Top Dating and Pickup Gurus (As Voted In 2010)

1. Jon Sinn

For a second year in a row Jon Sinn has been named Pickup Artist of the year.  It is hard to argue against the decision as very few men live, breath, and practice pickup like Jon.

While many coaches and pickup artists are happy to collect a paycheck teaching the same thing year after year, Jon strives to continually innovate and refine his art.

Jon has been described as a machine in the field, able to counter any objection a woman has, and continue plowing along until finally scoring her.  As a teacher, the self proclaimed King of Content, as put out countless free videos, audio, and blog posts that have helped and inspired millions of men around the world.

This year Jon has released the hugely popular Seduction Roadmap where he taught thousands of men how to take a conversation from flirtation to seduction.

2. Rob Judge

Rob Judge, new on the scene in 2009, cracked the t0p 10 last year.  Over the past year Rob has morphed into one of the most prolific pickup artists and dating coaches in the community.

He has quickly amassed a huge following of loyal followers, and his ebook Date Hotter Girls was one of the highest rated books of the year.

Out of all the guys in the TOP 10 I’ve had the most opportunity to see Rob in action.  The guy is the real deal.  Although his game is not flashy, he gets the job done TIME AFTER TIME.  It is a rare night that Rob leaves a bar in NY without a woman by his side.

Not only is he amazing infield, but Rob has a great ability to teach his game.  Over the past year Rob has contributed articles all over the internet, and my interviews with him are usually some of the most popular I’ve done.

How To Turn A Friend To Be Your Girlfriend

The age-old answer to turn a friend to be something more? 

Variety. 

Variety is EVERYTHING and it rings true in ALL aspects of your 
interactions with women if you want to turn a friend to be your 
girlfriend. 

The more emotions she feels around you, the stronger an 
impression you'll make. The more interesting things she learns 
about you and tells you about herself, the more deeply she'll feel 
connected to you. 

Importance of Opening During Pickup Women

I want to look at the actual importance of an opening; the
question being: is it the most important part of pick up or maybe
the least?

I usually go with the latter statement but I also accept that in
some situations the "opener" can be more of a major factor than
in other circumstances.

However, I stick by my opinion that it is never beneficial when
one is putting too much energy and emphasis into a fixed a
routine, or getting hung up too much on that killer opener.

One Thing You Cannot Miss About Approaching Women and Starting Conversations

This is going to be a short post and this just occurred to me as a dating epiphany. You will see dating gurus and pickup coaches crying about how you have to TAKE F—KNG ACTION and start approaching women and starting conversations everywhere. Well, I do not really have any problem with that. They are certainly right when they say that.

You have to approach more women to meet women. And meeting is half the battle won!

But here is something that you must keep in mind.

How to Go and Talk to a Woman in the Bus

If you are someone who travels by bus regularly, I am sure you have come across a situation where you wanted to know how to go and talk to a woman in the bus, haven’t you?

Just imagine the situation. You are sitting in the bus to your office while you see someone sitting on the opposite seat. Or maybe you are standing while someone comes to stand just beside you, and needless to say, this someone takes your heart away. You know you want to know more about her the moment you see her.

How To Hand Shit Tests From Bitchy Women

During the last week I've talked about how women like to test men 
and what needs to be done when it happens to YOU.

Today, you're going to learn a VERY important lesson. One 
that'll eliminate her need to test. WAY before she even THINKS
about giving one. Here's what I mean...

As we've discussed, a woman tests a guy to see what KIND of man
he is. She does this to see if you're the type who'll easily
comply or if you're someone who will stand your ground.

7 Steps to Be a Social Rockstar that Women Desire

An incredible social life is the cornerstone of a successful 
dating life. 

It's a simple equation:

More people = more opportunities = More girls

But what can you do if you're a guy who doesn't have a great 
social life? 

Well there's a couple of solutions.

You could implement the following foolproof seven step 
system for improving your social life. With a little bit of
effort, you can easily become the social rockstar that women
love.

3 Criticals Error When Talking To Women Online

So... you're on your favorite dating site... or maybe you're on 
Facebook...

And there she is. 

The girl that catches your attention. But what do you do? Let me 
tell you what 99% of guys do... they'll message them and say 
something really generic like...

5 Rules for Dating Multiple Women

For many guys dating multiple women seems like a dream come 
true!

At first it seems like it's lots of fun hanging out with 
different girls and having a guaranteed supply of sex. 

Each night you can pick and choose who you want to see.

Bu there is a dark side to dating multiple women...

If you're not careful, it can destroy your life.

How To Make Younger Women Chase You

Does he REALLY like me... or is he just playing games, like he 
does with ALL his girls? 

This is what should be running through her head while you tease 
and flirt with her. It makes her want to keep playing the game. 

Whenever she's with a guy like this, she'll want to look her best, 
and act her sexiest, in order to get the confirmation she craves.

The key is to NEVER give her total confirmation. 

Something to Think About The Next Time...

Dear David,

Are there women totally incapable of orgasm?
Especially the ejaculatory. Is there an age
limit for women for orgasm? - From (ZRFHMMUC2MTC)

MY RESPONSE:>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>


Are there women totally incapable of orgasming?

The Essence of Chocolate

I love chocolates—and I know it’s not only me who has a passion for Hershey’s Kisses and M&Ms. These sweets are believed to be aphrodisiacs and let me say now that I believe it 100%! After all, romance, passion, foreplay, sex… they’re all heavily affected by your mind right? And if you believe that chocolates can help bring out the ‘wild woman’ out of your partner, then so be it!

Chocolates can do wonderful effects on our body. Since they are made from plants, they inherently contain natural components that promote good health. In fact, it is said that dark chocolates reduce high blood pressure.

It All Starts In The Mind - Know Her Erogenous Zones

This may come as a shock to you but sex is really pretty boring IF you end up following a routine. So how do you avoid this? Don’t be afraid to use your imagination! That is why most people say that the brain – not the genitals – is the most important sex organ.

And when you use your imagination, it’s equally important to apply your ‘naughty thoughts’ on your woman’s erogenous zones. Erogenous zones are those unique places in her body that generate sexual arousal when stimulated. And so if you know her erotic zones and apply your lustful imagination on them, you can make having sex with her a whole-body experience instead of just engaging in sex that’s limited to her genitals.

Erogenous zones are also important to know when you are giving her a sexual massage!

Know Her ‘Hot Buttons’

Chocolate as a Sex Tool

Now if feeding your woman chocolates does not give you a hard-on or if she just ends up eating the whole box without even giving you a second glance, then there’s something wrong with your delivery.

That’s right. Chocolates are so common now that they don’t really conjure up images of sex right away so don’t just buy the average chocolate bonbon. Why not try Kama Sutra chocolates! That’s right; there are chocolate bars being sold online now that are shaped specifically to match Kama Sutra sex positions!

5 Myths That Can Hurt Your Marriage

Many people have grown up with misconceptions of

what it takes to make a marriage work. The

following five incorrect beliefs can damage your

marriage.

Myth 1: Your spouse should automatically know

what you need and want.

7 Easy Ways to Improve Your Marriage

Improving your marriage doesn't necessarily have

to involve huge changes on your part or your

spouse's. Many times, the cumulative effect of

small changes can make a significant difference

in the quality of a relationship.

It can be discouraging to only focus on the big,

sweeping long-range changes that you feel are

needed, such as improved communication or

increased intimacy. Instead, focus on making

several small changes that can affect the quality

of your relationship right away.

What You Didn't Learn in School About Marriage

While you undoubtedly learned many useful things

in school, how to create a happy marital

relationship probably wasn't included. Most

spouses learn about marriage through the

proverbial "School of Hard Knocks."

As a student, you undergo drills to help you

learn your multiplication tables, you're tested

on your mastery of geography and science, and you

memorize spelling words. As you progress, you

learn to write term papers and to analyze

symbolism in literature.

Do you think you're good in bed?

Do you think you're good in bed? Everybody says they are good in bed. I've never met anyone who has said to me, “You know David, I am REALLY bad in bed!” Everybody thinks they are a fantastic lover.

Let's talk about this (because you KNOW I have an opinion!) I've been with some really terrible lovers. I've been with some women who were so bad in bed, that I wouldn't even recommend them to a virgin client of mine. The truth is, though, that what makes someone bad or good in bed is VERY subjective. For instance, one woman I slept with a long time ago I thought was extremely boring in bed. My friend didn't think so. He, in fact, ended up marrying her. We all have different desires and different ways we like to have sex. I've been with some women with whom I just don't feel like I'm the best I can be. (Don't worry, you don't have to endure me breaking out into song singing the Army song “Be All That You Can Be”)

Hail The Creepiest Dating Guru In Town!

This post is basically for the newbies, who look up too highly to the so-called dating gurus. Here is one, who is teaching you on how to CREATE SEXUAL TENSION. As one of my female friends say, he is only creating tension...Check The Stealth Method guru below:

5 Steps For Making Her Fall in Love

At some point in his life, EVERY guy wants to fall in love.

While it's a lot of fun to date different women and play the 
field, there will be a time when you want to go beyond a casual 
relationship. 

In all likelihood, you'll come to the point where you want to
find that special someone.

Now here's the problem. There are many times where you like
a girl but she doesn't feel that same way:

When Do You Become an Alpha Male

Student asked, “[Insert the name of the PUA instructor here], what makes someone an alpha male? How does one become an alpha male?”

PUA instructor, “Stay relaxed, don’t move much, don’t smile much, don’t fidget, move slowly, keep audible and slow speech…”

For God’s sake, is it never going to end? When I first entered the PUA community, I looked for only one thing, simplicity. And now that I have come a long way in this study of dating and pickup, I still focus on one simple thing, SIMPLICITY. It is no rocket science. It is just a basic social skill, but a very important one though.

How to Use 'Option Limitation' to Maximize Your Success with Women

Getting girls to feel an attraction for you - that isn't simply
based on your looks, the contents of your wallet or the car
you've got parked outside - can be really tricky.

After all, how are men supposed to know what each girl's looking
for without asking?

If you DID ask, you know your chances would be small, after all,
no girl wants a guy approaching her with needy questions - she
wants a confident man who somehow seems to know what she's
after and can give it to her.

Top 5 Turn Offs for Women

Improving your dating life can be tough, especially when women reject you on the approach. It's part of the game. If you are getting striked out after the approach you might be doing something wrong that turns women off. It can be a lot of different things and you might be even unaware of the mistakes you are making. Here are 5 things to watch for that turn women off (and you want to avoid).

1. Pickup lines
Let's get one thing clear before you even approach: pickup lines do not work. Whenever you approach a woman with a (cheesy) pickup line, she will shoot you down. By using a pickup line, what you are actually saying to her is that you are someone who doesn't have any social intuition and you are someone who does not date women like her. Communicating those things automatically raises a red flag in her mind that you are not suitable for her to date you.

Bring Out The WILD (And Wet) Side In A Woman

A few weeks ago I received an excellent question regarding the
now famous (or rather, infamous) Girls Gone Wild videos.  This
doer wanted to know exactly why women behave that way, and if
there was anything to learn from it.

Is there anything to learn from watching these videos?  Oh my,
yes there is--and it is very useful, not just for attracting
women, but for understanding how people behave in general.

Attracting Women In A Club: 3 Things To Note About Passive Value (by AP)

Passive Value is one of my most favorite aspects of the game. For those of you that don't know what I'm talking about, passive value is the value that you display before you being actively gaming a woman. This is the 360-degree display of your value that is developed beforehand (or faked in-field), making the amount of game you have to run significantly less.

 

It incorporates:

1. Subcommunication
2. Body Language
3. Fashion
4. Social Proof
5. Lifestyle
6. Status

Think about celebrities like Leonardo DiCaprio; all they have to do is exist in a club and women will be attracted to them. Why? Because they have proven their worth through their accomplishments (film, TV, music, etc.) and the popularity, wealth, and power that comes from those accomplishments is public knowledge, thereby making them (through their passive value) extremely attractive.

Is she REALLY going to tell us this? Wow. This is pretty personal—take a look

Wow, this is pretty darned personal…

Gabrielle is telling all. Go to:

http://www.hotlicksprogram.com/cmd.php?af=1097695&u=www.hotlicksprogram.com/jvvideo3/

I mean, it’s kind of unprecedented. Because now world famous
expert on the most personal aspect of your relationship (between
the sheets!) is telling us what turns HER on.

The Definitive Technique for Threesomes: The Dual Induction Massage by Style

Let's get started in the middle of things.
You've played everything right and you have two women 
back at your place.

At this point you've taken them both up to your room 
to watch some fun home video clips or for any other 
non sexual reason. Videos are nice because you can 
all lay on the bed to watch them and it gives you a 
reason to make sure the lights are low and the mood 
is romantic and comfortable, without it all being 
an obvious seduction plan.

A 9-Year Old Teaches You How to Talk to Girls

One Awesome Video on Truth of Pickup

Damn! It's so Simple, Bro!

The simplest way is when your ready to go in for her
first kiss...

Look her deeply in the eyes, allow your hands to slowly
but gently touch the side of her cheek you can use one
or both hands.

I find for first kisses the two hand approach works much
better. Cup the back of her head or contour her jaw line
with the palm of your hand.

The Truth of Love and Relationships

Disclaimer – I have been in love thrice now and my experiences were not that good. But that does not make me biased against it. I believe that love is the sweetest thing that can happen to anyone. Only thing is that love is really RARE ;-)

No, I am not going to bore you with all the biological changes and reactions regarding the onset of love and offset of love.

But since this is a practical dating and pickup blog, I am going to split the whole complicated game into as simple a concept as I can, especially for the men who love reading my blog.

Phone Game Tip: What to Say When Calling Women

Today I want to discuss "phone game." Specifically we're going
to cover what to say on your first phone call.

As you probably know, a girl's opinion is largely based on the 
feelings she experiences during your first phone conversation. 

Most guys fail in this area, because they simply "wing it" 
instead of forming a plan of action.

Sending MSN/AIM Instant Messages That Turn Her On

How the hell do you turn on a girl... SEXUALLY... through 
instant messenger conversations?

Sure, some girls just don't dig the whole "cyber" thing... but 
how do you know if you've got one that does?

Let me teach you how you can figure out if a girl is D.T.C. 
(Down To Cyber)... and let me teach you how you can convert her 
into a girl that's receptive to "cybering". 

Top 9 Common Misconceptions about Picking Up Women (by RSD)

What is it that separates the amateur from the professional? Is

it innate, god-given skills? Hard work? Passion?

While all these things may play a factor, a lot of the time, it's

just a question of KNOWLEDGE. A woking knowledge off the ins and

outs of the game, and the ability to see past common

misconceptions and discern the true path, which is often

counter-intuitive.

Gabrielle Moore’s NEW e-book on Oral Sex arrives THIS FALL!

After months and months of speculation, it is a fact: intimacy-expert Gabrielle Moore will launch her new e-course this FALL. This time, it is on a wet and wild subject many of her readers have been asking for: ORAL SEX.

David Wygant (The Real-life Hitch) Review

On FoxNews, on Huffington Post, in the LA Times, the NY Times, the Playboy Magazine and so many more…

David Wygant, over this period of twenty years, has become one of the media's most sought-after personalities. His energy and insight into dating, sex and relationships -- no matter whether it's on the Internet, over the radio airwaves, on television, in the country's biggest magazines and newspapers, or in person -- are contagious and inspiring. David offers a wide variety of products for men looking to meet amazing women, find love, improve their sex life, enhance their relationship, or just develop real inner confidence.

5 Dangerous Myths Guys Believe About Women

It's funny how many guys love to believe certain myths that
have been spoon-feed to them by the media.

The truth is there are a large number of misconceptions men have 
about what women find attractive and how they view dating. What's 
bad about these myths is they limit the success of men. If you 
believe in them, then you're NOT going to date the kind of 
women you deserve.

What to Do on a Space Date

Space virgins, check it out! Your favorite Star Wars characters show you how to get laid. This first video in a series of Nerdy Instructional Films from OneMinuteGalactica cuts clips from the original Star Wars trilogy into a 1950s instructional video. He plans to create more in the same vein using different films. 

You Need Money or Good Looks To Get Beautiful Women

Most men believe all it takes is money or good looks to attract women. You see it all the times in Hollywood movies where the rich guy is walking into restaurants with a gorgeous woman besides him. Other times when you're walking down the street you see a male model walking with a stunner. All these images reinforce the belief that you need money or good looks to get women.

What to Know Before Trying to Get Your Ex Back

I want to talk about something that is happening a whole lot
more these days: break-ups... and how you can get your
girlfriend back.

So if you're currently going through a breakup and don't know
how to get her back then listen up. Before you can even think
of planning a relationship repair strategy you must take into
account the following four factors:

Table Manner Tips for First Dates with Your Special Woman

Here are some "table manners tips" for you to follow next
time you're out on a first date:

       1) Do not play with the table utensils or crumble
       the bread.

How a Woman Rates a Man

In the seduction community, you must have across terms such as Hb1, Hb2…Hb10, etc. If you are new to the pickup community and do not know what these terms mean, HB stands for hot babe, and the number you see suffixed to it is just a rating that is based on her looks mainly.

Why such rating?

You Now Know How to Turn Her On - From First Date to Sex

Ever wonder how you could
end your first dates wrapped in
a woman's legs?

In this post, I'm gonna share
one of my "sneakiest" secrets,
with you.

You're NEVER going to
"stumble" in between your
first kiss and having sex,
ever again...

PLUS - You'll have much more
sexual confidence... because...
You know how to touch a
woman JUST RIGHT, in
order to turn her on.

It's a simple secret:

Facebook Chat Romance - Truth of Online Flirting (For Both Sexes)

Why Women Love Jerks, Instead of Nice Guys

I want to ask you an important question:  why do women love jerks?

This is a question you've probably asked yourself at some point in your life.  And you might even wonder why women will ditch a guy who treats her well, only to go after an arrogant prick!

Top 5 Things to Note While Seducing Teenagers, 20-30 Years Old

Here's an excellent post by Simon Heong --
----------------------------------------------------
"Seducing Teenagers, 20 And 30 Year-Old Women"

I've been talking to a lot of younger girls (18-19) at the
moment, and actually making a real effort to hang out with
people younger than me - most of my good friends are 33-39,
to my youthful 31.

Top 10 Tips on How To Meet Women At Parties

Today I am going to give you some KILLER tips on how
to meet women at parties:

       1) SEARCH OUT PARTIES ACTIVELY

               The more you party, the more likely you'll know
       where the parties are. And the more parties you go to,
       the more likely people will invite you next time. So make
       it a habit to do something to expand your social circle
       every weekend.

4 Rules for Seducing Women

Like most guys, I'm sure you want to know the "secrets" for 
seducing women. The problem IS there really isn't major 
technique that works. There isn't a magical word or phrase
that'll automatically make a woman want to sleep with you.

With that said, there are a few concrete RULES that'll increase
your chances for seducing women.

Now there is a logical process for mastering the art of 
seduction. 

While it can all be covered in one post, I'll do my best to
give you what I consider to be FOUR crucial elements. So let's 
talk about them...