Sep 22, 2010

Facial Beauty: Are You Facially Attractive Enough?

Yes of course, man. There is.

You cannot deny the facial attraction thing, when you are learning to be a PUA or even trying to be more attractive to women. Facial beauty holds the 'opening' key, if you know what I mean. But is that everything you want to have? NO.

Your facial beauty will create some attraction no doubt, but that's more like curiosity on the part of the woman (remember they are cats, meow!). You have the face of Tom Cruise and women will want to know more about you. But if you think they will jump into the bed, just because you have an angel face, you are SO mistaken, dude.

But yes, if you have a nice face, you will have a heck of an advantage when you are approaching and opening women. Wait! Is it? Not every time unfortunately. You may have a pretty boy face, but the woman you approached DOES NOT want a "boy". She needs a MAN. She will not be that interested in you. 

Proof: I have a female friend who does not like pretty looking guys. She thinks guys should be a little manly and the "pretty" factor deprives a man of his manliness to some extent. That's her opinion though. 

But the point is, not every woman is going to go for you, just because you have a lovely face. As I always say, she will not only look at your face, but at EVERYTHING you are and want to feel that she is being satisfied as a woman. You have to make her feel like a woman deep inside. Even if you are ugly and you can achieve that in a woman, you are the king.

Now of course, there are different types of faces, such as pretty boy, manly, bad boy, good boy and so on. But since we are talking about facial beauty and facial attraction, I would list down three categories as women group a man's face. That should give you an idea where you stand and how you can work on it.
  1. Classically handsome - Okay, now this guy is handsome. Whoever sees him will say that he has got a beautiful face. When he wakes up, he is good looking. When he goes to sleep, he is good looking. No doubt on that. He is someone who MOST women find handsome. And if you are one of them, you are blessed, amen!
  2. Average - This type of face does not have any remarkable beauty and cannot strike up attraction on its own. If you come out in your plain shirt and trousers, it might not be that attractive to women. But spiked hairstyle, ear studs and a trendy goatee might do the trick, that is, going with the latest flow. It needs to be groomed and furnished, and then it can help you in your game. Or I might say, not ruin your game.
  3. Ugly - Accept it, some people are just damn ugly (no offense to them). Even if you groom them well, they might improve a bit but still they will look ugly. Dude, you cannot do anything about it. Just accept it and work on other parts of your game. I am sure you can compensate with a nice physique, good financial condition and active social lifestyle. 
And let me tell you something, most guys fall into the "average" category. And even if you are truly handsome, you may not end up in the "classically handsome" category. Why? Because nobody can be really that good looking to everybody's eyes. But if you have a cute smile, expressive eyes and sharp features, you can add some external grooming to it to make it to reach that "classically handsome" category. 

Anyway, the moral of the story is that you are competing against men of the same category MOST OF THE TIME. So, don't feel low. Just work on your facial beauty, whatever you have, and the facial attraction will take care of itself. But remember still, it is only the "opening" key. Don't depend totally on it. 
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