Variety.
Variety is EVERYTHING and it rings true in ALL aspects of your
interactions with women if you want to turn a friend to be your
girlfriend.
The more emotions she feels around you, the stronger an
impression you'll make. The more interesting things she learns
about you and tells you about herself, the more deeply she'll feel
connected to you.
And the more places she visits and things she does and sees with
you, the longer she'll feel she's known you.
And the longer a woman who is attracted to you has known you, the
more inclined she will be to acting on that attraction and go
further with you into a deeper, more "romantic" relationships.
What you want is for your girl to come with you on a handful of
different adventures, you want to keep stirring up emotions in
her; happy, sad, annoyed, angry, irritated, fun, sensual, sexual,
flirty, etc... it doesn't really matter.
Have you had friends who just couldn't seem to see eye to eye
with one another, who couldn't stand one another, always arguing,
quarrelling and suddenly one day you see the both of them hooking
up together as a couple?
I have.
Many times.
Why and how did it happen?
The tension was always there, emotions were stirred, without them
realizing it, the constant provocation of emotions were actually
setting up the stage for a deeply, passionate relationship.
So again, it's really more about MEMORIES you create in her and
less about the TIME you know each other that sparks attraction in
a woman.
Sharing more experiences in a shorter amount of time makes a
closer, DEEPER connection.
The premise of distorting a woman's senses to spark attraction is
based on a psychological phenomenon known as Response Facilitation
(RF).
This is the process of strengthening the dominant response in a
particular situation. You are going to use it to strengthen her
emotional responses and get her to REALLY like you and see you
a little more than a friend.
This is how it works.
Understand that emotions basically consist of two parts: a
cognitive component (what you're thinking) and a physiological
component (what you're feeling).
The cognitive, "thinking component" determines WHAT emotion
you're feeling... while the physiological, "feeling component"
determines the INTENSITY of that emotion.
For example, if you're thrilled with someone, you're thinking
all kinds of "exciting" thoughts about that person (This is
great fun! Can't wait to do this again!).
You're also experiencing certain physiological sensations
throughout your body that indicate that you're excited such as
an increased heart rate, increased blood pressure, mild sweating,
adrenaline surging throughout your veins, etc..
And the more intense the physiological aspects become, the more
exhilaration you FEEL.
The state of being thrilled has more to do with the cognitive,
"thinking" component, than with the physiological, "feeling"
component.
You're thinking "thrilling" thoughts first and your body starts
reacting to what you are thinking.
Use states of PHYSIOLOGICAL arousal to intensify her emotional
responses. Remember, the arousal part of emotions is pretty
similar from one emotion to the next, and the amount of arousal
present determines the INTENSITY of the experienced emotion.
Now that you understand this, you'll have to think of ways to
come up with situations where she is highly likely to experience
increased levels of arousal, and to pair YOURSELF with that
arousal.
So, in a nutshell, you should be able to take a girl who likes
you (someone who has mild physiological arousal when you're
around) and make her REALLY like you, by adding "extra" arousal
to the situation.
The extra arousal will add up with that that is already present
so as to increase the intensity of her emotional response toward
you.
So how do you go about it doing it?
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You do it by simply doing enjoyable AND arousing things together
by having fun AND amping up the teasing, flirting and sexual
tension when you're together.
Most of these activities involve doing something FUN and
extremely enjoyable that appeals to her five senses.
FUN and arousal, if you don't already know, always leads to LOVE
and PASSION.
For example...
You can take her to an amusement park.
The crazy rollercoasters, drenching waterslides, breath-taking
Ferris wheels will not only increase her heart rate but also her
sense of arousal.
It gives you both a chance to hug one another, to accidentally
touch, kiss, hold one another, and so on...
As you're both getting onboard the rollercoaster, you give her
your hand, she grabs it, you hold on to it, you look deep into
her eyes, if she doesn't let go, it means she likes it.
As you're flying up and down, if she's comfortable with you, she
might hug on to you and you grab on tightly to her and bring her
closer into you.
You can playfully kiss her and tell her "Janice, this is to calm
you down".
The smallest of things, the simplest of things works wonders, the
activities you're doing together will give you unlimited
opportunities and chances to go kino, to get physical with her,
unlike everyday shopping and boring talk will ever do.
It won't look like you're taking advantage or that you're trying
to put a move and on her because it's as NATURAL as it can ever
be!
It's really a very powerful way to turn a friend into a lover.
In other ways to turn a friend to a girlfriend, you need to
intensify her feelings; take her to these places so that she
loses track of time passing.
Take her to a place where there are constant ACTIVITY and
MOVEMENT so she gets caught up in the atmosphere - embark on some
kind of journey together, distract her mind with new sights, new
people, new experiences.
The pace of your seduction and attraction effort must pick up at
a certain moment to create a whirling effect in her mind.
The point is for you to get creative in creating OPPORTUNITIES for
yourself in order for her to see a WHOLE NEW SIDE to you that
she's NEVER seen and experienced before.
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