless pictures for fillers – but simplified diagrams and picture models that make it whole easier to understand…
• It has a structured and specific approach (very unlike Lovesystems), well-defined solutions (logistics, strategies, tactics, etc) towards every possible daytime dating environment…
• Even the most fundamental parts such as the drawbacks of daytime dating have been included. Each and every point about day game, a very comprehensive effort…
• And it is written by one heck of an expert in the day game – Jeremy Soul who leaves no stone unturned literally… I like this man’s works honestly.

Where to Meet Women During Day Time

One of the great advantages of meeting women outside bars and clubs, the essence of daytime dating, is the wide range of places you can meet women. At night you're limited to bars, lounges, and clubs. In the daytime, you can meet women anywhere like coffee shops, theme parks, grocery stores, and so on.

Another great thing about daytime environments is that you can expect certain women to be at a certain place. If you meet someone in a book store, you are almost certain that she is someone who likes to read. If you meet a girl in an art gallery, good chance she is creative and likes art. A night club or bar is kind of a mixed bag. You never know what kind of women you run into.

Jeremy Soul, who is widely regarded as the top expert at day game, has released his new book "Daytime Dating" which is all about how you can meet women in outside bars and clubs. Here is a more comprehensive honest review of the book "Daytime Dating". 

Here are his 3 favorite places to meet women outside bars and clubs.

Beyond Words - Subtext 101 by Cajun

Alright gather around everyone, its time for acting 101: Subtext!

What is subtext? For acting, subtext is the underlying meaning behind spoken words as interpreted by an actor. What does that mean? Basically you're adding additional meaning to your spoken words by the way you say them. I'll give you an example:

Lets say I have the following (cheesy) script for a scene I'm about to act in:

JOHN and MARY are alone in the bedroom. Mary is upset and John is comforting her.

"John: Mary, everything is going to be ok, I just want you to know that I love you."

Now if I'm going to play JOHN in this scene there is a lot of information I'm going to need in order to apply the proper subtext to my dialogue. Things like:

What is the relationship between John and Mary?
If they are siblings then the line would be spoken much differently than if they were lovers.

What happened just before?
What if this scene took place right after they had sex?
How would you reflect that in the above line of dialogue?

This is all information that can be implied with the proper subtext.

So.what does this have to do with game? EVERYTHING!!!

Vincent Di Carlo Review (Natural Game)

Don’t ask me where he came from and what his father name was. In fact, I was introduced to his dating materials much later, and would I say I was blown away by the depth and directness of them. Okay, as been done with the earlier ones, let’s talk about it.

Now, you should remember that Vincent Di Carlo criticizes the approach that these Real Social Dynamics and Love systems take (To be honest, I cannot deny anything about Love systems because they are so basic and so TRUE in the regular world). Vin Di Carlo is a big proponent of the NATURAL GAME. Natural game is disregarding that it’s a game and rather following your embedded sexual nature. Rather this is an excerpt from his dating website “Vindicarlo”: “Truth be told, west-coast style pickup artists such as Mystery and Neil Strauss have a very different style from the Natural Game movement which had its roots in New York City and Boston, spearheaded by Vin Di Carlo.”

Strengths

Some of the recent developments in the “picking up women” culture show a new trend that believes that trying to maintain higher value and trying to make her lose to you in the dating game is the way to her heart is actually a child of insecurity and goes on to bring a new philosophical aspect in here. It maintains that we humans are sexual creatures and women want men, as a rule of their deeply embedded sexual nature. It declares the only key to natural game is to follow our sexual nature throughout. They believe that this results in the deep emotional and sexually charged intimate emotional soul bond that you don’t get by resorting to some useless dating manipulations or maneuvers. Vin Di Carlo proposes the following method:

Open Direct -> Rapport -> Seduction… The only rule that it advocates is “Assume Attraction”. Actually, Vin Di Carlo is a big fan and follower of Gunwitch.

This type of game reduces number of flakes and makes for solid conversion rates by a drastic extent, as is proven from the field.

Weaknesses

Well let’s be true here. I’m a big proponent of the direct natural game and a big fan of the Attraction Code Book, but my stay in this field for so long a time has made one thing clear to me and that is “too direct, sometimes you win; too indirect, sometimes you win”. And we don’t want something that promises us win “sometimes”. Though it reduces number of flakes, wastage of time and energy, and provides a better chance to get quality girls, we need to be able to pull it off most of the time, natural game is more of a direct game. But then again, natural game is somewhat different from the direct game. And that's why, needless to say, natural game is much better than direct game and indirect game.

My suggestion: learn the Natural Game but from the one who knows Natural Game.