The other day I was thinking about something. Well, my friends say that I think a lot. And recently I got a very strange and likeable compliment from one of my friends, that is, I THINK like a WOMAN! She said that I could delve into a woman’s mind and speak for her. I take that as a compliment.
So, I was thinking…and I was thinking about how some people helplessly fall in love with a woman, and some just pickup women for quick lays. You cannot blame anyone of them because if you look at it, both of them are very honest at their approach.
As Mystery of Mystery Method says, just treat it as a game. In any game, you need to learn the skill. So, focus on learning the skill and you will become a master soon. That’s what most pickup artists ultimately believe in. They perceive women as objects, subjects of prey. The more they prey on, the greater a player they are.
But tell this to the people who have suffered a breakup recently. They have a very different viewpoint, and tell you what, I completely relate with them. I have been in love myself. I just love that feeling, so novel and refreshing. I love the pain, the anticipation in love. I love to fall in love with a woman. I never condoned being a player. Maybe I mingle with a lot of girls, but I strongly believe that I am not a player.
I love the feminine energy. I am lover of women, much like Zan Perrion theory of ‘celebrating women’. I also love to love women. I love to celebrate their womanhood. I love to enjoy their femininity. I love women, and I surrender my power to them. When I call myself a player, it is as if I’m using a woman. I don’t use women. I just crave for that beautiful experience that we can both share. I just love to FEEL.
By the way, in this post, I am rather ruminating on the thought and I am not at all in the mood of giving any advice. I am just THINKING, damn it. You are free to choose what you want. If you want to pickup women, you are welcome of course. You will find some great material, blogs, articles here, which are just on picking up women.
Tell know what, you should rather fall in love with a woman. Why? Firstly, women NEVER want to be picked up just for a quick sex, unless they are real frustrated themselves. Women love romance and I know that from my own experience. When you are looking to pickup women, you make it look like you are needy, you want something from her and you make it look cheap. You should rather focus on the GREAT experience that you both can have when you are together. She wants that too. You don’t need to act asexual ever. You can never focus on getting her. The more you highlight that, the more desperate you become in her eyes. You WANT her. You never need her. She wants to see the desire in your eyes, not the foolish ignorant obsession with her.
Let me tell you something. I give my girls compliments, send them flowers and buy them chocolates, spontaneous and thoughtful…lavishly, sometimes. I just love to make them feel good. That’s how you have a great chemistry with a woman. That’s how you fall in love with a woman.
It is not how you make her feel but it is how you feel as well. Falling in love with a woman is a very sweet feeling. You feel tensed, you feel confused and you feel airy. I have been in love, I am in love and I fall in love with women quite often still now. Love is not to be inhibited and controlled in your actions. Love is to LET GO, which you don’t do when you are thinking of what opener to use or what routine to go for next.
Yes, there will be some women who will not appreciate your falling in love with them, your true desire for them. But that’s okay. One thing that you learn by being in the game is that you can NEVER have everything you want. You NEVER own them. If you like her, you propose. She either accepts or disposes. You learn to accept the rejection in your way. You enjoy the journey and go on with your quest.
When you pickup women, you are trying to act as one machine boosted by your ego or by some false limiting belief that deters you from enjoying the woman you pick up. Even if you pick up a woman, you don’t enjoy the pickup, because you don’t know your purpose and you are like a lost puppy. Don’t be that puppy.
Fall in love with a woman and embark on a new interesting journey! Remember, when you pickup women, you don’t fall in love with women. But when you fall in love with a woman, you have obviously picked her up.
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