Using them will completely ruin your chances. At best, she'll
laugh at you. And the worst is you'll be faced with a pretty
angry chick.
The good news is there's a lot of different ways to start
conversations in way that comes across as natural.
Specifically, I want to give you FIVE ways you can start a
conversation with women...
1- Ask for her opinion
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The opinion opener has gained a lot of popularity since the T.V.
show, "The Pickup Artist."
The funny thing is although women know about this one, it's STILL
very effective.
It works like this. You go up to a woman and simply ask her
opinion on something. The best opinion openers are ones which
get them talking...
...So a good opinion opener can NEVER be answered with a quick
'Yes' or 'No' answer.
Then once she's talking, you use her answers to seed more of
the conversation.
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2- Give her a compliment
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Most pickup lines could be classified as a compliment. For
instance, a typical pickup line would be like: "Did it hurt when
you fell out of heaven and landed on earth?"
Now pickup lines are cheesy because they typically point out a
physical characteristic instead of something which she has a
control over.
The funny thing is compliments can work...IF they're done
correctly.
Usually this finding something UNIQUE that she's DOING that
deserves a compliment. Like her choice in an outfit or
accessories. Or how you noticed that she has confidend body
language.
And the key here is to make a passing comment. Not like your
entire conversation hinges on the outcome of whether she will
be interested or not.
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3- Talking about a dramatic event
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Simply put, Women love drama. Whether it's adventure, excitement
or romance, women enjoy hearing about an interesting event.
You can take advantage of this tendency by using drama to start
a conversation.
For instance, let's say you're with one of your buddies. During
the middle of the conversation, you turn to a nearby girl and
talk about something exciting you just saw. Whether it was a
catfight or simply some guy breaking up with his girlfriend, you
can use this type of opener to engage a girl and get her talking.
Yes, this is pretty similar to the opinion opener. But the
subtle different is telling a good story that'll attract her
interest.
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4- Using your environment and current "situation"
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A Situational Opener is a great conversation starter to use when
you've just witnessed something interesting. It's really the
wildcard of all openers.
It can be used in ANY situation. The key focus here is to pay
attention and look for opportunities to start talking to women.
For instance if you see a guy "crash and burn" with a pickup
line, you can use this opportunity to start talking to the same
group.
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5- Use a direct conversation starter
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The Direct Opener is simple (and preferable by some women).
All you have to do is walk up to a woman and introduce yourself.
Unlike the others, this conversation starter doesn't rely on
gimmicks or trickery. You simply put yourself (for better or
worse) out there and start talking to a woman.
You'd be surprised at how often this works. Women get tired of
hearing lame attempts with their "pick ups" so this one might
set you apart from others.
Well...I hope you learned something from these five ways to start
conversations. The most important lesson is to get out there and
practice. ONLY then will you be able to have the kind of success
you deserve.
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