No Natural Game - It's Life!

Got "game" with women?

Can you "pick-up" women?

I've been known to criticize and make fun of certain elements of the PUA community, but I've really been "on my best behavior" lately and haven't said much of anything in a while about them.

So I'm sitting with a friend outside of Whole Foods in Venice Beach recently, just taking a break from life, and we started talking about these so-called "Natural Game" guys.

Really, we were talking about how interesting it is that they call it "natural game" in the first place. 

Learn Natural Game the Natural Way

This article is for the newbie pickup artists who just entered into the seduction community. Just look at them... they are literally inundated by the various methods from the hundreds of the so-called dating gurus out there. Some will be championing the cause of neuro-linguistic programming, some will be rooting for EFT, and some will be espousing the indirect stealth game. I have been there and I know how difficult it is for the newbie to decide what he needs in the first place.

Tell you what... you should not go for any of these kinds of games. I am not dejecting or decrying any of these methods, but the problem lies in the fact that they are all after all METHODS. Methods are not suitable for your social, mental and emotional development. Rather you should learn natural game. What is natural game? Natural game is the phase where you don't have to play any game, at least not consciously. You are playing natural game, when you just walk up to a girl, talk to her for a few minutes and without putting any conscious effort, she seems all over you. That's Natural Game.

Here are a few pointers to the people who want to learn natural game.

Natural Game - Pick Up Women in 5 Easy Steps

In natural game, you must first understand and believe two BASIC facts of life.

One, women love to be SEXUALLY desired by men.

Two, women want the RIGHT MEN to desire her.

They may act that they don't comply with the above two facts but sure they do. Well, we are not talking of lesbians or nuns, actually. Now, the five steps to a natural game to pickup women would be as follows:

One, APPROACH her or make her approach you. Most of the girls will not approach you, unless you have a HUGE apparent value, and even then they might get scared of your value. So, it's your work as a man to start the game.

Two, FLIRT as soon as you can. Don't compromise the initial comfort though but yeah, you should bring in the sexual atmosphere from the very first time she gets to know you. This creates the proper atmosphere for the game to work.

Three, QUALIFY her to show that you still come from a position of power. She must respect you because you respect yourself.

Four, create some RAPPORT and COMFORT, upholding the sexual tension. To establish rapport, just talk with her. Don't TRY to demonstrate value to her or solve her daily problems. Rapport is when you know that someone understands you. He may not be relating to your situation but he sure knows how you feel. That's rapport. For keeping the sexual tension, just let her know how you are sexually interested in her without resolving it. Just let the anticipation to build up. It should be mainly through your body language, voice tonality, facial expression and intriguing verbalizations (more commonly called sexual innuendos and double entendres).

Five, APPRECIATE her when you see that she is qualifying herself and a deep connection is being built up. Release the sexual tension, show some masculine passion towards her and be NICE to her. Escalate!

These are the five basic steps to picking up women in a natural way, more commonly known in the seduction community as 'Natural Game'.

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Vincent Di Carlo Review (Natural Game)

Don’t ask me where he came from and what his father name was. In fact, I was introduced to his dating materials much later, and would I say I was blown away by the depth and directness of them. Okay, as been done with the earlier ones, let’s talk about it.

Now, you should remember that Vincent Di Carlo criticizes the approach that these Real Social Dynamics and Love systems take (To be honest, I cannot deny anything about Love systems because they are so basic and so TRUE in the regular world). Vin Di Carlo is a big proponent of the NATURAL GAME. Natural game is disregarding that it’s a game and rather following your embedded sexual nature. Rather this is an excerpt from his dating website “Vindicarlo”: “Truth be told, west-coast style pickup artists such as Mystery and Neil Strauss have a very different style from the Natural Game movement which had its roots in New York City and Boston, spearheaded by Vin Di Carlo.”

Strengths

Some of the recent developments in the “picking up women” culture show a new trend that believes that trying to maintain higher value and trying to make her lose to you in the dating game is the way to her heart is actually a child of insecurity and goes on to bring a new philosophical aspect in here. It maintains that we humans are sexual creatures and women want men, as a rule of their deeply embedded sexual nature. It declares the only key to natural game is to follow our sexual nature throughout. They believe that this results in the deep emotional and sexually charged intimate emotional soul bond that you don’t get by resorting to some useless dating manipulations or maneuvers. Vin Di Carlo proposes the following method:

Open Direct -> Rapport -> Seduction… The only rule that it advocates is “Assume Attraction”. Actually, Vin Di Carlo is a big fan and follower of Gunwitch.

This type of game reduces number of flakes and makes for solid conversion rates by a drastic extent, as is proven from the field.

Weaknesses

Well let’s be true here. I’m a big proponent of the direct natural game and a big fan of the Attraction Code Book, but my stay in this field for so long a time has made one thing clear to me and that is “too direct, sometimes you win; too indirect, sometimes you win”. And we don’t want something that promises us win “sometimes”. Though it reduces number of flakes, wastage of time and energy, and provides a better chance to get quality girls, we need to be able to pull it off most of the time, natural game is more of a direct game. But then again, natural game is somewhat different from the direct game. And that's why, needless to say, natural game is much better than direct game and indirect game.

My suggestion: learn the Natural Game but from the one who knows Natural Game.