towards getting her.
The problem is what do you do to maintain that attraction?
In other words, how to do create heaps of sexual chemistry on
that first date?
Well first off, it's important to understand WHAT really makes
a woman attracted to a guy.
Now the truth is many guys stress out over the first date, and
for good reason. Worries over what to say or do flood the mind,
making the event seem more like a chore than a pleasurable
experience.
The good news is there are a number of small techniques you
can use to create LOTS of sexual tension on your first date.
So pay close attention to the following...
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Tip #1 - Don't Set Yourself Up for Disappointment
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In other words, relax. By conjuring up visions of what would
make the date perfect, just go with the flow. If you're nervous,
it's going to show, so take a few deep breaths and chill out.
Don't attach any expectations to the date, and you won't be
disappointed. Understand that there is a possibility that the
evening won't go as planned, and if that happens, it's no big
deal. There are other girls and other dates to be had.
Plan nothing in advance other than to have a great time.
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Tip #2 - Limit your time
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A lot of guys pull out all the stops for the first date, which
is the WORST thing you can do.
A first date is a lot like a job interview, in that you're
trying to determine if there's relationship potential. With that
said, save the five-star dinners for after you've qualified her,
Instead take her out for coffee/drinks or something physical,
like a hike. Or even a quick trip to the mall.
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Tip #3 - Be in control and plan out the date
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There's nothing more appealing to a woman than a man who's in
control and knows what he wants. Know ahead of time where you'd
like to take your date, and have a backup destination in case of
unforeseen circumstances.
Not only will you be more attractive in her eyes, but you'll
also have the ability to limit your time as previously discussed.
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Tip #4 - Have fun and flirt
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The most important element to a fun first date is the chemistry.
You want to build rapport with the woman, and the only way to do
that is to have fun. Give her the eye, delicately touch her arm,
and tease her lightly. By flirting and maintaining a playful
attitude, you'll enhance the sexual attraction needed to ensure
future dates.
People respond directly to the energy they're subjected to. Your
aim with the first date is to make the woman relaxed in your
presence, and she won't be able to do that if you're nervous and
on edge.
Instead, realize that you're out with a beautiful woman, and
enjoy your time with her. You'll create an evening she'll never
forget.
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Tip #5 - Know when to break the rules
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The preceding rules should be used as guidelines, but they aren't
unbreakable. For example, if the two of you really hit it off,
don't bother limiting your time, and take her home instead.
Use your own judgment, and if you feel a rule isn't working,
make an necessary tweaks to ensure a fantastic first date.
The most important element to a successful first date is your
attitude. If you relax and have fun, your date will too. Your
aim is to build a solid rapport that will lead to many more
dates to come. Use these five tips, and every first date will
be an amazing one.
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