Shall We Sketch?!

Just found this video in YouTube. I love sketching myself and this STOOD OUT to me. You must see it.

When you have an artist's eyes and a dirty mind, you SKETCH like this. __________________________________________________________

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That’s How to Play Hard To Get – But PLAY hard to get…!

Now I have seen something that most of the men, after getting advice from the so-called dating experts, that you should not pick her call up, reply her texts, act busy or just plain ignore her, completely try to conform to those petty dating tactics. But those don’t work.

Why? It’s because they don’t know how to play hard to get, can’t play hard to get or simply don’t want to play hard to get. That’s the problem you see. If you don’t know how to play hard to get, you end up frustrating her. Furthermore, if you are trying to reach an outcome by playing hard to get and you are not doing it the right way, you are just conveying your insecurity, lack of confidence and neediness. And it turns women off from a mile away! Then there are some who hate even the term of ‘playing’ and just want to wait for her to come running to them because they had been so GOOD to her, almost good to a fault.

Guys, it doesn’t work like that!

If you don’t show interest, you CAN’T create that sexual vibe, where she knows that you are interested and up for the game. So, you have to show interest.

But the question here is how to show interest? If you show too much way too soon, it is not good for the game. The frame will change into something, as ‘I want something from you’. That’s not conducive to the game. You want her to pursue you. But when you TRY to make her pursue you, she actually gets the hint that you are needy of the outcome. She gets repelled.

What Creates Sexual Attraction in Women – Am I Sure? Well, you BET I Am

We have done this a couple of times and we are doing it again. What creates sexual attraction? That’s a long discussed mystery. You don’t know what creates sexual attraction in women. Unfortunately, women also don’t know what creates sexual attraction in men. Yes, trust me there. Some women will say that showing their beautiful hourglass frame will be enough. But no, it is NOT. They cannot be farther from the truth.

This goes to ALL WOMEN who think attracting men can be easy. No, it is NOT easy and in fact, quality men want more than just your looks.

Now, getting back to the topic of what creates sexual attraction in women, I will not say how to create sexual attraction. But I will list what NOT to do to create sexual attraction.

Remember this: Unless you make a move, you are not a MAN. If you move too much too soon, you are still not a MAN. Let me explain.

Art of Picking up Women discovered…

I was thinking of my interactions with girls, and realized something. This is I, ‘Nice Guy’ Ron, in my small dirty untidy apartment, tapping on my computer’s keyboard. Sometimes, I feel like I really work as a computer hacker does in his small little room, trying to break the intricate codes and feel so happy on each of his success.

Anyway, back to art of picking up women, have you considered what a woman wants from a man? I mean, she can be a topnotch lawyer or she can be the host at the local bar next-door. In either of the case, what does she want from her man? You might be thinking, the lawyer would definitely want someone highly educated, intelligent or such while the bar chick will like a cowboy kind.

Well, first of all, one of the basic facts of picking up women is to know that every woman is used to a specific lifestyle, a standard of life. And if you create that lifestyle for her, you pick her up. It’s that simple. That’s why it is SO important to first work on you and be the person she might want to spend her time with.

But here’s an important thing to learn when it comes to the art of picking up women. Do you think if you recreate your lifestyle, as she wants, she will be attracted to you? The truth is NO, SHE WON’T. Look when you are of her standard, she feels a rapport with you. That establishes the comfort, understanding and trust between you two. That’s called “FRIENDSHIP”, nothing to that intense sexual attraction she has for you.

So, what is that a woman wants from a man? She wants her man to be a MAN. 

Approach a Woman in Bus, Train - On a Public Vehicle

Today I approached a woman. She was coming from the opposite direction. She passed by me, and I took a turn and went up to her, smiled a bit and said a calm Hi. I don’t what she was thinking. She had her earphones on. Anyway, she pulled them down. I just rephrased myself once more. And she replied back with a kind of shy, scared ‘Please no’. I felt kind of weird. I just left her alone. Rejection is part of the game. I will try on the new one that comes my way. And yes, I am not that great in approaching women. It’s still one of my sticking points. I am trying to overcome that, damn it.

Anyway, I’m very happy that I did approach a woman. I was getting a bit complacent with the fact that I am being regularly approached by women and that I get to know girls through my social circle more often. Yes, attracting someone towards me is not that hard anymore. But I need to do the cold approaches nonetheless. I want to be PERFECT and also meet some new cool people on the way.

I just figured two ideas while I was on the bus to a shopping mall. Actually I was trying to figure out what might be great opener on a public vehicle.