Approach Anxiety is something most of the men feel when they are out to approach a woman. What is Approach Anxiety? Hands sweating, hearting pounding, lips sealed, and eyes ogling at that delectable woman yonder…you want to go talk to her but you JUST CANNOT. That’s Approach Anxiety, a big sticking point for many.
Why does Approach Anxiety come up when we think of approaching women? A whole of scientific basis behind that…am not going to discuss that in this post, I am keeping it for some other post. For the time being, just know that it is hardwired into our system since the primordial times and it’s something you cannot circumvent or solve EVER.
It will STAY there. This sticking point will STICK forever.
And let me tell you it is really clever and dangerous when it comes to your being to approaching women. Why? When you are a newbie or AFC, you won’t understand what is happening and everything you don’t approach that woman, you curse yourself. You REGRET!
But let me tell you that it is far better than the guise of approaching anxiety in the later stages of your learning the game. When you are well into the game, your approaching anxiety is NOT going to go away, but it starts to feed your ego and stops you from going for it. Let me explain. At first, when you are a newbie and you can’t approach her, you beat yourself up. You feel a lack inside. But some time into the game, you start to feel powerful and you start to qualify woman. And this is where the problem starts.
How? Your ‘approach anxious’ brain starts telling you how you disqualify the woman on the street or in the café, every time you think of approaching her. You would NOT curse you but you will rather feel sort of proud and sad that she was not your type. While in reality, you aren’t even sure if she was. Damn! You didn’t even talk to her.
You start creating your own reality where you are Don Juan, Casanova or whatever. The only problem is that you DON’T have girls yet in your life.
Yes, I was in this phase. I tried a lot of approaching tactics and nothing worked. I even tried the Gunwitch method, where you get into intense sexual state when you see the woman and then approach her. But my experience says if you consciously do this, you will be stuck ever into the phase of getting horny. You will never feel the urge of approaching her. She is standing over there. You are watching her. Your dick is pumping but you still don’t approach her. There’s something that binds you still. You know why this happens? It’s because you are THINKING too much about it. You are thinking too much about getting horny. You are thinking too much about the method. And let me tell you what WORKED for me.
The only thing that is going to work here is the…
…3-second rule
Yes, this is the rule which tells you that you SHOULD approach a woman within 3 seconds of seeing her. It’s as if you like her at first sight, you approach her. Otherwise, you don’t do it. It’s that simple.
Don’t think about it too much. Just make sure you are aware that you are going to approach women if you come by one. And when you see her, just repeat ‘Go for it’ and then just go…!
Yes, the only way-out of approach anxiety sticking point is to NOT to think and just DO it.
Follow what Nike says: Just Do It!
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