Do Looks Matter To Women?

Amazing story to share with you guys about the question “do looks matter to women?”  Honestly, I think my biggest “eye-roller” comment that I make is when I tell men that looks do not matter to women. But it’s true.

I’ve said it a million times that yes looks DO matter, but only in the first 5 seconds of interaction, because for the first 5 seconds we have nothing else to base our perception of you on.  But something interesting happens after the first 5 seconds.  A man’s face starts to morph, as we start to see his character.  Good character gets more attractive. Bad character gets down right ugly.

I got an email from Ed the other day, telling me a story about how he used to an “eye roller” but since a recent experience has changed his POV.  I told him his email was an amazing story that I had to share with the rest of my guys and asked him if I could post it.

He luckily said YES! Here’s his story:

Ed’s Email:

Hey Marni, I’ve written you a couple of emails, and you respond to my tweets
a-lot. So first, thanks for that, your advice is awesome!

Quick Story:

I remember you writing that the reason women will say that their best friends
are beautiful even if most guys don’t think they are good-looking at all because
of the way they FEEL about that friend of theirs. Here’s a REALLY good example
of that:

I’m watching the Major League Baseball All-Star game, afterwards, Erin Andrews
interviews one of the players of the game. She is gorgeous. My mom responds
“Ugh, she is so ugly” I tell my mom she’s crazy, and mom starts saying “She’s
old, her profile’s bad, look at her mouth!  She is SO BORING”.

I remember what you said so I asked my mom: “Wait, you just don’t like her…I’m
curious, Mom, can you name a celebrity or women you dislike but is also
beautiful?”

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