4 Flirting Tips to Capitalize On Everyday Life

Flirting is one of the most important skills to have for a man on the dating scene. If you know how to flirt with women, it often doesn't even matter if you're good-looking, and you can walk into any environment or any situation and have women warm and open to an advance. But not every guy can get the flirting thing down - to many men out there, it seems like you either have it or you don't.

But that's not exactly true - it just takes doing it a lot so you get used to behaving in a flirty manner. Here are some tips to straighten out your own flirting game.

WHEN HER EX-BOYFRIEND STARTS TEXTING HER

Let's say you've got a great woman in your life and you see great
"long term potential" there for sure.

So then, what's the single most irritating thing that "Murphy's
Law" dictates is likely to happen?

Many guys would answer that question the same way:  Her
ex-boyfriend will surface out of nowhere and start texting
her--obviously interested in getting back together with her.

Who knows?  He might even go so far as to start calling her and
leaving voicemail messages, Facebooking her, and whatever else he
can do to get her attention.

How To PRE-frame Obstacles Into Challenges

Today I'll teach you how to PRE-FRAME obstacles
into challenges before they even become a problem.

       For example, lots of readers have told me how
women often do not like them because they are too short or
too .

       Well, guess what?

       To turn this "ex-force" into attraction, all you
have to do is "turn it around" and act like a challenge
BECAUSE of the reason!

       If you're short, tell a woman she's too tall
for you.

       If you are bald, joke about her having too much
hair. Heck, call her "Cousin It" (from Addam's Family)
and tell her that her hair is scary. Ask her when was the
time she washed her hair!

       If you're older, make it clear that you're only
into mature, responsible women who are NOT the average
stupid bombshell.

       If you're younger, let her know that you want
someone who's excited about life and is not afraid of
adventure.

How To Reframe Obstacles Into Challenges

Today I am going to teach you a very powerful
psychological tactic that could change your life.

       Next time you run into an obstacle that is posing
as a barrier between you and a woman, try to reframe it as
a common obstacle that you could overcome "together".

       For example, let's say you're at a public place
with a woman and things are just heating up, you could
look into her eyes and say, "Too bad we're in a public place,
or I would right now."

How To Use Reverse Psychology To Overcome Obstacles

Today I am going to teach you a third trick.
I am going to show you how to use reverse psychology to
overcome your physical shortcomings. Note that I personally
prefer the last two methods (reframing and pre-framing) over
this one.

       Let's say it is quite obvious that a woman is
hesitating to date you because of your height. After raising
the attraction a bit and creating a bond with a woman,
look at her in the eyes and say, "It's not easy to date
someone shorter than you, is it?"

How to Communicate Effortlessly with People

I get asked a lot about how am I so good at being impromptu with strangers.

People ask me how I am able to so easily and effortlessly communicate with people, and how I am able to take a simple observation and turn it into a conversation.

My response is this: It’s very easy, because I am not censored. I don’t censor myself.

I basically see something and I walk right over to it. It’s almost like when you were a little kid and you first learned how to catch a ball.

Your dad would be standing there, you would be standing there holding out the glove. Your dad would wind up, and your legs would be shaking as the ball came toward you.

What would you do?

You would essentially put the mitt out in front of the ball to try and catch it, or you would cover your face and let the ball hit you in the head (depending on your athletic ability).

In reality, though, all you had to do was allow yourself to react to each pitch as it came toward you. That’s the same thing you have to do with conversation situations.

All I do is allow myself to react to every single situation. I don’t monitor myself. I don’t censor myself. When I see something, I react to it and it comes across as being very genuine.

The problem with most guys is that they’re always over-thinking, trying to figure out what to say or how to say it. By doing that, it never comes across as natural.

You can’t stand there for five or ten minutes before finally spitting out what you hope is the“right thing” to say.

It’s so awkward. 

There is so much apprehension because you spent so much time trying to figure out what the right thing to say is.

There is no right thing to say.

It’s the way you own the words and the way you speak.

It’s the way you come across.

You can say anything, as long as you say it right away and you say it with authority. When you do that, you are going to command attention.

It’s just the way it is.

If you want to really learn this, one of the best things to do is go to any city and look at homeless people. Look at the ones who get attention and who get money.

They are the ones who go to people and say, “Hey, you look like you’re having a great day today.”
Watch homeless people and learn from them.
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How To Lead And Command A Woman

Today's tip will be very simple and short. I'm going
to show you how to "lead" a woman.

       The key to "leading" a woman is to "make up her mind
for her". Here's the truth: even though most of us cry
about wanting freedom for ourselves, we actually want other
people to make decisions for us. (This way, we don't have to
accept responsibility for our own actions.)

       A lot of business people know this, and that's why
they often don't give you many choices when you buy something.
Studies have shown that the more choices you offer a consumer,
the harder it will be to make the sale because the person
will have trouble "making the decision".

5 First Date Mistakes that will Lower Your Value and Kill Your Attraction Game

Within the first 10 minutes of meeting a woman, you can be
your own worst enemy. Say the wrong thing and you'll KILL her
attraction for you. Pick Up Artists call these mistakes
demonstrating lower value (abbreviated DLV).

The key is to be interesting and show value to attract women.
Today you'll see how to eliminate low value verbal mistakes from
your game to prevent you from torpedoing your own seduction
success.

Don't Be A Player; Be A Lover

This is more of a rant.

And this is something that I truly believe. Just how many of you believe that this is a game, just a game? Well, don't count me among you, my friends.

Because all these regular writings on paper is NOT to go and exploit someone. It is to live the sweet inexplicable feeling, to cherish the beautiful moments with that special person, creating the beginning of that journey of your life.