Sep 2, 2011

5 First Date Mistakes that will Lower Your Value and Kill Your Attraction Game

Within the first 10 minutes of meeting a woman, you can be
your own worst enemy. Say the wrong thing and you'll KILL her
attraction for you. Pick Up Artists call these mistakes
demonstrating lower value (abbreviated DLV).

The key is to be interesting and show value to attract women.
Today you'll see how to eliminate low value verbal mistakes from
your game to prevent you from torpedoing your own seduction
success.
You see women have mental attraction switches that a man can
either flip ON or turn completely OFF, with just his words. Women
want a man other women are attracted to, a man with an exciting
life, a strong social network, ambitious life goals, and a man who
takes care of his loved ones.

Here's a list of LOW VALUE mistakes I often hear a man say to
woman that TURN OFF these attraction switches:

1. "I never date." or "My last girlfriend was forever ago."

She thinks: "No other women will touch this guy and neither
should I." Instead you should demonstrate pre-selection (show
her other women want you). Tell her a story of an interesting
date you had or drop names of female friends into your stories.

2. "I just stay at home and play video games most nights."

She thinks: "This guy is boring." You should be conveying to
her that you're an adventurous risk-taker. Talk about when
you did something dangerous (sky-diving, hang gliding, bungee
jumping, etc). If you haven't done something like that, then
talk about your desire to do so.

3. "I don't have any friends." or "My friends are all jerks."

She thinks: "He has no friends (or bad ones) because he's bad
at being social." Instead talk about your friends positively and let
her know you have many. Or show her you're good at socializing
by meeting new people with her that night.

4. "My job sucks but it pays the bills, I guess."

She thinks: "OK, this guy has no ambition, that's gross." If you do
have a shitty job, you don't need to tell her all about it. Instead
tell her your goals for the future. She doesn't care if you're rich
but she does want you to be ambitious.

5. "I don't really talk to my family."

She thinks: "This guy has intimacy issues because he's not even able
to love his family!" Don't reveal negative personal baggage about
yourself in the early stages of meeting a woman. Instead show her
you love and take care of all of those close to you: family, friends,
girlfriends, and even pets. Being a protector of your loved ones is
very sexy to women.

Learning Pick Up Artistry you're bound to commit one of these LOW
VALUE verbal mistakes. If you've ever noticed a woman zoning out
from your conversation, it meant you mistakenly DEMONSTRATED
LOW VALUE and she lost attraction for you. The important thing is
that you learn from these moments and eliminate any LOW VALUE
unattractive DLVs from your Pick Up Artist stories and routines.
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