4 Flirting Tips to Capitalize On Everyday Life

Flirting is one of the most important skills to have for a man on the dating scene. If you know how to flirt with women, it often doesn't even matter if you're good-looking, and you can walk into any environment or any situation and have women warm and open to an advance. But not every guy can get the flirting thing down - to many men out there, it seems like you either have it or you don't.

But that's not exactly true - it just takes doing it a lot so you get used to behaving in a flirty manner. Here are some tips to straighten out your own flirting game.

1. Make it Normal

The best advice for a guy who feels awkward is to make it a point to develop flirty behavior as a norm for you. The more you do it the more you'll fee comfortable doing it, so be playful with women no matter where you go or what you are doing. In fact, be playful with men as well. Just be friendly and playful in nature.

2. Keep it Ambiguous

In your face, sexually aggressive flirting can come off as overbearing and make women uncomfortable, so don't come on like a sexual predator. Instead, shoot for friendly and charismatic. Here's a tip for you - if the way you're flirting with women the first time you meet with them wouldn't come across as homosexual if you did it to a guy, you're probably on safe ground. Ambiguity is also good because it's best to keep women guessing about what your intentions are.

And then you can adjust as you go along.

3. Scale it Up

Adapting a flirty style is a good way to go, but eventually you will definitely need to scale it up and get a little more forward. Otherwise all you've got is a new buddy to make jokes with, and that's not what we're looking for, is it? So calibrate the situation and if you're getting a good response, change the pace, whether that means asking for a phone number or getting physical to escalate the interaction further.

4. Don't Try Too Hard

Finally, don't be too try-hard when you're flirting with women you meet. You want to be the fun, casual guy who isn't concerned about outcomes - you don't want to be a class clown trying to impress everyone you meet and making jokes that fall flat.

If you're getting an awkward response from your flirty antics, take some time to pay attention to someone who is more successful at flirting than you are. As they say, if you want to be successful, mimic success.

If anything, just realize that going out in public and being the quiet, serious guy is not doing any favors for your love life, and frankly, it doesn't sound like a whole lot of fun to live that way. You might get it in your head that you come across as "mysterious," but being mysterious is a lot less attractive than you might think. So lighten up and start flirting - I think you'll be happy with the results.
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