Here's something I've noticed about these guys:
They don't understand the concept of "supply and
demand" at all!
As a Natural, one of the most important things
to you should be attracting a continuous stream of friends
and women that you can hang out with - even if you're never
going to date them.
They don't understand the concept of "supply and
demand" at all!
As a Natural, one of the most important things
to you should be attracting a continuous stream of friends
and women that you can hang out with - even if you're never
going to date them.
As long as this demand for "you" exceeds the
available supply of "you", you can "afford" to be a challenge,
date the women that you like, reject those that you don't,
and confidently turn away any woman who doesn't live up to
your standards - knowing that there are many women out there
who will be interested in having their turn with you.
But if you let the demand of "you" diminish because
you refuse to go out and meet people, then the supply
will exceed the demand, and you'll have to start compromising
to women to keep them happy by being needy.
This is the number one reason why these guys cannot
be a challenge - because they can't "afford" to. They are
so focused on the single woman in the life (often their
"best friend") that they cannot afford to be a challenge
since they risk losing her!
I have very little doubt that if these guys don't
go out and meet more people, they are still going to be
"stuck" in this position 5 months, 3 years, and 5 years
from now. They will always be needy because they simply
can't break out of it.
In a nutshell, being a challenge is a CYCLE.
When you're being a challenge, you attract women to you.
And when you have lots of women around you, you can afford to
be a challenge, which in turn will bring you even MORE women.
(No wonder the "same" guys always get the girls, eh?)
Now...of course the million dollar question is, if
you are not part of the "cycle" yet, how can you get started?
How can you start being a challenge if you don't have a supply
of women already?
It's really quite simple...
You'll have to give yourself a "jump-start" by acting
like a challenge WHILE expanding your social circle.
If you miss out on either of the two, it's not going
to work.
If you meet new women without flirting or being a
challenge, then they are just going to become your new "best
friends".
At the same time, if you act like a challenge when
you don't even have much of a social circle, people are justgoing to think you're weird.
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available supply of "you", you can "afford" to be a challenge,
date the women that you like, reject those that you don't,
and confidently turn away any woman who doesn't live up to
your standards - knowing that there are many women out there
who will be interested in having their turn with you.
But if you let the demand of "you" diminish because
you refuse to go out and meet people, then the supply
will exceed the demand, and you'll have to start compromising
to women to keep them happy by being needy.
This is the number one reason why these guys cannot
be a challenge - because they can't "afford" to. They are
so focused on the single woman in the life (often their
"best friend") that they cannot afford to be a challenge
since they risk losing her!
I have very little doubt that if these guys don't
go out and meet more people, they are still going to be
"stuck" in this position 5 months, 3 years, and 5 years
from now. They will always be needy because they simply
can't break out of it.
In a nutshell, being a challenge is a CYCLE.
When you're being a challenge, you attract women to you.
And when you have lots of women around you, you can afford to
be a challenge, which in turn will bring you even MORE women.
(No wonder the "same" guys always get the girls, eh?)
Now...of course the million dollar question is, if
you are not part of the "cycle" yet, how can you get started?
How can you start being a challenge if you don't have a supply
of women already?
It's really quite simple...
You'll have to give yourself a "jump-start" by acting
like a challenge WHILE expanding your social circle.
If you miss out on either of the two, it's not going
to work.
If you meet new women without flirting or being a
challenge, then they are just going to become your new "best
friends".
At the same time, if you act like a challenge when
you don't even have much of a social circle, people are justgoing to think you're weird.
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