This is going to be a short post and this just occurred to me as a dating epiphany. You will see dating gurus and pickup coaches crying about how you have to TAKE F—KNG ACTION and start approaching women and starting conversations everywhere. Well, I do not really have any problem with that. They are certainly right when they say that.
You have to approach more women to meet women. And meeting is half the battle won!
But here is something that you must keep in mind.
Each and every girl, even the bitchy ones that you come across, wants to live a fairy tale. They want a prince on a white horse to come to them and rescue them from their boring confining castle. The prince is going to be their savior. The prince is going to be their lover. The prince is going to be their life partner. In short, women want to live in a romantic novel.
Now, when you go straight up to a woman, entering her reality without any concern for how she feels and making her feel uncomfortable at most, you are creating an image of a villain of yourself. You are NOT that prince. She feels negative when you approach her, and you are not that prince. So, you have to make sure to make her feel good when you approach her. In short, she must not feel uncomfortable, pressured and nauseous.
When you approach her, you must make her feel:
1. Special – She is the one you chose.
2. Comfortable – She does not feel any pressure.
3. Excited – She wants to know more about the “princely” you.
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