You’ve connected with a woman and brought her to “that place” where she is ready to “go for it.” It started with her giving you a curious “uhhhh, can I help you?” glance when you first approached her, and in less time than you thought, she’s now naked and on your bed and…yes…it’s on.
Just NOW, for some reason, Private Wood stops standing at attention. He slouches on the job and can’t get back up. Even when she goes into “drill instructor mode” (don’t you love when she gets all dominatrix-like?), your Johnson insists on tripping you up.
HOWEVER…you don’t THINK it’s erectile dysfunction: after all,normally things are “functioning” correctly. You don’t have a problem “enjoying” fantasies or your favorite porno. You can close the deal with Rosie and her sisters on a moment’s notice, every time. So overall, you believe the machinery works.
“It” seems to happen ONLY when you’re actually boarding the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttlewith a live woman.
Let me get it out of the way: see your doctor anyway. Every day of “I really SHOULD see a doctor” is 1,440 minutes of self-imposed flaccidity that might not have to be. It’s YOUR life, only you can live it.
Now that we have that out of the way (made that appointment yet?), let me ask you three questions.
- Think back to your feelings when Private Wood went AWOL. What came up for you?Nervousness? Fear? Worry you might not “stand up” in the ranks of her previous lovers? Something in your head saying “I shouldn’t be doing this?”
- When it happened, how did you react? Did you give up? Seek her support in getting things back on track? Switch to pleasing her for a while until things started “looking up” for you?
- How did SHE react? Did she throw you out (or get up and leave)? Or did she say, with a sly grin and a cute gleam in her eye, “Hmmm, seems the ol’ hard drive is booting up a little slow. Where’s the CD-ROM for this, so we can stick it in and get it spinning?”
It’s called “performance anxiety” because you’re anxious, not because you’re a bad person or something’s necessarily wrong with you. (Though you still need to check with your doc – got that appointment booked? The receptionist and/or the nurse, not to mention the doctor herself, might be sizzling hot and looking for a man like you.)
NOTE: This article was written by Ross Jeffries and was taken from his blog, www.seduction.com
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