Different Classes of Approaching Women

Have you ever stopped to think that how and why you approach varies differently according to situations?

Let me explain. 

There are a handful of situations where you can approach a woman. 

One, she notices you and you exchange eye contact. She keeps it for longer than usual. That’s your cue!

Two, she notices you and you exchange eye contact. She breaks eye contact immediately yet looks at you again after a few seconds. What would you do?

Three, she notices you and exchanges eye contact with you. She breaks eye contact and does not look at you again. 

Four, she does not notice you even (that’s sad!).

If You See A Woman Check You Out...

 Today's tip will be VERY short. I'm going to tell you
what to do when you check a woman checking you out...

       The answer is really quite simple:

       Approach her!!!

       Remember that women are naturally attracted to men who
are bold, direct, and confident. So if you find a woman checking
you out, just approach her and say "Hi" with a big smile.

       If she goes like, "whaaaat?" just flash her another smile
and say, "Nothing. Just thought you might be a interesting person
and so I came up to say 'Hi'. What's your name?"

       Or...if you're in a nightclub setting, you can flash
her a big smile or even toast her a drink from across the
room. Then then turn around casually and resume your conversation
with your buddies. Wait 10 to 15 minutes, and then approach her
table. (This is called a 2-stage approach and it works like a
charm.)

Importance of Opening During Pickup Women

I want to look at the actual importance of an opening; the
question being: is it the most important part of pick up or maybe
the least?

I usually go with the latter statement but I also accept that in
some situations the "opener" can be more of a major factor than
in other circumstances.

However, I stick by my opinion that it is never beneficial when
one is putting too much energy and emphasis into a fixed a
routine, or getting hung up too much on that killer opener.

One Thing You Cannot Miss About Approaching Women and Starting Conversations

This is going to be a short post and this just occurred to me as a dating epiphany. You will see dating gurus and pickup coaches crying about how you have to TAKE F—KNG ACTION and start approaching women and starting conversations everywhere. Well, I do not really have any problem with that. They are certainly right when they say that.

You have to approach more women to meet women. And meeting is half the battle won!

But here is something that you must keep in mind.

How to Go and Talk to a Woman in the Bus

If you are someone who travels by bus regularly, I am sure you have come across a situation where you wanted to know how to go and talk to a woman in the bus, haven’t you?

Just imagine the situation. You are sitting in the bus to your office while you see someone sitting on the opposite seat. Or maybe you are standing while someone comes to stand just beside you, and needless to say, this someone takes your heart away. You know you want to know more about her the moment you see her.

Top 10 Tips on How To Meet Women At Parties

Today I am going to give you some KILLER tips on how
to meet women at parties:

       1) SEARCH OUT PARTIES ACTIVELY

               The more you party, the more likely you'll know
       where the parties are. And the more parties you go to,
       the more likely people will invite you next time. So make
       it a habit to do something to expand your social circle
       every weekend.

5 Ways to Start Conversations when Approaching Women

As you probably know women HATE pick-up lines.

Using them will completely ruin your chances. At best, she'll
laugh at you. And the worst is you'll be faced with a pretty
angry chick. 

The good news is there's a lot of different ways to start 
conversations in way that comes across as natural.

Specifically, I want to give you FIVE ways you can start a 
conversation with women...

6 Rules For Meeting Women During The Daytime

There are a lot of different ways to meet women.

Yet, most guys ONLY use places like bars & clubs.

The truth is the BEST chance to really meet a woman is OUTSIDE
a loud, noisy venue.

I've found that it's actually easier to meet a girl when you're 
out during the daytime.

In fact this can be your SECRET WEAPON for meeting women. One
that your friends will wonder how you're "getting" all these
girls. 

Is Approaching Women on the Street Worthwhile for YOU?

My simple and short answer: NO!

Do I say so after being completely unsuccessful at approaching women in the streets? NO. In fact, I have got regular positive responses from time to time and some of them have become my good friends even. 

But...

Then why do I say that street approaching women is NOT worthwhile? It is because of the success percentage in return of the huge amount of time and effort investment.

Free your Fear and Approach that Woman

Tired of shaking in your boots for hours on end? Tired of coming home, alone, wishing you had said something to that gorgeous girl in the whatever-color dress? I am with you. 

 

Believe me, any professional PUA that makes his living teaching men the art of Pickup has been there (and if they haven't; RUN! It's a scam!), but what makes us who we are today is the ability to get PAST that!

 

Right now you're saying, "Ron aka Nice Guy, what is going to motivate me to approach that girl when I could just as easily NOT approach her, and avoid the possibility of rejection or embarrassment?" 

 

Again, I understand that thought process as well and I'm going to give you the answer because I very sincerely believe that all men, of all ages, should share a particular freedom that our social history has bred out of us: 

 

The Freedom From Fear

EASY Way To "Approach" A Woman...(Vin Di Carlo Special)

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Now Sexy Women Approach Men First For a Date, No Matter Looks, Age, or Income

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John Alanis of WomanApproachYou.com, has recently released a very controversial report that shows even the ugliest man to have sexy women literally fighting over him almost instantly…

Is it really possible to have sexy women approach men for dates… even ugly, old, or broke men?  John Alanis, of Women Approach Men system, believes so… in fact he hasn’t approached any sexy women in years, even though he routinely dates sexy women, rich and powerful men can’t even touch. The good news is, says John, his secrets will work for any man, regardless of looks, age or income.

How To Approach Women Without Looking Needy & How To Appear Confident Every Time

Previously, I always had a problem when approaching women, a kind of limiting belief you can say. I felt SO needy and diffident when I was about to approach a woman. But that was WRONG! You don't convey neediness just by spurting out a confident real line - Hi. You convey neediness through your body language, through subcommunication.


Here's a short David Wygant video for you:

Just rote it to your memory. Women like sexually confident men. When you approach a woman in a sexually confident way, she LOVES it.

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Meet Women, Not Pick Up Women

Was the blog title a bit confusing? Well, it was perhaps. But what I meant is you should always meet women and you should never pick women up. Now, what kind of statement is that you find in a dating blog?

Okay, let me explain it to you. How did you get your first girlfriend? Perhaps, you were in college and you were partnered together for the chemistry lab project, or maybe you went to a friend’s house party and you were introduced to you as one of his sister’s friends. If you look back at it, you will understand that you were not out ‘sarging’, were you? Do you know what sarging means? Well, it means to go out and prey on women.  

You were just letting yourself out of your little world and being social. Yes, that’s the word, being social. You have to open yourself up, and go out a lot more. You cannot just stay inside the home and pray to God that you want a girlfriend. You have to go out and meet women (don’t read ‘pick up women’). Visit a bookstore regularly, join a painting, cooking or dancing class… you can also join any workshop for that matter…you can hit the gym, visit the mall, the activity club or the local art gallery. You shouldn’t have the mindset of that you are going out just to hit on women. That’s sick I think. That leads to a very poor ‘low-value’ mentality. You depend on what others think of you.

But ‘do your niche-work’, as Ron-Louise will tell you. Choose a place you like to visit and go over there to meet women. Streets may be hard for anyone. As if you were a tourist, you would have to go out and make friends. The same should be your motive. Keep some time for yourself when you go out and make some friends. You are not hitting on them, because unless they prove their worth, why would you? You can choose any place you like. Just take some out time and MEET PEOPLE.

Yes, you are supposed to meet people. Go out and expand your social network. If you feel like you want to know the person, just walk over and meet that person. And as you are both in the same place at the same time, it naturally creates a kind of connection between you two.

You approach someone not thinking, ‘okay, I have to pick her up or I’m sad’. In fact, you cannot pick up every woman you think you want to. You should be thinking, ‘well, she seems nice, let’s find more about her’. Just make your move and go over to meet her. A simple Hi is enough to open a conversation, if you are at a static place. In a dynamic place where everyone is moving, you can go with a Hi but you need to calibrate on it a lot. Since you are breaking into her reality, her motion, she might be opposed to it. And that’s why wearing a non-pushy demeanor is best. But yes, a Hi is always the best way to open a conversation.

Note: Want a Dating Guru to guide you? Check HERE.

Just let yourself and her know that you are not picking her up. You are just meeting her, to see if she can be someone you would get to know.

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Approaching Women Basics

Frame – Think SEXUAL and get SEXUAL

“Remember the golden rule of seduction: she feels what you feel. You in sexual state induce her to get into the sexual state. You in a frivolous state get her in a frivolous state. You in a negative mood can infuse negativity in her. Moreover, when you don’t focus on your inner voice, you don’t focus on impression but on unrestrained expression of yourself. Women love self-confidence in men, in other words, cocky men.”

Opener – something that FLIRTS.

“The best way to approach women is to vibe with her. So, the best openers are that are situationally relevant and flirtatious. If she’s at the grocery store or buying a book at the bookstall, you can comment her on that. It tells her that you are flirting with her but you are socially graceful. You can only flirt…you cannot push ever. Some people espouse the use of HI or HELLO. It’s equally effective since you are being outright about your interest, just as when you are complimenting her. But this at times asks you to break into the reality of the woman, which might not be acceptable for her. In a static situation where she is open to this, you can go with ‘hi’ or ‘hello’. But it’s been seen that a Hi has the highest success rate as an opener. But ultimately, it’s in the energy you transmit and it should always be flirtatious. A Hi is successful because sometimes, if you err with the situational comment, it can convey what you don’t want to mean whereas a Hi is always situationally relevant and flirtatious.”

Discipline – Set a target or a goal. You should approach a number of women within a set period of time. That keeps up your momentum and sees you undergo continuous improvement in the field.

“I’ve a girlfriend and I’m taking it slow. My target is to approach at least one woman every week. I don’t like to spin too many plates at a time. But just to be on the move, I am keeping this goal. Choose what is best for you.”

You should know the right techniques (learn from THE DATING GURU) and should be committed enough to keep to it. That’s the secret to a master seducer.

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When You APPROACH A Woman…

How should you ACT? Remember, the first few minutes is going to be the judging factor whether she will comply to roll along with it or just turn her cold shoulder on you.

No doubt, you sure have to look to your dress, make sure you look clean and stable. And yeah, you must smell good. But more importantly, you should feel good. What does good mean? Well, suppose you were that high profile woman, spending her quiet time with herself in a café, what would you actually want? You are weary of the stupid pickup lines that you get to hear from the ‘smart’ guys (as they would like to think about themselves) or the blabbering, the inaudible muttering of the nervous geeks. You are definitely not waiting for the moment, when your dream man, riding on a horse, takes you away from the café. You are just not aware! You are not thinking of anything. A very normal phenomenon: hardly will you ever see any very pretty girl looking around at people when walking down the street or sitting in a café. That’s just the way it is.

But the point is they are still waiting for her ‘dream man’, subconsciously that is. She wants someone capable of playing at her level, someone quality. And when somebody like that approaches them, they feel glad to themselves.

But the question is how you can show that you are THAT man. You must have seen that when men approach women, they normally start to fidget uneasily or try to fake themselves as something they are actually not. This is particularly true with those ‘tough-looking’ men. They think that you need to show your toughness and manliness by NOT smiling and acting arrogant. And the upshot is that they come to the women as fake and turn women off big time. Remember, even if they are liked in the start, their attraction quickly wears off (com'on, who likes a fun-less stuck-up brawny Brian as a boyfriend). This kind of men can only impress the ‘fake women’ themselves. I need not define who they are, how they look like and how they behave themselves.

Instead, these quality women want you to BE CONFIDENT, POSITIVE and DOMINANT yet not over the top. Look REAL and BE REAL. This is very important with this girls or women. So, how should you approach women?

SMILE. But don’t laugh.

Be RELAXED. Walk slow, move slow, talk slow…

TEASE LIGHTLY. Don’t overdo.

Just remember, that these women won’t give them up to you that easily and they want SOMEONE WHO DOESN’T GIVE HIMSELF UP TO THEM THAT EASILY EITHER. Be SLOW in moving forward…don’t be fast and outright. This builds a certain kind of sexual tension, lets her imagine and think about you.

The first step towards FALLING IN LOVE!

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The BEST Opener to Approach Women

Approaching women is an art and the first step towards that artistic performance is an opener, no, not a pickup line.

So what is the best opener? What has the highest success rate?

Before telling the answer to the above questions, let me state one thing very clear. Every woman has her specific preference pattern. Some like to be approached and some don’t like to be approached. That’s as simple as that and you just have to be mentally prepared for that. You just cannot know whether she likes being approached or not, unless you approach her. What an irony! But if you have got some time, you can definitely study her a bit and then take the most apt way.

Now the answer to the big question…According to a survey on “approaching women” held by the Chicago University, the most successful opener is a simple Hi. They asked women from different age groups and from different social status. Most of them preferred just a Hi. Now you must be thinking why that is so. When you can spout out such clever pickup lines, why on earth would something as unassuming as a simple Hi be successful? Well, there’s the trick. When you speak too much, you don’t give her time to imagine. What I’m saying is she hears your line and it is so clever that she literally has to think to understand it. You are engaging her conscious mind. You are engaging her logic. But what she wants is that you should engage her emotions right off the bat. When you say a Hi, she is not focused on the line, but rather the person who says the Hi. And that’s why she focuses more on you.

Perhaps, that explains why that simple Hi is so successful in art of approaching women.

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Should You Approach Women?

Friends, first of all I must say, I am not a dating expert of the kind. I do not teach people how to approach women or how to get a girlfriend. But I have been in the dating field, as an ardent student for quite a few many years and here is what I have to say.

I have seen men, walking by the street or sitting in a restaurant or café... If they get to see a hot girl walking or sitting somewhere in a corner, they just keep staring at the girl. Dude, this is not the way you do it. Approach her. Approach her. Open her. Take the initiative and make the move.

Remember, a very beautiful girl has always been ogled at and approached (if at all). So she WILL NEVER APPROACH YOU. You get me?

Even if you look like Adonis or have the money of King Solomon, she will just look at you or give you signals that she is interested. Nothing more than that...And what if she has not seen you? Then what? Why take the chance, men? Go out and know for yourself What She Wants.

I have seen that different girls want different types of men. Some very beautiful girls are just so INSECURE. They want a man. They want a father figure, if they are the royal pampered brats. Some of them are tired of the boy-toys that they want a man. Some of them are tired of the players that they want an honest man. Some of them just want romance and they want to fall in love. If you give them what they want, they are yours forever. I am not asking you to be a player. I did not want to be a player, never. But I wanted to be a real attractive man.

And, Real Men APPROACH WOMEN!

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