A little explanation of the Coquette Game

The very first thing that you have to understand about the coquette game is that the very essence of the game is about validating the seduced. In this type of seduction, you are not really using any quality of yours to seduce the other person. Rather, you are sexually validating the other person. Well, it might not be sexual validation only. The coquette game is based on the concept of validation and approval.

Now, making someone qualify to yourself can be done in two ways: first, you have too high perceived-value and she feels the need to qualify herself to you. Second, you disapprove her, push her hard to get her to stand up and prove herself.

The first one, you don’t have to really do anything. All you have to do just sit and watch, keeping a poker face where she at times feels that she has gained your approval whereas at other times, she feels a doubt. In the latter case, you have to really stand up first of all and then challenge her. You have to disapprove her in a way, where she “feels the NEED” to qualify herself. If you are emotionally push her away too much or too far, you will literally snap the string and she feels insulted, de-validated and rejected. That’s not what your intention should be. You should be using a straight face, disinterested body language, controlled challenging…with a base of comfort and pleasure…so that she stands up to your challenge. She should feel that you are qualifying her and not rejecting her. At this time, you are being basically dominant over her reality, and throw in some strong displays of sexual interest to turn her on even more and hint at the pleasure and hope of getting back your validation.

The TWO essential keys often neglected in the game:

1. You have to be high on self-esteem and have a very cocky body language. Cockiness here means that you have to be sure of yourself, not even one inch of seeking approval.
2. Sometimes, you cannot start with strong qualification. With some comfort or shy or unadventurous girls, you may have to start with some light comfort and qualification, and then move on to breaking rapport and strong qualification. In that case, you can focus on having fun at first, just creating some basic comfort and keep fun flirtation going on to keep the sexual vibe. But at this stage the sexual vibe is not necessary, but it can be helpful when you are sexually validating in the ‘strong qualification’ phase. In the initial stages, you can just create the ‘together-rapport’ vibe. Then move on to the strong qualification where you break this rapport and challenge her to come up to your level.

From this moment onwards, the coquettish game starts in essence and the fun begins.
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