Oct 28, 2010

How to Use 'Option Limitation' to Maximize Your Success with Women

Getting girls to feel an attraction for you - that isn't simply
based on your looks, the contents of your wallet or the car
you've got parked outside - can be really tricky.

After all, how are men supposed to know what each girl's looking
for without asking?

If you DID ask, you know your chances would be small, after all,
no girl wants a guy approaching her with needy questions - she
wants a confident man who somehow seems to know what she's
after and can give it to her.

So how do you do it?

How do you become the man that effortlessly exudes confidence,
dominance and presence, without turning into an arrogant poser or
desperate wannabe?

The answer lies in psychology. It's at the heart of all
persuasive social situations, and absolutely central to the
success of any guy's attempts at attracting and seducing women.

Quite simply, by learning the CORRECT psychological rules,
principles and tactics, any guy can play and WIN at the game of
seduction.

For example, let's look at one such psychological technique, that
used correctly boosts any guy's chance of getting a girl's
number or hooking up with her at a later date by at least 50%,
each and every time he uses it. It's called option
limitation and works on the following principle of human nature:

When someone's presented with only a single choice, often their
natural reaction will be to rebel against it and go their own way.

However, when given 2 or 3 options, the opposite occurs: they
feel their intellectual freedom has been respected and they make
their choice from the variety of options they've
been presented with.

You can use this universal psychological principle when
picking-up or seducing a woman by carefully constructing how
you pose important questions or phrases while talking to
her...

For example, most men think saying: "Can I have your number?" 
is an okay way to finish a conversation that's gone well with
a girl. But a much more powerful and effective way of saying
the same thing would be to use option limitation. Something
like:

"It's been nice to meet you. Shall we swap numbers or maybe
grab a bite to eat and a drink tomorrow?" 


What you're doing is presenting the girl with a choice between
good and better - whichever she says yes to, you win. If you
only give her one option, as in the first example, she's likely
to create her own alternative, which means there's a chance she
won't say yes to the option you gave her. When she
subconsciously recognises that she's been given a choice
between multiple outcomes, she feels her intellectual freedom
has been respected and she chooses one of them.

So, always use option limitation to give the impression there's
a variety of options available to the girl - even though each
one is fine as far as you're concerned. And to strengthen the
effect of option limitation, always try to separate the choices
you give the girl with the word "or." When people hear "or"
they automatically recognise that they need to make a choice,
and therefore do just that.

Option limitation is just one example of how, whether they know
it or not, men who are successful with women CREATE that success 
for themselves - not through luck or good fortune.
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