Oct 2, 2010

How a Woman Rates a Man

In the seduction community, you must have across terms such as Hb1, Hb2…Hb10, etc. If you are new to the pickup community and do not know what these terms mean, HB stands for hot babe, and the number you see suffixed to it is just a rating that is based on her looks mainly.

Why such rating?

First, it is believed though all women are inherently different from each other, you can actually categorize them, when it comes to their psychology behind dating and attraction. All Hb10s will more or less have the same attributes, as will the Hb4s.

Second, we men judge women based solely on looks, because that is and should be the primary concern in our choosing a mating partner. Well, noteworthy as it is, looks does not necessarily mean any specific set of eyes, nose or hair. We connote looks with fertility. 

The more fertile a woman ‘looks’ to be, the more attracted we become and higher the rating she gets.

But the question is how a woman rates you as a man.

First, her rating equation works like:

(X + Y)/2 = your rating

Where ‘x’ stands for your looks rating and ‘y’ stands for your personality rating.

 Let’s say you are 7 on your looks, that is, 3.5, and you have a personality that scores 8 on her chart. In total, you are a 7.5 to her.

You must know that a woman’s attraction is more of a volume knob. Each and every action of yours will have an impact on her attraction knob, and it will decide whether it increases or decreases. That depends on your whole essence, not just your looks.

One more thing to know...

Your rating is always decided by her self-esteem. If she thinks she is the most beautiful person on this earth and she can get any guy she wants, she will not entertain your approach even if you are a 8.5+

But sometimes, even some HB8.5 does not have that strong a self-esteem and she will deem you to be a 9 when to someone else, you might be only 6. It just depends.

But here's the biggie. 

What does your whole essence depend on? And suppose you are ugly, as anything and you don’t have that much money, what is that one thing that will always stand out and you will always make women weak on their knees (and this is NO dating guru talk, this is the truth!). That is your strong masculine sexuality – your Alphaness.

Alphaness is not about pushing around others or being a complete jerk. Some talk about dominance. But I believe it is not about try-hard dominance that does the trick. But rather, your attitude that you already higher in the scale and that you are not denying it is what matters. When you give away the vibe that you are better than others are, it is when you are an alpha. You are not trying hard to show that. You know that. Your demeanor communicates your Alphaness – that is your personality.

You ooze social power. Sometimes, if you are a CEO of a company, people may pick on you. Sometimes, even if you are a plumber, people respect you when you talk. That is what is called alpha masculinity!

And women dig alpha men. Women thrive on that masculine dominance. And any man that “insinuates” social masculine dominance is attractive to them.

And a woman rates a man mainly on his alpha-ness. Period!

That’s how a woman rates a man.
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