There is a false notion circulating around the world - you have to be good looking to attract women. This is so far from the truth. In short, you don't have to be good-looking to attract women. You just have to be a MAN. Don't worry if you don't get what I am saying. In this post, I am going to explain on this very fact.
What does good looking mean in the first place?
From dictionary.com
- of good or attractive appearance; handsome or beautiful
Well, they used the word 'attractive'. And since it is all about attracting women, you have to be attractive, in other words, good-looking, duh. Right? Wrong.
Good-looking means handsome and beautiful, but NOT attractive.
And that is not the be-all and end-all in attracting women.
First of all, you must understand one important thing that good looking is different from being attractive to women. If you have the right nose, the right eyes, the chin, you are just good looking to a woman. But being attractive means 'having something'. Being attractive is not the same as being good looking. Being attractive is about having the sex appeal. And you can have the sex appeal without looking good, period! Ask your female friends and they will tell you what I mean.
You can be attractive by:
- Good sense of fashion - Women love guys with proper dressing sense.
- Good attitude - You should have the ability to reach the heart from the eyes, they say.
- Good physical buildup - Get big, be a man. You DON'T have to be the biggest man on earth, just some muscles that make you look like a man and not a wimp.
And needless to say, anybody can acquire these three qualities, with little focus, effort and patience.
Secondly, what is hot to a woman may not be so to another woman. So, even if you have the right lips for one woman, another may be 'pouting' at your lips. As they say, you cannot be beautiful to all and you cannot be beautiful to none. Some people will always like you, however you are, whatever you are. All you have to do is be confident and comfortable in your own skin. Remember, a good looking who is NOT confident is never attractive to anyone. Confidence maketh you a man.
Thirdly, let me ask you a question. Do you think a woman looks at a good looking guy and she opens the button of her pants for him to get in? Heck, NO, NEVER! If you are good looking, you are just interesting to the woman. If you are really that bad looking, she would mentally reject you immediately. If you are average, she may or may not want to give you a chance. If you are really good looking, she might want to play along. But that's it.
She wants to see that you are that 'attractive' inside as much as you are 'beautiful' outside. If you are a selfish prick from inside and don't even have a game to keep her, then fuck your good looks, she is going to go for some another handsome guy. Handsome people are dime a dozen! Look at the fashion world. She may even go for someone who has a strong game.
So, what we learn is...GAME is all that matters. Your good looks will just be a catalyst in the process, if you know what I mean.
Thus, don't fret over your average looks or be elated on your good looks. Rather work on understanding what she wants from you. That's your ticket to attracting women and keeping them attracted to you over the time.
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