Today's tip will be very simple and short. I'm going
to show you how to "lead" a woman.
The key to "leading" a woman is to "make up her mind
for her". Here's the truth: even though most of us cry
about wanting freedom for ourselves, we actually want other
people to make decisions for us. (This way, we don't have to
accept responsibility for our own actions.)
A lot of business people know this, and that's why
they often don't give you many choices when you buy something.
Studies have shown that the more choices you offer a consumer,
the harder it will be to make the sale because the person
will have trouble "making the decision".
The same principle applies to dating. The more choices
you offer a woman, the more confused she will be. The more
firm you are about something you've already picked out for her,
the more likely she'll go along with it.
For example, let's say you are trying to get a woman
to have one more drink because you think it will help her
relax. However, she's not sure if she can have another drink.
You could give her a choice and ask her if she would
like to have another drink. She'll probably say no.
Or...
You could you visualize her laughing and acting happy
once she has gulped down the drink. Then you say, "Come on,
baby, just have the shot. I know you can do it." Then before
she can react, follow through with action by handing her the
shot glass. Finally, command her by saying "drink it". If you
use the right voice tone, 9 out of 10 times the woman will
obey you and have the shot. (Note: I don't encourage you
getting women drunk. I am just using this common scenario
as an example.)
The key here is to be sincere, direct, and
authorative. If you use a "funny voice", the woman will "play
along" and show you resistence just for the sake of giving
resistence. If you use a nervous voice, she will think that it
is wrong to have the drink. Finally, if you sound too smooth,
she will think that you're "trying something" and build up her
defenses as a result.
To have the correct voice tone when you command a
woman to do something, think of yourself as her protector -
someone who just KNOWS what's good for her. Going back to the
drinks example, think about how much more relaxed she will
feel once she has finished the drink. Or if you're trying to get
a woman in bed, think about how good she will be feeling when
she's crying out your name in bed. Always think about what
SHE will get instead of what you would like to get from here.
Think about HER end state instead of your own.
With a bit of practice, you can use this skill on
men as well. Once you have mastered the ability to encourage
other men to try doing things they wouldn't normally do on
their own, you will find yourself becoming an alpha malewith an ever increasing pack of followers!
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to show you how to "lead" a woman.
The key to "leading" a woman is to "make up her mind
for her". Here's the truth: even though most of us cry
about wanting freedom for ourselves, we actually want other
people to make decisions for us. (This way, we don't have to
accept responsibility for our own actions.)
A lot of business people know this, and that's why
they often don't give you many choices when you buy something.
Studies have shown that the more choices you offer a consumer,
the harder it will be to make the sale because the person
will have trouble "making the decision".
The same principle applies to dating. The more choices
you offer a woman, the more confused she will be. The more
firm you are about something you've already picked out for her,
the more likely she'll go along with it.
For example, let's say you are trying to get a woman
to have one more drink because you think it will help her
relax. However, she's not sure if she can have another drink.
You could give her a choice and ask her if she would
like to have another drink. She'll probably say no.
Or...
You could you visualize her laughing and acting happy
once she has gulped down the drink. Then you say, "Come on,
baby, just have the shot. I know you can do it." Then before
she can react, follow through with action by handing her the
shot glass. Finally, command her by saying "drink it". If you
use the right voice tone, 9 out of 10 times the woman will
obey you and have the shot. (Note: I don't encourage you
getting women drunk. I am just using this common scenario
as an example.)
The key here is to be sincere, direct, and
authorative. If you use a "funny voice", the woman will "play
along" and show you resistence just for the sake of giving
resistence. If you use a nervous voice, she will think that it
is wrong to have the drink. Finally, if you sound too smooth,
she will think that you're "trying something" and build up her
defenses as a result.
To have the correct voice tone when you command a
woman to do something, think of yourself as her protector -
someone who just KNOWS what's good for her. Going back to the
drinks example, think about how much more relaxed she will
feel once she has finished the drink. Or if you're trying to get
a woman in bed, think about how good she will be feeling when
she's crying out your name in bed. Always think about what
SHE will get instead of what you would like to get from here.
Think about HER end state instead of your own.
With a bit of practice, you can use this skill on
men as well. Once you have mastered the ability to encourage
other men to try doing things they wouldn't normally do on
their own, you will find yourself becoming an alpha malewith an ever increasing pack of followers!
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