Mar 31, 2011

The One Most Successful Secret To Pickup

So check it out. I've been thinking a lot lately about what makes
a successful pickup. What I mean by that is: what are the 
common threads in every successful approach I've done? 
 
As I said, I thought about this a lot. Then I thought some more. 
Was it proper execution of fundamentals? Yeah, but that sort of
goes without saying. Was it some inner game secret? Nah, too 
ephemeral, I'm looking for something concrete. 
 

Mar 27, 2011

6 Steps for Eliminating the "Boyfriend Obstacle"

So... you meet a great woman but find out that she has a
boyfriend. It happens to the best of us.

The question is what do when you encounter the "boyfriend
obstacle?"

Do you give up OR try to still make her
yours?

Just Relax, Dude!

There's an old, goofy movie from the 80's called Buckaroo Banzai.
It's based on the comic book of the same name, but apparently the
movie never matched up to the comic book.

There is one great quote, however, that comes from that movie, and
it's a quote all men who want to attract women should take to
heart:  wherever you go, there you are.

Mar 18, 2011

Difference Between Being Weak and Being Sensitive

 Today we're going to talk about the fine line between
being sensitive and being weak.

       In my course, I tell my students to be sensitive and
attentive when they are around women. But at the same time,
I tell them to not act weak, needy, or emotional. So where do
draw the line between being sensitive and being weak or
emotional?

How To Make Her Interested In Me?

Question:

I've met a woman I'm interested in at a class I am taking (let's
call her "The Blonde").  I could use some advice on how to play
this.

We met after class one night, about 3 classes ago.  I find her to
be extraordinarily pretty--great body and with excellent style--so I
imagine she gets a lot of attention from guys.

Mar 12, 2011

When You Give An Implied Compliment To A Woman...

Using something known as an “implied compliment” is a fabulous way to capture a woman’s attention and make her receptive to your approach. For many reasons, in fact, it’s better than paying her any sort of direct compliment.

Never Apologize, Never Explain!

"Never apologize, never explain."

That's a quote from one of the most successful and influential
prime ministers in British history, Benjamin Disraeli.

Mar 11, 2011

Indecision Can Ruin You: What is She to You?

There's a point I feel I haven't clarified enough in the past and want to clarify today.  Because we've talked a lot about how important it is to have women in your life who are just friends and how they can help you to build a social circle and attract other women, and we've also talked about how oftentimes it's better not to hit on the beautiful women you meet because they probably have even better looking friends that you might like more.

Mar 4, 2011

Is She Too HOT for YOU?

My assistant Meby passed along an email that was sent to the office
yesterday. Her comment in her forwarded email was, "This is
ridiculous! You've got to read this". And so I did.

It was a longwinded email sent in from a reader who feels that he's
met a woman who might be "too hot" and he feels that she could be
demonstrating signs of either being a slut or "out to get a man"
(Ummm... well, most single women are).

What If You and Your Best Friend Both Like The Same Girl?

A question that I often get is, "Ron, what if I
have to decide between going out with a woman and keeping
a best friend who also happens to like the same girl?"

       This is a really question to answer - as there's no
"proper" answer.

Many Leads To ONE

I hear it all the time from men:  "I just want to meet that one
special woman."  Usually when I hear this, I know they're headed
for trouble because they think if they meet "the one" their life is
going to somehow be complete.

What usually happens is, after a few months, she turns out to not
be all that special, and things get bad, really fast.