dating life.
It's a simple equation:
More people = more opportunities = More girls
But what can you do if you're a guy who doesn't have a great
social life?
Well there's a couple of solutions.
You could implement the following foolproof seven step
system for improving your social life. With a little bit of
effort, you can easily become the social rockstar that women
love.
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Step #1 - Call your friends
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The first step is to provide a simple baseline for the rest of
this plan.
Right now, you probably have a core group of friends who are part
of your social circle. If you want to meet more people then
you're going to start with this group.
So the initial thing to do is call up your friends and make plans
to do something different. The key is to organize an event which
brings you out of your comfort zone and make you fun stuff.
In other words, you want to start going to places which provide a
social environment.
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Step # 2- Look for hidden opportunities
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As you become more social you're going the likelihood of getting
invited to different evens.
Due to inertia, most guys avoid "uncomfortable environments."
Instead of doing this, you should start going to these events
EVEN if you don't think they'll be fun.
The truth is you never know what'll happen when you try different
things. Perhaps the most boring event could provide a chance to
meet an interesting girl. So never pass up an invitation to an event.
The rule of thumb is if you don't have plans, you'll ALWAYS
accept an invitation to do something.
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Step # 3- Make friends
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While it's great to have old friends, your social life can get a
real shot in the arm if you start making new friends at the
events you're frequenting.
One piece of advice I recommend is to talk to EVERYONE at these
events. Even if it's a bunch of guys, you can still get a lot of
social mileage by talking to people who have connections.
Even the most mundane person probably knows a few attractive
women. By making connections with everyone, you're giving
yourself opportunities to find new friends and meet more girls.
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Step #4- Keep contact with your new friends
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I like to think of friends as currency. The more you have, the
more you opportunities you'll accumulate.
As you meet new people, you'll start to build momentum on the
number of buddies you'll acquire.
In order to maximize your opportunities, you should maintain
constant contact with the friends that you're making. Even if
you're just sending a quick email, a consistent correspondence
with your friends will improve your social life.
By communicating with your friends you'll stick out in their
minds when a cool event is about to happen.
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Step #5- Keep up to date
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Almost every area has lots of fun stuff happening.
The problem is most guys won't bother to look for them. Instead
they're satisfied with doing the same thing over and over.
Don't be like these guys.
Instead become the man who is up to date on all events happening
in your area. All you have to do is open you're local paper and
you'll have access to dozens, even hundreds of fun things going
on.
Right now, commit yourself to spending a few minutes each week
looking for interesting events going on in your area.
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Step #6- Plan events
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It's human nature to want to be around fun people. So if you
become the guy who plans out the fun times then you'll become the
focal point of your social circle.
What you want to do is plan out a few different interesting
activities EACH month and invite everyone that you know.
Eventually the people in your social life will look to you to
plan out the good times. Over time, you can use these events to
meet interesting women.
Again, this is critical part of being a social master which
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Step #7- Be fun
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Finally, you have to go beyond being the guy who plans out fun
events.
At all times, you must display a fun and interesting personality.
When you attend social activities, you should be regarded as the
guy who can make others have a good time.
The truth is most people live boring lives. If you're the source
of interesting experiences then people will want to hang out with
you.
The end result is you'll become the first person they call when
they want to have a fun night.
Improving your social life is one of the crucial elements for
meeting and dating a lot of women. If you follow the seven rules
I just discussed, then you'll discover that it's pretty easy to
transform into a fun guy who has an incredible social life.
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