While it's a lot of fun to date different women and play the
field, there will be a time when you want to go beyond a casual
relationship.
In all likelihood, you'll come to the point where you want to
find that special someone.
Now here's the problem. There are many times where you like
a girl but she doesn't feel that same way:
So how can you make the woman that you want love you back?
Well here are 5 simple tips to make this happen...
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Step #1- Know that love is different then attraction
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The one thing you should always remember is attracting a woman
is MUCH different than getting her to love you.
In other words, it's easy to show a high status personality to
hook her interest. But it's a lot harder to get her to
develop those lasting kind of feelings that go beyond simple
sexual attraction.
That's why you should show the REAL you that's hidden beneath
the surface.
With love, you have to show FEELINGS and reciprocate her
nurturing nature. You should allow her to be attracted to
the fun and alpha side of you, but love the good person you
are deep inside.
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Step #2- Act like a MAN
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Real men don't act in a deceptive and fake manner.
If you want her to love you, you must be worthy of this love.
This means avoiding all the games that men and women play during
the courtship period. A real man is good to the woman he's with
and doesn't do anything to hurt her.
Ultimately her love must be returned through YOUR actions and
words.
So if you're into dating multiple women, don't tell her she's
the ONLY one. In fact, if don't want to settle down, do
yourself a favor and keep her at an emotional distance.
It'll only end up hurting her feelings if you're not looking
for a committed relationship.
On the other hand, if you're secretly harboring feelings for
a certain girl, NOW is the time to DO something about it.
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Step #3- Make your intentions evident
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I'm going to be honest here...
Women like to think long term!
If you've established yourself in a relationship, then she's
probably thought about what it'll be like with you on a
permanent basis (ie: marriage).
So if this is something you want in your life, then your actions
should reflect this goal.
In essence you have to act in a way that'll demonstrate a
genuine desire to settle down and possibly marry her.
To do this, you should bring her around your friends, invite
her to important functions in your life and basically include
her in all aspects of your life.
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Step #4- Communicate with her
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Communication is to key to developing a loving relationship.
Unfortunately as a gender we're not known for our communication
skills.
However if you're serious about this woman, you have to be open
about the things which are going on in your life.
This also means taking a genuine interest in what she's doing
and getting to know her an intimate capacity.
Furthermore, there will be times when the two of you will get
in an argument.
When these moments happen, you have to remember she is someone
you love, and you shouldn't say anything which you can't take
back.
In other words don't intentionally hurt her feelings.
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Step #5- Keep things fun and sexual
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One of the obstacles in a relationships is the "friend trap."
This is when you slowly develop into more of a friendship rather
than a realationship.
Finally you must ensure that your relationship is still fun and
exciting as it evolves. (Here's something that'll give you a
few ideas for how to do this):
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While most women are looking for a special someone who can share
their feelings, you can't let things get boring and stagnant.
If you're serious about this woman then you must WORK to keep
things fun.
This means still being a fun, interesting guy and keeping the
romance alive.
So go on exciting trips, buy her presents, and don't be afraid
to spice things up in the bedroom.
Love is the ultimate goal of a serious relationship. If you
can make her love you then you'll be on the pathway towards
build an incredible future with the woman of your dreams.
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